The Art of Letting God

Roses are red,

Violets are blue,

I can’t imagine,

My life without YOU, my love.

The ‘Dating’ phase is all roses in the park. Rosy, sweet and seems like both can’t get enough of each other.

In spite of that, do you really, really, really know the true colours of your partner?

Dating is much like “false advertising”, projecting the only BEST version of yourself for the sake of your relationship and pretending to like something which you don’t.

And it’s going to be tiring and losing the spark in the relationship

So is it okay to be radically honest about yourself? Is ‘Halal Dating’ an acceptable concept and what are the principles on it? What about the dos and don’ts of Taaruf that you may not know?

As always, tune in to @miziwahidpodcast with @lisasurihani for TTAL sharing. Share the love by sharing your insights on this episode by tagging us, we’ll truly appreciate it.

p/s: spoiler alert; Ustaz Mizi shared ‘How I Met Your Mother (read;his wife) in this episode;). Don’t miss it out.

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When love is unstoppable between lovers, the chemistry covalent bond is formed and the connection just feels right. Even if their interests are different, they are certain that this is not a fake love. The realisation hits different when you find yourself asking if she/he is the one. Can this feeling of “just right” be trusted? Why are couples encouraged to have honest and vulnerable discussions even if it leads to argument? Let’s not ignore the red flags from your partner if they’re short-tempered, abusive, impatient, unreliable. Having expectations for changes to happen immediately once you get married may be unrealistic. In this episode of TTAL, @miziwahidpodcast and @lisasurihani discuss how to know if your partner is the one for you. Please leave us a review if you like this episode or screenshot and tag us on Instagram ❤️ 

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Finding a life partner as smooth as butter is a dream come true for anyone.

The realist will opine bluntly, "Hey optimist dreamer... in this harsh reality, fairy tale love does not revolve around you".

Rejections, disappointments, losing, ghosting, and waiting games are part of the risks when finding your better half.

How does it get easier during this unprecedented pandemic #stayathome situation? Where social media and dating apps are probably the only platforms we can rely on...

Tune in to @miziwahidpodcast as @lissurihani and I help to "locate" your missing partner.

Smile and have faith in Allah as everything falls perfectly in His timing 🤲🏼✨

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Approaching the second part of TTAL, most of you may be ready for love? Ready for this lifetime "ibadah" which is marriage and Prophet Muhammad SAW loves his ummah to get nikah. 

So, where do you start in the quest for real love?

 It starts with WHY. Yes, your BIG WHY intentions to get married.

 To know what you want and do not want in your future partner qualities is as crucial as it can be. Life happens and in this realistic love journey, the risks are unavoidable, and to note that it is perfectly normal for sometimes you feel to fall out of love. 

Tune in to @miziwahidpodcast with @lisasurihani as we try to help cherish every single moment you have in the quest for real love.

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From the previous episode, we understood that the dynamic of self-love is almost fundamental for all of us to recover and unwind from a hectic day.

 Now, do you think we need to bring the self-love concept as one of the pre-requisite for interpersonal marriage? If two people who don't love themselves get into marriage, will they build a secure and loving relationship and free from any insecurities of their partnership? 

Why by only loving ourselves, we will be able to live free from any attention and compliments from a complete stranger? And why a genuine "I'm proud of you" from parents matter to the children?

Tune in to @miziwahidpodcast to catch this eye-opening episode with @lisasurihani.

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In the name of Allah, the Lord of Mercy, the Bestower of Mercy. Allah is Ar-Rahman (The Most Merciful) and Ar-Rahim (The Specifically Merciful), the attributes of Allah SWT that He wants to know the most. Here is the episode to Love, love of God, God's love for us, love for ourselves and all of His creations, a sharing of hope against the despair of His Divine. Tune in to @miziwahidpodcast to this simply wonderful, enlightening, and uplifting love from an Islamic perspective with @lisasurihani. 

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So, how's the first episode and part of TTAL? Eager to know more? Lisa and I will be discussing the dynamics and experiences of love in family and friendships to a grace level. A level where human’s flaws and weaknesses are being appreciated and accepted.

Love... is a risk after all. The unrequited love we experienced taught us how to accept rejections gracefully without hurting our self-esteem.

How do we learn to accept others'  flaws and weaknesses? The word NO is direct and how do we handle it? 

Tune in to find out more and keep sharing the insights with your family and friends by tagging us @miziwahidpodcast.

*This episode is brought to you by House Of Spectacles. If you need a proper diagnosis of your eye condition or looking for a new pair of glasses, contact them today! Call 8825 1701 or you can visit them at House Of Spectacles located at 390 Victoria Street, Golden Landmark #01-39 (S) 188061