What happens when your partner’s brain is wired differently than yours? In this episode, hosts Ali and Ros explore the unique dynamics of neuro-mixed (or neuro-distinct) couples, where one partner is on the autism spectrum and the other is neurotypical.

We move past the stereotypes to look at the daily reality of loving across neurological lines, offering a roadmap for couples looking to bridge the gap between two different ways of experiencing the world.

00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity in Relationships

03:16 Navigating Change and Anxiety

05:13 Sensory Differences and Intimacy

07:54 Communication Challenges and Alexithymia

10:52 Processing Speed and Relationship Dynamics

13:57 Fairness, Justice, and Conflict

16:50 Social Engagement and Exhaustion

18:31 Takeaway Tips for Couples

📍 Resources mentioned:

Embrace Autism | The ultimate autism resource

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Hosts: Alison Bickers and Ros Peckham at www.mytempo.co.uk