Does online dating sucks?

People tend to choose dating online, kasi minsan dahil they are being shy to talk to someone in public and that is the easiest way to get to know someone, but minsan naiisip natin na is it really possible na magwork ang online dating? Ano nga ba ang down fall din nito?

Let's talk about why online dating sucks.

Paano nga ba maging productive kapag sobrang heart broken ka,? Wala kang gana, masakit, but may choice ba tayo? I guess oo, ang magpatuloy kahit mahirap, bumangon kahit ang bigat.

In this new episode, let me help you deal with this thing, I might share some tips para makaahon ka. Kasi at the end of the day? Natuto ka

Let's discuss the truth behind each trending relationship metaphor, theory, and Psychological concept and what interesting lectures we can get from popularizing these internet discussions. Moreso, what does it say about our current generation?

Leaving the Restaurant, Orange People Theory, Taxi Cab Theory, Iceberg Theory of Personality, and Roman Empire.

Finally, we all deserve distance. A moment to put ourselves first. Detachment is a sincere commitment to yourself when people around you are overwhelming. Some forms of detachment were already embedded in us since our childhood years. It might become a form of trauma response from all the toxic attachments we have around people. Learning to channel detachment not just a trauma response, but a form of self-care, is one of the ways to distance ourselves without developing maladaptive behaviors. Practicing detachment is not something to feel sorry about when it helps us recover and heal.

Growing up I have this tendency to get sadder. I've been through series of obstacles and delimmas, I strongly fear that it may not get any better in the future. It's in my nature to interpret things with much more depth to them. Change, aging, graduation, breakups, and fallout. I'm the most sensitive person in the room. I process these things longer than the people I know which has always made me wonder if life is getting better for me from here on.

I hope not.

Part of my healing process is knowing my flawed behaviors and irrational ways of thinking. Some behaviors unfortunately persist because they were modeled to us, or because of their unconscious nature —we don't have the complete awareness. In this episode, I discussed how I unlearned some behaviors that I thought were alright, and In this process, I developed a more rounded well-being. Why do we overexplain? Why do we romanticize a simple gesture? Any behavior that we thought would be forever, has its limits. Part of it is because we learn and we grow. 💚🪴

A breakdown of notes and lessons I have from my long-term friendships. What made me categorize my friends according to the degree of our interaction, what makes a friendship SOOO good? Green flags, and some of intruiging questions being asked to friends. What are the reasons why we outgrow some of our friends? Stories and unavoidable truth for sticking around the people you trust and honor. Some Friendships are complicated.

There is a Psychological perspective as to why Falling Out of Love happen even in long-term relationships. Let us unpack the dynamic of the relationship when one partner is starting to fall out of love, and reasons why they are slowly fading away. Does Falling out of Love always lead to a breakup? Listen to what you can do when the relationship is starting to fall out.

One of the MOST requested Topics. This episode highlights how people with specific attachment style operate in the relationship and the misconceptions that arise in knowing our attachment style. This gives advices as to how you can assess yourself in the relationship with your specific attachment style. Attachment is the bond we develop with someone (Caregiver or a Partner) who provides us the needs for emotional and social development. The Attachment Style determines our pattern of behavior as we operate in the relationship and how we interpret and exchange needs with our partner. Understanding Attachment Style can help us foster an open communication in the relationship and build awareness to obtain healthy emotional and social well-being

Disclaimer: The host is not a practicing or a licensed therapist. He has a degree in Psychology and adequate experience in Research and content creation.

Welcome! To the first episode of the Art of Validation

Disclaimer: Virtual Kuya is a not a practicing or a licensed therapist. He has a degree in Psychology, and has adequate experience in research and content creation.

This episode will tackle contexts and theories that may, or

References:

Feist, Jess, Feist, Gregory F., Roberts, Tomi-Ann. (2018). Theories of Personality, 9th ed (9). : McGraw-Hill International Editions