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QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around :) Y'all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more in-depth answers than what I can often convey in a single comment or 1-minute clip. In this episode, I'm going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic aspects of D/s for anxiety and panic attacks.
Links for this episode:
Article: How BDSM Might Benefit Your Health and Improve Your Relationship
Dissertation: Negotiating Self: An Exploration of Women ' s Perceptions of Their Feminist and Submissive Identities Article: BRAT BDSM: Everything You Want to Know About Brats Article: A Dom's Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM (caring for their sub) _____________________Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Erotica, Audios, Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects!
Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST)
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
The inner mind of an erotica writer is a strange and adventurous place... and when you combine that with a nerdy service sub with brat tendencies, well.. you get an episode like this! π In this episode, we are going to take a trip down the rabbit hole and see what kind of fetishes, kinks (like Acousticophilia and Autagonistophilia), and provocative prose we find! I'll tell you about my newest paranormal erotica, "Dark Heat", the deliciousness I found while researching new kinks to write about, and give you just a taste of the audio version of the book!
WARNING: THIS EPISODE (like all my episodes really π ) IS INTENDED FOR 18+ AND IS EXPLICIT IN NATURE.
pst... you can also check out the video version!
Links for this episode:
A Kinky Fetish Dictionary
Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Erotica, Audios, Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects!
Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST)
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
If you haven't heard, OnlyFans just announced a massive shift in their terms of service that has models, *corn* stars, and spicy accountants scrambling to answers questions. It will no longer be allowing sexually explicit content as of Oct. 1st and creators have until December to remove offensive content that goes against the TOS.
Questions like: Where do we go? What happens to all the content that my fans have paid for if I have to delete it all? Will OF refund the fans or will I have to? What about fans that purchased a 3, 6, or 12-month membership for content that will no longer be allowed? We will talk about it all here!
With my background in technology and platform testing, I took to the quest of running through use-case testing of nearly every reputable alternative to OF that I could find and will break down each one in this episode, as well as discuss the business decision that just might put OnlyFans under. I also discuss what the hell happened to my IG account (yup.. spoiler alter... It's banned... New one is linked!)... is Mercury in retrograde or what?!
Check out the YouTube version!
Links for this episode:
Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects!
Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST)
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
Ok folx, we are about to get downright filthy! In this episode, I'm going to talk about my soon-to-be-released "Mega" BDSM checklist and just how deep into the rabbit hole my research into highly specific and little-known kinks and fetishes took me! I share some of the new ones I am so glad I discovered, then I pull out one of my favorite floggers from my "Toy Trunk" and discuss some favorite uses for it ;) This episode is highly explicit... you have been warned.
Check out the YouTube version to also see the flogger I showcase in this episode. :)
Links for this episode:
Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more!
Twitch with me!
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
It's no secret that fitness and health is a passion of mine! I get asked every so often from my IG and TikTok followers what I'm doing to stay fit. Here is the full overview of my fitness routine each week, lifestyle, nutrition, supplements, and my favorite skin routine for my body! This might be my most vanilla episode ever lol. Peep my YouTube for the video version ;)
Links for this episode:
Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more!
Products:
Vegan Power Pro - Protein Powder
Opti-Greens 50
L - Carnitine (Pineapple Coconut is my favorite!)
Ignition
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Twitch with me!
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
Wow, it has been a minute! I am so sorry for the hiatus, but I am back and with more content than ever! Let's have a gab session about what happened over the summer, and what's in store for all the platforms! I'm going to give you the down and dirty details about our trip to Napa, CA in July and how we incorporated D/s into our travels and experiences. I'll also tell you a funny story about how a submissive, a Dom, and a bartender walk into a winery... ;) Grab and drink and kick back... this one is going to take a while!
Links for this episode:
Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more!
JAM Cellars - Give the Butter Chardonnay and Sugar Desert Wines a try!
Alpha Omega Winery - Everything is recommended... and if you can set up a tasting, you won't regret the experience!
Orin Swift Winery - Such a unique wine, it's worth a try!
La Toque - Amazing is an understatement... there is no wonder this is a Micheline Star Restaurant!
Oxbow Public Market in Napa
Twitch with me!
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. Here, I'm going to cover some of the differences, and ways you can incorporate a subtle nod to your desired lifestyle or identity while in the dating scene.
Links for this episode:
Follow Dating Kinky on IG at https://www.instagram.com/datingkinkyofficial
Visit the blog articles on dating in kink and D/s on the NCSF Site
Kasidie (primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too and events are regularly updated for kink/play parties)
Swing Lifestyle (again, primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too)
Cosmopolitan released a list of kink/fetish/BDSM couples and dating aps located HERE that's worth a look.
Twitch with me!
Video Podcast YouTube Version
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
This is my 3-week update! I'll cover surgery day, post-surgery experiences, surprises along the way, and how I'm feeling at 3 weeks post-surgery, and how I'm handling my Factor 5 Lidein disorder with recovery. I understand this topic is controversial and only ask for kindness and respect as a human. I do not recommend anyone getting this procedure done without taking the time to clearly think about their options, risks, and potential complications along the way, as well as ensuring they are in a healthy mental space. I am only sharing my personal journey and experience and recognize others may have judgments, however, I am a human with feelings and ask for kindness, please.
YouTube Version
In this episode, I cover the amazing subject of masturbation! From making time to feel sexy, how erotic dance can help anyone get into their sexuality, to my personal joy with mutual masturbation! I also talk about some new discoveries such as body sex and creating a kink conversation template (link coming this week!) Finally, I discuss the important consideration of porn literacy! This is a jam-backed episode!
Links for this episode:
Follow Ryn at https://twitter.com/RynPfeuffer
Follow Dodson and Ross at https://twitter.com/DodsonandRoss
Or visit their site relating to #bodysex at https://dodsonandross.com/
Twitch with me!
Video Podcast YouTube Version
Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Psssβ¦. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunesβ subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing "Naughty Librarian" series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
_________________________________________________
Affiliate Links β Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Lovehoney β Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
The Stockroom β BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
Lovense β Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe β Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Dr. K's Official Goodreads page β For the Book Lover
Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
Social Links
Exclusive Content β Discord β Social Links
Disclaimer: This is my personal journey with getting a breast augmentation with a lift. I ask for kindness, compassion, and non-judgmental comments. I understand some may not like my choice, but please remember I am a human with feelings. This is a vulnerable topic to many. As a Doctor of Education, I understand the diversity of opinions that exist on this topic. This is a deeply personal journey and I hope it helps provide context into the process for others. YouTube Video Version on my YouTube.
YouTube VLOG Version
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