The Awkward Small Group Leader

Remembering students’ names is NOT one of my natural talents… so I made a simple practical system.

In this episode, I’m sharing the simple (and slightly obsessive) way I learn and remember names in student ministry—and why I think something as small as remembering a name can make a student feel seen, known, and like they belong.

Have you ever stood there thinking, “Wait... did anyone even notice I was here?” Yeah. Me too. In this episode, I share the story of a night where nobody came to me for prayer and how God used that awkward moment to remind me that ministry isn't about being noticed—it’s about being faithful.

Welcome to the very first episode of The Awkward Small Group Leader! In this introduction, I share the heart behind the podcast, why I embraced the word awkward, and my hope for leaders who sometimes leave youth group wondering, "Am I doing this right?" If you've ever felt unqualified, quiet, or out of place in ministry, this podcast is for you. Let's learn to faithfully point students to Jesus—one awkward Wednesday at a time.