Loving Without Fear: Why Guarding Your Heart Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is

In This Episode:

We’re closing out the Soft Girl Medicine series with one final truth bomb:

If you think love means guarding your heart — you might not be ready to receive it.

In this raw and soulful episode, I dive into:

Why “loving hard” is often just a trauma response in disguise

How trying to protect your heart in love is a sign you still need healing

Why self-love is the foundation of open, healthy love

The difference between attachment and connection

And why your solitude might actually be a cage in disguise

Plus: Why I’m still rooting for love, even in my single season — and how my heart stays wide open without fear.

This one’s for the women who’ve been told they’re too much — and the ones who’ve started believing it.

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🎙️ Episode 27: The Good Girl Lie — How It Benefits Everyone But Her

Welcome back to The Badass Broadcast, where we burn through the bullshit and rise into our raw, real, and unstoppable truth.

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking one of the most damaging lies women are raised to believe — that being “the good girl” will somehow protect us, reward us, or guarantee us a happy ending.

Let’s be clear:Good doesn’t mean safe.Good doesn’t mean worthy.And good doesn’t mean fulfilled.

Queen Lady Tee gets all the way real about how this conditioning steals our voice, drains our power, and silences our rage — all while benefiting everyone but us.

🔥 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

Why being "good" is often just silent suffering in a prettier package

The dangerous connection between “good girl” training and internalized shame

How society, jobs, family, and partners benefit from your obedience

The difference between accountability and shame

What happens when the good girl finally snaps — or disappears

A reminder that being empowered doesn’t mean being bad — it means being real

🧘🏽‍♀️ Self-Check Moment:

Who benefits from your silence?Who taught you that love is earned through self-abandonment?And who might you become if you chose yourself — loudly and unapologetically?

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WTF Wednesday just hit different this week.

In this unapologetically raw, real, and radically reflective episode, Queen Lady Tee comes in hot (even through a head cold) with a sick-girl rant turned full-body purge of 2025.

She’s not holding back.

We’re talking:

What it’s really like being a sick single mom of five

Why she’s saying goodbye to toxic Facebook groups and spiritual show-and-tells

What we’re leaving behind in 2025 (hint: it’s a LOT)

And the sacred spaces she’s building instead 🔥

And to top it all off?

She closes with the spoken word piece that had everybody snapping last season —

“Fuck This, That, and Them” — a full-circle firestarter moment to close out a wild-ass year.

If you’ve outgrown the fake, the filtered, and the fluff —

This episode is your permission to burn it down and rise loud, proud, and weird AF in 2026.

Because the world doesn’t deserve all the fucks you’ve been giving.

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Are you loving… or surviving?

In this soul-shaking episode of The Badass Broadcast, Queen Lady Tee pulls back the curtain on a truth many soul-led women are just beginning to face:

👉🏽 Sometimes what we call love…is actually a trauma response.

If you’ve ever:

Loved too hard or too fast

Overgave to prove your worth

Stayed loyal at the cost of your peace

Lost yourself trying to be “enough” for someone else...

This episode is for you.

Inside this raw + real truth drop, we explore:✨ Why overgiving isn’t your nature — it’s a nervous system survival strategy✨ How childhood wounds + abandonment trauma program us to chase love✨ The dangerous myth that love = performance✨ Why conditional love will never unlock unconditional receiving✨ The real definition of love as a state of being — not a verb✨ A healing Self-Love Activation with breathwork + affirmations✨ PLUS: Your sacred invite to the FREE Soft Girl Era Masterclass

This isn’t about shame. This isn’t about blame.This is about healing — from the inside out. 💥

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“I no longer chase love — I embody it. I am the safest place I know.”

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She Wasn’t Wrong — She Was Surviving | Shadow Work, Self-Forgiveness & Nervous System Healing

Still carrying shame for who you used to be? This powerful episode of The Badass Broadcast is your permission slip to let that sh*t go. In Part 2 of the Soft Girl Medicine series, Queen Lady Tee guides you through deep nervous system truth, shadow work, and radical self-forgiveness.

You’ll learn:

🖤 Why survival isn’t failure — and your past self wasn’t weak

🧠 How internalized shame keeps you stuck in judgment

🧘🏽‍♀️ Why nervous system safety comes before healing

🌿 How to embrace every version of you — not exile her

This episode includes affirmations, breathwork, and a sacred invitation to go deeper with Tee’s Reiki-infused Self-Forgiveness Meditation — available now in her Buy Me A Coffee shop.

This is shadow work that holds you. This is healing without shame.

Because you weren’t broken — you were surviving.

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This episode features the music track “Dream” Produced by Lamont “True Black” Evans

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In this first episode of the Soft Girl Medicine series, we’re burning through the myths of forgiveness — not from a place of spiritual bypass, but from deep nervous system truth. Queen Lady Tee peels back the raw layers of her own story, revealing why forgiveness can’t happen while your body still feels under threat.

This one’s for the soul-led woman still holding the weight of someone else’s choices — and wondering why she hasn’t been able to “just let it go.”

You’ll learn the difference between forgiveness and access, how trauma stores in the body, and why true release begins with feeling safe, not spiritually correct.

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Season 2 is HERE — and baby, I did not come back the same.
In this raw and unapologetic kickoff, I’m breaking down what the hell happened while I was “gone”:
 I quit my job.
 I cracked open spiritually — light language, Akashic Records, full-body reactivation.
 I birthed the Sacred Wildfire Queen Circle.
 I reclaimed my truth, my softness, my power… and my mic.

Whether you’re in the middle of your own spiritual glow-up, burnt out in someone else’s dream, or questioning your next move—this episode is your permission slip to go full magic, full fire, full YOU.

 Spoiler: I don’t have a big team. I don’t have a fancy setup. But I do have divine purpose, unstoppable will, and a whole lotta truth to speak.

The Badass Broadcast is back—bigger, bolder, softer, deeper. And this season?
We’re not just healing.
We’re evolving.

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In this season finale of The Badass Broadcast, we’re going all the way in — soul deep and unapologetic. Inspired by Queen Lady Tee’s upcoming book I See You, King, this episode calls in the Kings who feel unseen, the Queens who forgot how to receive, and anyone tired of the battle between masculine and feminine energy. We’re not here to fight — we’re here to heal, unify, and rise.

This one is for the wounded protectors, the guarded lovers, the soft warriors, and the wild-hearted leaders.
 Because healing the divide starts within — and baby, the revolution is union.

💥 Tune in now and close out Season 1 with a truth-drenched, heart-opening message you won’t forget.

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In this soul-shaking episode of The Badass Broadcast, Queen Lady Tee delivers a powerful call to stop settling for crumbs and start reclaiming your worth, your voice, and your sacred standards.

If you’ve ever bent over backwards for love that barely saw you… if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” and made yourself small… this episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking and start rising.

This is for the woman ready to stop chasing validation and start loving herself so deeply that only aligned energy can stay. Because real love? It starts with you.

🧨 Self-love activation included.
 🔥 Get ready to remember who TF you are.

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What if the strong version of you… is really just the survivor version of you?

In this bold, soul-deep episode, Queen Lady Tee breaks down the truth about the wounded masculine energy we’ve inherited—not just from the men in our lives, but from generations of silence, struggle, and survival mode.

You’ll hear real talk on:

• How the masculine wound forms & how it shows up in your life
• Why healing your masculine energy is the key to feminine freedom
• The truth about "strong women," survival mode, and emotional burnout
• The role of inner union and intuitive alignment in your healing
• How to start healing your inner king and let your inner queen finally rest

This episode is an initiation—into wholeness, softness, sovereignty, and sacred self-leadership.

✨ Plus: a powerful healing activation + an invite to Tee’s 21-Day Self-Healing Challenge.

🎧 Listen now and let your feminine rise like the royalty she is.

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