Fatherhood flips the script—but is it really an identity change, or a shift in priorities? In this episode, Carlos, Phil, and Hansel get honest about trading solo rituals for family rhythms, building shared spaces without losing themselves, and why self-care isn’t selfish when you’re raising tiny humans. From morning pages gone missing to gym time, kitchen therapy, and two-hour runs (respectfully denied by Phil’s knees), the guys unpack how to pour into your kids while still filling your own cup. It’s a conversation about patience, boundaries, and raising individuals—not mini-mes—so everyone in the house can grow.