Well, friends, we hope you like this one! This conversation was originally going to probably go one direction, and we wound up heading in a totally new one instead.
Divorce is something that isn’t well understood, taught about, or talked about in the church - and more often than not, there aren’t a ton of resources or stories within the Church for children going through divorces that involve adultery, abuse, narcissism, or ongoing lying. There’s plenty that Katie left unsaid for the sake of honoring all of her parents, but we think this was still quite an edifying and healing conversation.
Hopefully Katie sharing and unpacking her experience as a child of walking through two very different divorces can help someone out there process a little more about your own experience!
God does not call bad things good, but he doesn’t leave us in the midst of any of it. And he really is good. Listen into this open, raw conversation between Gabe and Katie about this important topic.
Hosts: Katie Nguyen Palomares & Gabriel Palomares
Engineer: Katie Nguyen Palomares
Designer: Josue Carballo-Huertas
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
04:04 Diving into the Topic of Divorce
13:09 Lack of Contact with Father
13:34 Labeling the Divorces
18:04 Taking on New Responsibilities
21:16 Discovering New Aspects of Mom
24:54 Emotions and Vulnerability
28:52 Introduction and Background
30:54 Survival Mode Mentality and Trust
32:37 Confronting Wounds and Healing
39:58 The Challenges of Trust and Vulnerability
42:14 The Impact of Emotional Support
45:42 The Struggle of Depending on Others
48:09 Reflections on the Conversation
53:39 God's Redemption and Purpose
56:15 Closing Remarks and Call to Action