A blunt, practical conversation on the highest-leverage relationship habit for 2026: always respond in love. We challenge the belief that others can “hurt” us, break down the difference between pain and self-created suffering, and show how respectful communication, firm boundaries, and non-reaction can transform your marriage or dating life.

What you’ll learn
• The no-yelling, no-name-calling, no-sarcasm standard and why it matters
• Pain vs suffering: why words trigger us and how to stop looping
• How to set boundaries without becoming bitter or vindictive
• When walking away is the most loving choice
• Leadership, respect, and polarity without control games
• A step-by-step path from reactivity to calm strength

Chapters
00:00 Cold open: “No one can hurt you?”
01:12 Intro to Better Than Perfect
03:05 The standard: respond in love, every time
08:44 Pain vs suffering; triggers and ego defense
14:20 Respectful communication rules that actually work
20:03 Boundaries, consequences, and walking away in love
27:18 Leadership vs control; polarity without yelling
33:50 Practical drills to build the habit
39:42 Final takeaways and weekly challenge

Try this this week
• Replace one reactive comeback with a loving pause and a clear boundary.
• Catch one trigger and label it: pain or self-made suffering.

Resources
• Newsletter and show notes: betterthanpod.com
• Questions or stories: betterthanperfectpodcast at gmail dot com

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