Why do the people we love most sometimes get the worst of us? Pastor Nathan Castleberry joins The Bettis Musgrove Show for an honest conversation about men’s faith, marriage, fatherhood, and the reactions we’re quick to excuse with “that’s just how I am.”Nathan talks about his book, Field Guide of the Soul, and why he wanted to give men a practical way to examine what’s driving their anger, withdrawal, and frustration. We get into the expectations we bring from childhood into marriage, why small disagreements become big fights, and what it takes for a group of men to talk about something deeper than work and sports.We also hear how Local Church Canton started during COVID, spent time meeting in a tent outside Reformation Brewery, and grew into a congregation of roughly 500 at the time of this conversation.And because Nathan is Nathan, there’s plenty of barbecue talk, football dad confessions, and a few theological questions that take the conversation somewhere unexpected.IN THIS EPISODE• Starting Local Church Canton during a pandemic• Holding children’s ministry inside a brewery• The story behind Field Guide of the Soul• Why men tend to explode, withdraw, or try to fix everything• What an argument over the dishwasher can reveal about a marriage• Finding friends you can be honest with• Guided prayer for people who struggle to sit still• Fatherhood, foster care, and the possibility of adoption• Brisket, burnt ends, and feeding the people you love• Rapid fire: biblical mysteries, favorite restaurants, and Georgia footballCONNECT WITH NATHAN CASTLEBERRYInstagram: [@nathancberry](https://www.instagram.com/nathancberry/)Website and speaking inquiries: [Nathan Castleberry](https://www.nathancastleberry.com/)Book: [Field Guide of the Soul: A Christian Man’s Roadmap to What’s Really Going On](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GY8Z17BL)LOCAL CHURCH CANTONVisit, find service information, and learn about the church: [Local Church Canton](https://www.localchurchcanton.com/)Watch Nathan’s sermons: [Local Church Canton on YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/@LocalChurchCanton)FOLLOW THE BETTIS MUSGROVE SHOW[Watch more episodes](https://www.youtube.com/@UCLY1c7ocbviY_Rhy0iZI2wQ )[Listen on Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/34twg6E0Ao2aBvhNsl5xmg)[Listen on Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bettis-musgrove-show/id1752731696)Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @BettisMusgroveShowThe Bettis Musgrove Show features conversations with the people serving, building, and shaping our communities in Forsyth County and across North Georgia.Subscribe for more local conversations, and share this episode with a friend you’d like to talk through it with.CONNECT WITH BETTIS MUSGROVE[Website: Bettis Musgrove](https://www.bettismusgrove.com/)Phone: (470) 347-1515202 Tribble Gap Road, Suite 300Cumming, GA 30040#BettisMusgroveShow #NathanCastleberry #LocalChurchCanton #ChristianFatherhood #NorthGeorgia