IS SEXYY RED IS RUINING THIS GENERATION OF WOMEN? AND THEY DOING WHAT ON NAVY SHIPS??? - EP 211

#TheBigHomiesHouse #RelationshipAdvice #ModernDating

We’re back with another unfiltered episode of The Big Homies House Podcast, and this time, Big Homie Kodaq is chopping it up with Kayla, Angie from Philly, DJ A One, and Chewy for a wild ride through dating dilemmas, relationship debates, and straight-up hilarious moments.

This episode kicks off with the ultimate question: Is there a difference between being petty and being toxic? Angie’s got her take—do y’all think she’s tripping? The crew breaks down the controversial topic of ice cream dates—are they sweet gestures or low-effort excuses? Then we dive into the nuances of casual vs. intentional dating, defining what it really means to date with purpose.

The conversation gets spicy as we explore the state of Atlanta’s dating pool, and whether the stories we hear are just rumors or real-life nightmares. Can you outgrow a marriage, and do you really need paperwork to make it official? The Homies share thoughts on growth, commitment, and personal evolution in love.

Things take a wilder turn with crazy Navy ship stories, discussions about blocking people as a form of self-care, and debates over why accountability can be a tough pill to swallow. Is this generation of women missing out on husbands because of unrealistic expectations? Are modern women choosing the highest bidder, or is it deeper than that?

This episode is packed with laughs, truths, and gems you don’t want to miss. Tune in for the raw, real, and relatable takes on love, relationships, and everything in between!

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BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@thedjaone

@angie__atl 

@bigkaylainc

TIME STAMPS

12:04 - IS PETTY AND TOXIC THE SAME THING 

15:42 - IS ANGIE TRIPPING?

18:31 - IS AN ICE CREAM DATE BAD?

21:32 -CASUALLY vs INTENTIONALLY DATING

22:52 - INTENTIONAL DATING DEFINED. 

31:05 - IS THE ATLANTA DATING POOL THAT BAD?

47:32 - THEY DID WHAT ON THE NAVY SHIPS?

35:14 -  CAN YOU GROW OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE 

54:59 - DO YOU NEED PAPERWORK IN MARRIAGE?????

1:16:10 -  BEING PETTY GONE WRONG

1:22:24 - BLOCKING WOMEN IS THERAPEUTIC 

1:24:38 - FINALLY A WOMAN THAT ACCEPTS ACCOUNTABILITY 

1:26:52 - WHATS STOPPING THIS GENERATION OF WOMEN FROM FINDING HUSBANDS 

1:29:03  - YOUR SOCIAL PRESENTATION MATTERS 

1:35:28 - WHY DO WOMEN HATE ACCOUNTABILITY 

1:37:07 - ARE MODERN WOMEN GOING TO THE HIGHEST BIDDER

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The Big Homies House Podcast is back with another wild episode, and this week we’re turning up the heat with podcasters Hunni and Smooch and nightlife influencer Stallion. From relationships to the nightlife industry, to real-life debates we all secretly argue about, this one is packed with gems, laughs, and straight-up unfiltered opinions.

We kick things off with every group chat’s biggest struggle—how to actually get that group trip out of the group chatand onto the booking confirmation page. You know how it goes—everybody’s in until it’s time to drop the deposit. Hunni and Smooch aren’t holding back their solutions for getting your friends to stop flaking!

Then we jump into the beauty industry chaos: hairstylist prices are OUT OF CONTROL. Between deposits, late fees, and “come with your hair already washed” policies, is it really worth it? Or are the complaints just broke energy? Hunni and Stallion weigh in with their takes on whether we need price regulation or if stylists are just running up a finesse.

Things get spicy when we ask—do men settle more than women in relationships? Hunni argues that women demand their value, while men will put up with anything as long as they’re comfortable. But is that fair? And let’s not skip Stallion’s take—are men out here trying to fake “one-sided open relationships” and getting caught up when they fumble the execution? 👀

Of course, we had to stir the pot with some next-level questions. Are women really better cheaters than men? Hunni and Smooch give us the playbook, but Stallion says men are just too sloppy to keep up. We’re getting all the secrets this episode, and you’ll never look at the game the same again.

And then Stallion drops his truth—what is it REALLY like to be a stripper? From the misconceptions to the hustle behind the scenes, he’s keeping it raw about life in the club and why the stigma needs to stop.

Other gems we unpack this episode:

Would you date someone in prison? Is holding someone down really that deep, or are y’all setting yourself up?

Do your friends NEED to have a purpose in your life? Are you surrounding yourself with people who elevate you, or just vibes?

Should a man be on child support if he’s an active parent? Are the laws fair, or are good dads getting punished?

And because we love a little late-night drama, are you leaving the club early to go be with your man, or is girls’ night non-negotiable? 👀

This episode is FULL of real talk, comedy, and conversations you’re gonna have to replay just to catch all the gems. Grab your homies, grab a drink, and tap in—this one’s for the culture.

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@_realstallion 

@_HUNNI

@smooch_x 

TIME STAMPS

3:16 - DO YOU BELIEVE IN WORK FRIENDSHIPS

6:20 - CAN A MAN HAVE TOO MUCH CONFIDENCE?

13:34 - HOW TO GET THE GROUP TRIP OUT THE GROUP CHAT

16:17 - HAIRSTYLIST PRICES NEED TO BE REGULATED 

19:47 - DO MEN SETTLE MORE THAN WOMEN

22:24 - CAN YOU HAVE ONE SIDED OPEN RELATIONSHIPs?

23:42 - ARE WOMEN BETTER CHEATERS THAN MEN*

26:56 - WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE IN PRISON 

30:34 - STALLIONS TRUTH ABOUT STRIPPING!

46:52 - DO YOUR FRIENDS NEED TO HAVE A PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE. 

59:51 - SHOULD A MAN BE ON CHILD SUPPORT IF HE IS AN ACTIVE PARENT

1:03:57 - CAN YOUR MANS EX PROVIDE A SERVICE FOR YOU!?

1:09:02 - ARE YOU LEAVING THE CLUB TO BE WITH YOUR MAN

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The Big Homies House Podcast is turning up with the iconic King of Diamonds Strip Club crew and rapper Lil Fredin the building! From hilarious club stories to spicy relationship debates, we’re tackling it all. This episode is packed with jaw-dropping moments and convos you’ll definitely wanna share. 🎙️💃🏾🔥

We start with the wildest stories from the club scene, including the wild finesse tactics on club flyers and whether social media is taking over the DJ’s role. Is the nightlife game evolving for better or worse? 🔊📲

Next, we dive into the controversial topic: can you really find wifey material in the club? Is it all about vibes, or do club settings make relationships harder to trust? And when it comes to dating strippers, what challenges come with mixing love and the pole? ❤️‍🔥💃🏽

The debates heat up with this one: are men “simps” for dating women with kids? And flipping the script—would women date a man with multiple baby mamas? Are the double standards in relationships louder than ever, or is this just the new normal? 🤔👶🏽

And finally, we tackle the age-old question—how soon should a man start paying bills? Should it happen early to prove he’s serious, or is it something that comes with time? Plus, what does it mean when women prioritize financial expectations in modern dating? 💵🔥

This episode is full of laughs, insights, and unfiltered debates that will keep you coming back for more. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to The Big Homies House Podcast—this is one episode you don’t wanna miss! 💯

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

Lil Fred Single Here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/whole-city-fwm-feat-oj-da-juiceman/1783486985?i=1783486986

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@nikkijzo

@coflilfred

@jserveddaily

@cognacgunna 

TIME STAMPS

3:16 - DO YOU BELIEVE IN WORK FRIENDSHIPS

6:00 - WILDEST CLUB STORIES ! * 

11:02 - HAS SOCIAL MEDIA REPLACED THE DJ?

18:24 - CLUB FLYER FINESSE 

30:39 - WOMEN ARE HABITUAL LIARS 

32:18 - IS IT POSSIBLE TO FIND YOUR WIFE IN THE CLUB

35:14 - CAN YOU DATE A STRIPPER?

38:42 - IS HAVING THE FINEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD STRESSFUL?

40:36 - WOMEN WANT TO LIVE THEIR HOE LIFE BEFORE SETTLING DOWN

41:27 - ARE YOU A SIMP FOR DATING A WOMAN WITH KIDS

42:58 - WOULD YOU TAKE A GUY WITH MULTIPLE BABY DADDIES 

47:33 - DO MEN LIKE TO DATE DOWN?

49:37 - HOW SOON DO YOU EXPECT A MAN TO PAY YOUR BILLS?

✨ SEO Keywords: Big Homies House Podcast, King of Diamonds, Lil Fred, strip club culture, wildest club stories, DJs vs social media, dating strippers, finding love in the club, paying bills in relationships, relationship double standards, dating debates podcast, nightlife culture, women and hoe phases, dating single moms, social media and club life, unfiltered podcast conversations.

The Big Homies House Podcast is back with another 🔥 episode, and this time we’re joined by Instagram influencer and Krew Season podcast host, Trill AC! This episode is packed with debates, truths, and some real talk about modern relationships, social media, and the struggles men and women face today. Buckle up because we’re getting into it all. 🎙️💥

We kick things off by asking the big question: is marriage harder in the social media era? With everyone sliding in DMs and posting highlight reels, has the idea of long-term commitment been replaced by chasing clout? 👰🏽‍♂️💻

Next, we unpack the age-old debate about "happy wife, happy life." Is it a healthy relationship mantra or just another way to ignore what men want? Trill AC drops gems on how men often sideline their happiness in relationships just to keep the peace. 💔💬

Of course, we had to talk about the rise of real estate agents with BBLs. What’s the connection between the housing market and the glow-up? Trill shares his take on why it seems like the new trend is selling homes and turning heads. 🏠🍑

And finally, we get into the deep stuff: are men their own safe space? From toxic masculinity to the weight of leadership, this convo is one every man and woman needs to hear. It’s time we really address why men often feel they have no space to be vulnerable. 🧠🤔

This episode will have you laughing, debating, and definitely sending clips to your group chat. Don’t miss out on the realness with Trill AC! Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe to The Big Homies House Podcast, and check out the Krew Season podcast for even more fire content. 🔥💯

✨ SEO Keywords: Big Homies House Podcast, Trill AC, Krew Season podcast, social media and relationships, is marriage harder today, happy wife happy life debate, men’s happiness in relationships, toxic masculinity discussions, real estate agents with BBLs, safe spaces for men, leadership in relationships, Instagram influencers podcast, modern dating struggles, marriage advice, social media culture, men in relationships, relationship debates podcast.

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@thetrillac  

TIME STAMPS

7:07 -  IS MARRIAGE HARDER IN THE SOCIAL MEDIA ERA* 

9:58 - THE FRIEND ZONE CONVERSATION, IS IT WORTH IT?* 

14:04-  MEN DON’T DATE FOR HAPPINESS 

17:45 - WOMEN CANNOT HANDLE A MAN WITH A LOT OF BUSINESS

21:01 - DO YOU BELIEVE IN “HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE”?*

29:11 - WHY ARE SO MANY REAL ESTATE WOMEN WITH BBLS POPPING UP

34:11 - THIS IS WHY RICH WOMEN ARE NOT SUBMISSIVE 

37:23 - WHY DON’T WOMEN WANT TO TELL A MAN WHAT SHE LIKES?

40:02 - MEN ARE BURDENED WITH LEADERSHIP *

41:49 - CAN A MAN MOVE BACK HOME WITH HIS PARENTS AND NOT BE JUDGED?

43:56 - ARE MEN THEIR OWN SAFE SPACE

48:11 - MEN USE TOXIC MASCULINITY TO PROTECT THEMSELVES 

✨ SEO Keywords: Big Homies House Podcast, Trill AC, Krew Season podcast, social media and relationships, is marriage harder today, happy wife happy life debate, men’s happiness in relationships, toxic masculinity discussions, real estate agents with BBLs, safe spaces for men, leadership in relationships, Instagram influencers podcast, modern dating struggles, marriage advice, social media culture, men in relationships, relationship debates podcast.

The Big Homies House Podcast just dropped a fire new episode featuring former NFL player turned actor Devale Ellis! 🎥🏈 Devale is here to talk about his latest Netflix movie, "Meet Me Next Christmas," produced by Tyler Perry and co-starring Christina Milian and Kofi Siriboe. On top of that, he’s dropping gems about relationships, success, and the real struggles of our generation. Oh, and did we mention he and his wife co-host the popular podcast "Dead Ass"? This episode is one you can’t miss! 🎬🎙️

We’re diving into the secrets of getting your career popping as a content creator. Devale keeps it real about how consistency, creativity, and even a little delusion are key to making it in the industry. Whether you’re starting your first project or trying to level up, this convo is packed with practical advice. 🚀✨

Next, we tackle one of the most heated debates: should a wife have the final say in relationships? Devale and the crew chop it up about what leadership looks like in a partnership and whether men and women should take turns leading in love. This convo is for anyone trying to figure out how to make relationships work in today’s world. 💍💬

Of course, we had to ask: is college a scam, or is nepotism the real cheat code? Devale doesn’t hold back on the importance of connections, whether you’re working in Hollywood or corporate America. If you’ve ever questioned whether degrees are worth the debt, this discussion is for you. 🎓💡

Finally, we get into a controversial one: are all women built to be submissive, and do all women deserve queen treatment? The room was split on this one, with takes that are sure to get you thinking—and typing in the comments. 👑🗣️

This episode is a whole vibe. Tap in for laughs, wisdom, and the kind of realness only The Big Homies House Podcastdelivers. Don’t forget to check out Devale Ellis in "Meet Me Next Christmas" on Netflix and subscribe to his podcast "Dead Ass" for even more gems! 🎧📺

✨ SEO Keywords: Devale Ellis Netflix movie, Meet Me Next Christmas Tyler Perry, Christina Milian and Kofi Siriboe, Big Homies House Podcast, Dead Ass podcast, relationship debates, content creator advice, is college a scam, queen treatment debate, Black creatives in Hollywood, Black relationships podcast, funny relationship advice, relationship roles in marriage, delusional creatives, modern dating struggles, Tyler Perry movies 2024, Netflix holiday movies, Devale Ellis acting career.

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@IAMDEVALE

TIME STAMPS

2:20 - HOW TO GET YOUR CAREER POPPING AS A CONTENT CREATOR *

10:47 - STOP DATING WOMEN AND TRYING TO CHANGE THEM 

12:10 - MEN NEED TO USE DISCERNMENT 

13:25 - PLEDGING ALLEGIANCE TO YOUR GENDER

19:04 - SHOULD A WIFE HAVE THE FINAL SAY IN RELATIONSHIPS

 20:54 - DO MEN NEED TO SUBMIT TO THEIR WIVES?

 24:46 - WHY  THIS GENERATION STRUGGLES WITH RELATIONSHIPS *

37:05 - IS COLLEGE A SCAM? NEPOTISM ARGUMENT* 

45:18 - IS IT NECESSARY FOR BLACK PEOPLE TO “PLAY THEIR GAME”? IN ORDER TO WIN

50:26 - CREATIVES HAVE TO BE DELUSIONAL 

 1:01:14 - ARE ALL WOMEN BUILT TO BE SUBMISSIVE

1:02:55 - DO ALL WOMEN DESERVE QUEEN TREATMENT 

 Devale Ellis Netflix movie, Meet Me Next Christmas Tyler Perry, Christina Milian and Kofi Siriboe, Big Homies House Podcast, Dead Ass podcast, relationship debates, content creator advice, is college a scam, queen treatment debate, Black creatives in Hollywood, Black relationships podcast, funny relationship advice, relationship roles in marriage, delusional creatives, modern dating struggles, Tyler Perry movies 2024, Netflix holiday movies, Devale Ellis acting career.

**The Big Homies House Podcast** just dropped a banger of an episode, featuring **Detroit’s own Kash Doll** and **Whoreible Decisions** host, **Mandiii B**! This episode is all about the real, raw conversations you only have with your close friends. We’re covering everything from relationship dealbreakers to whether polygamy is only for the rich. If you’re ready to get into some **real talk** about dating, money, and modern love, this one’s for you! 🍿💬

First off, we get into the age-old question: is it a dealbreaker to date someone who has a **roommate**? Kash Doll and Mandiii B dive into the question of whether a person’s living situation reflects their ambition, maturity, or just their bank account. Is living solo a must, or is it just a status symbol? Let’s just say this one’s going to hit home for a lot of y’all in the comments. 💸🏠  

Then, we dive into one of the most challenging issues in friendships and relationships—should you ever share **your friend’s business** with your partner? We all know some things are just between the homies, but is it worth the drama if your partner finds out you’re keeping secrets? Kash Doll and Mandiii B go in on when it’s okay to spill and when silence is golden. 🤐   

Next, it’s time to talk honesty in relationships. What’s the real difference between **lies and secrets** when you’re with someone? Are there things you can keep to yourself, or is honesty the only way to build a strong connection? This convo is packed with takes on trust, loyalty, and how far you should go to keep the peace. Trust issues or protecting feelings—what’s the move? 👀💔  

And you know we had to talk about **polygamy and money**! We ask the big question: is polygamy really just for men with fat wallets, or is that just an excuse for not being able to commit? Kash Doll and Mandiii B keep it real on why some think polygamy only works for the wealthy and whether it’s actually the vibe some guys think it is. 💵🔗  

Tune in for some of the **funniest, realest takes** on dating, relationships, and love from **The Big Homies House**! This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the ups and downs of love and dating in today’s world. Hit play, grab your popcorn, and get ready to join the convo! 🎬  

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@kashdoll

@fullcourtpumps

TIME STAMPS

1:21 - ARE YOUR KIDS YOUR LEGACY

4:44 WHAT FASHION SHOULDN’T MAKE A COMEBACK

6:59 - KASH DOLLS DATING LIFE 

7:51 - MEN JUST WANT RECIPROCATION

8:40 - WHY A MAN WITH MONEY DOESNT HAVE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE 

13:43 - POLYGAMY IS FOR MEN WITH MONEY

14:50 - WHY POLYGAMY WONT WORK FOR KODAQ 

16:29 -  DO YOU TELL YOUR MAN YOUR FRIENDS BUSINESS 

17:38 - CAN YOUR PARTNER HAVE A FRIEND OF THE OPPOSITE SEX 

18:30 - IS HAVING SEX WITH A FRIEND SOMETHING YOU NEED TO DISCLOSE TO A NEW PARTNER 

20:15 - DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIES AND SECRETS IN RELATIONSHIPS 

26:21 - MANIFESTING VS LYIN *

36:04 - CAN YOU TALK TO A GUY WITH A ROOMMATE *

37:15 - A MAN SHOULDNT DATE A WOMAN WITH ROOMMATES

38:52 - DO MEN TRAP WOMEN WITH KIDS

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The Big Homies House Podcast is back with an unforgettable episode featuring special guests Thixen Vixen, Naiy, and Darbie Dutch, three of the most talked-about OnlyFans content creators shaking up the scene! This episode is a rollercoaster of laughter, insights, and raw conversations that will have you questioning everything you thought you knew about friendships, dating, and relationships. Buckle up, because we’re diving deep into the topics that matter! 🎢

First, we tackle a hot-button issue: can you really have a large circle of friends without sacrificing your personal boundaries? In a world where social media makes it easy to connect, are we losing sight of what it means to maintain healthy relationships? We’ll discuss the balance between being a social butterfly and ensuring that your mental healthstays intact. 🤔

Next up, we delve into a conversation that many avoid: Should you disclose your STD status on the first date? This topic is often met with awkward silences, but our guests aren’t afraid to share their thoughts. Is it better to be upfront and honest, or should you wait until you know someone better? We’re bringing all the perspectives to the table—this one’s a must-listen! 🫢

We also raise a thought-provoking question: Are men trapping women with babies? This conversation digs into the dynamics of modern relationships, highlighting the societal pressures and expectations that come with parenthood. Is it a strategic move or a genuine mistake? We’ll examine how these situations play out and what it means for both partners involved. 💔

And just when you think we’ve covered it all, we explore why traditional relationships seem to be fading away. Are we moving toward a new norm, or is there a resurgence of old values on the horizon? We’ll break down the shifts in dating culture and discuss how people are redefining love and commitment in today’s world. 💍

Finally, hold on tight for the wildest story you’ll hear all week: one of our guests shares an unbelievable tale of robbing her baby daddy! It’s a saga filled with twists and turns that’ll leave you in disbelief. Trust us; this one could easily be the plot of a viral TikTok series! 💀

Join us for this hilarious, insightful, and sometimes shocking episode of The Big Homies House Podcast, where we keep it 100% real and embrace all the messy parts of life! Get ready for laughs, gasps, and everything in between.

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@thixenvixen_backup

@naiysooglam

@darbiedutch 

TIME STAMPS

2:21 - IF YOU HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS YOU DO NOT HAVE A LOT OF BOUNDARIES. 

5:34 - THIS IS WHERE LIL DURK WENT WRONG*

15:38 - GUCCI THIRD LEG !

24:36 - SHOULD YOU DISCLOSE STD STATUS ON FIRST DATE* 

29:28 - CONTENT CREATOR VS CORN STAR

33:43 - WHO DO YOU WATCH VIDEOS FOR?

48:37 - WHY ARE BLACK GIRLS CALLED FAST?

53:10 - TRADITIONAL RELATIONSHIPS, WHERE DID THEY GO

56:28 - SHOULD WOMEN DATE MEN WHO MAKE BROKEN HOMES 

57:27 - ARE MEN TRAPPING WOMEN WITH KIDS????*

1:00:16 - IS WOMENS INTUITION A FARCE?

1:03:41 - WWYD IF YOUR BABY DADDY GAVE YOUR KID UP FOR ADOPTION

1:05:34 - WILDEST STORY EVER, SHE ROBBED HER BABY DADDY

Big Homies House,  podcast, relationship dynamics, personal boundaries, dating advice, STD disclosure on first dates, men trapping women with babies, traditional vs modern relationships, baby mama drama, unfiltered podcast conversations, raw discussions about dating, mental health and friendships, pop culture commentary, modern love stories, podcast with content creators, viral podcast moments, humorous relationship stories, cultural commentary podcast.

On this episode of The Big Homies House, Big Homie Kodaq sits down with Paris, the social media influencer who went viral for trolling Cardi B. From pop culture hot takes to deep conversations about relationships, Black womanhood, and love, this episode is packed with real talk and unapologetic opinions.

Paris kicks things off by spilling the tea on how she trolled Cardi B and managed to go viral in the process. Was it pure fun or a strategic move? She shares the story behind her infamous posts and the reactions that came with it—plus, her thoughts on navigating social media fame.

Then, the conversation turns to whether Megan Thee Stallion is primarily a rapper or if her brand and persona have outgrown the genre. Kodaq and Paris debate Megan’s impact, what makes someone a true rapper, and whether it even matters when the fans love the music.

Paris drops some wisdom when she says you can be anti-men and still be male-centered. They discuss how modern dating dynamics have shifted and whether being critical of men means they still take up too much mental space. Can you move forward while holding onto old wounds, or does that mindset just trap people in cycles of negativity?

The two get personal about relationships, asking if people are giving up on love too quickly these days. With dating apps and social media giving everyone endless options, they reflect on whether people are too quick to throw in the towel on relationships and if the search for something better is sabotaging true connection.

This episode is all about truth, growth, and calling out the nonsense in today’s world. Paris brings the same bold energy that got her trending, and Big Homie Kodaq keeps it all the way real. Don’t miss it!

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@PARADISEPARIS 

TIME STAMPS

1:36 - PARIS TELLS US HOW SHE TROLLED CARDI B

7:44 - IS MEGAN THEE STALLION PRIMARILY A RAPPER?

21:54 - NOBODY STANDA UP FOR BLACK WOMEN LIKE BLACK MEN

30:15 - WE DO NOT NEED TO WIN IN OUR INTERACTIONS WITH OUR LOVED ONES 

37:12 - YOU CAN BE ANTI MEN AND STILL MALE CENTERED 

37:45 - GENUINE WOMEN ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE THAT WAY, DESPITE NEGATIVE DATING EXPERIENCES 

39:30 - COOKING FOR YOUR MAN IS OVERRATED 

42:14 - WOMEN WEAPONIZE THINGS IN RELATIONSHIPS

50:24 - WOMEN WEAPONIZE THEIR KIDS AGAINST A MAN

51:24 - DO WNBA PLAYERS EXPECTED TO BE TREATED DIFFERENTLY?

1:03:50 - SHOULD OF BE PROMOTED TO GIRLS AS SOON AS THEY TURN 18

1:09:24 - ARE PEOPLE GIVING UP ON RELATIONSHIPS QUICKER. 

1:11:15 - YOU WONT FIND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE IN ANOTHER RACE 

Big Homies House Podcast, Paris influencer, Cardi B troll, Megan Thee Stallion rapper, modern dating dynamics, anti-men conversations, giving up on love, social media relationships, viral influencer stories, relationship advice podcast.

WHY CLAY DOESN’T REGRET LEAVING AD & WE SHOULD NORMALIZE SMASHING FRIENDS! - Big Homies House Ep 202

#loveisblind #claygravesande #magiccity #blueflame

This episode of The Big Homies House is packed with real talk, wild takes, and a little bit of Netflix magic! We’re joined by Clay from Love Is Blind, along with Stallion from The Blue Flame and Amanda from Magic City, and they’re bringing the heat. We’re talking everything from getting married for aesthetics—is it all for show?—to what really counts as cheating these days. Kodaq even shares his own hilarious experience with a failed talking stage (spoiler: it’s as awkward as you’d expect).

We also get into some deep stuff, like whether or not you can really have sex with your best friend and still stay cool, and why friendship breakups might hurt worse than ending a relationship. And what’s the deal with keeping exes or people you’ve hooked up with in your life when you start a new relationship? Things get spicy when Clay lets us know how AI picked his new celebrity crush and whether guys actually care about good morning texts anymore.

But it doesn’t stop there—we’re breaking down if being a player ruins your chance at real love and whether or not ATLis just the wrong city to find something serious. Oh, and let’s not forget the important question: Why don’t men get spoiled by their partners? Clay shares how being on Love Is Blind has flipped the dating game for him and what it’s like dating in the spotlight now.

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WD...

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@clay_gravesande

@_realstallion

@amanduhcee.__

TIME STAMPS

2:09 - DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED FOR AESTHETICS?

2:36 - WHAT IS CHEATING

6:00 - KODAQS FAILED TALKING STAGE

12:55 - CAN YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BEST FRIENDS

23:55 - IS A FRIENDSHIP BREAKUP WORSE THAN A RELATIONSHIP BREAKUP

19:07 - SHOULD YOU STILL BE AROUND PEOPLE YOU HAVE HAD SEX WITH WHILE IN NEW RELATIONSHIPS?

29:20 - SHOULD FRIENDSHIPS HAVE BOUNDARIES ?

45:26 - AI PICKS A NEW CELEBRITY CRUSH FOR CLAY!

46:34 - CAN YOU GET GHOSTED FOR LIKING SOMEONE TOO MUCH?

49:49 - EVERY MAN HAS FAVORITE

50:25 - ARE ROSTERS OVERRATED

54:30 - ARE GOOD MORNING TEXTS OVERRATED

55:20 - SHOULD YOU EXPECT LOVE AFTER BEING A PLAYER

56:29 - IS ATL A BAD CITY TO FIND LOVE

59:03 - WHO WOULD WANT TO DATE SOMEONE BROKEE

1:01:12 - WHY DONT MEN GET SPOILED BY THEIR PARTNERS?

1:05:52 - HOW HAS THE SHOW CHANGED DATING FOR YOU!?

Big Homies House Podcast, Love Is Blind, Clay Netflix, The Blue Flame, Magic City, cheating, friendship breakups, dating in ATL, player lifestyle, relationships, AI celebrity crush, ghosting, good morning texts, friendship boundaries, love and aesthetics, men getting spoiled, dating in Atlanta.

On this episode of **The Big Homies House**, we’re joined by **Ant (285 Slim)**, **Teresa Lavae**, and **Cousin Derrick** for a wild conversation that covers everything from humor’s dark side to the messy realities of relationships and money. Buckle up, because the crew dives headfirst into controversial opinions and personal experiences that will leave you thinking long after the episode ends.  

First up, we talk about how **humor and hurt feelings are connected**. In a time when jokes can quickly turn into arguments, we ask—can we even have humor without offending someone? Ant and Teresa reflect on the shift in culture where sensitivity is at an all-time high. Is it possible to laugh without crossing a line, or have people just gotten too soft? The group doesn’t hold back on why **society might be too sensitive today** and whether it’s a problem we can ever fix.  

The conversation turns spicy when Teresa explains a situation where she **blocked a man for not paying her bills FAST enough**. She asks, if a guy isn’t consistent with the financial support, what’s the point of keeping him around? The guests debate if relationships now come with an unspoken expectation of financial responsibility—and if so, how soon is “too soon” to cut someone off for slacking.  

Then, the crew dives deep into the ever-popular question—**do women love the lifestyle more than the man**? They talk about how social media has changed priorities in dating, making lifestyle a bigger attraction than genuine connection. Is it love they’re after, or just the perks that come with it? Teresa and Cousin Derrick give their takes on whether men should be worried that the life they provide might matter more than who they are as a person.  

We also tackle the tricky territory of **whether it’s okay to have friends of the opposite sex** while in a relationship. Kodaq and the guests discuss boundaries, trust, and how some friendships can spark jealousy. Can a relationship thrive when your partner is hanging out with someone they could be attracted to? Or are some connections just too risky? The group shares personal experiences, laying down some rules for how to navigate these kinds of friendships without stirring up drama.  

This episode delivers equal parts laughter, real talk, and relationship therapy. Whether you’re single, in love, or somewhere in between, this one will have you hooked!  

BIG HOMIES HOUSE AUDIO HERE:

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6nhy6WDDCQfnPwcbUqeNQU

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-big-homies-house/id1520022230

THIS WEEK’S GUESTS

@285slim

@TheTeresaLavae 

TIME STAMPS

4:36 - HUMOR CANNOT EXIST WITHOUT HURT FEELINGS 

5:26 - PEOPLE ARE TOO SENSITIVE

10:11 - WHY ARE TRUMP SUPPORTERS READY TO RIDE BEHIND HIM?

26:56 - INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS 

32:45 - IS SHE WRONG FOR BLOCKING A MAN FOR NOT PAYING HER BILLS FAST ENOUGH*

34:17 - SHE CUT OFF HER MAN FOR BEING TOO CHATTY 

36:29 - SHOULD YOU PLAY SINGLE FOR AN OPPORTUNITY 

40:49 - WOMEN RUIN RELATIONSHIPS MORE THAN ANYONE 

44:34 - WOMEN ARE NOT NICE WHEN THEY GET MONEY 

45:54 - CAN YOU BUY HER BY PROVIDING?

46:43 - DO WOMEN LOVE THE LIFESTYLE MORE THAN THE MAN

48:26 - DON’T TELL YOUR MAN WHAT A MAN USED TO DO

48:30 - I DONT ASK WHAT SHE BRINGS TO THE TABLE 

52:03 - KODAQ DOES NOT WANT A WOMAN THAT WATCHES ZEUS 

1:05:45 -WOMEN FALL OUT FOR PETTY REASONS 

1:22:19 - CAN YOU HAVE FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

Big Homies House Podcast, 285 Slim, Teresa Lavae, Cousin Derrick, humor and hurt feelings, relationship boundaries, sensitivity in society, blocking over bills, money and relationships, lifestyle vs love, friends of the opposite sex, financial expectations, dating in the social media era.