The BIG LIFE

The BIG LIFE

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  • Practice. Class. Treatment. Homework. Game. REPEAT- Week 10 of The Big Life Podcast

    Welcome to Week 10 of The BIG LIFE, where Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC) are joined by Jaiden's teammate and longtime friend Aly Hou!

    With conference season in full swing, the girls are discovering that life as a Division I soccer player can start to feel a little like Groundhog Day. Same routines, same exhaustion, different opponents.

    This week, they're talking about the reality of college soccer versus what they imagined before arriving on campus. From the pressure of playing time and the fear of making mistakes to the physical demands of the college game, the conversation gets surprisingly real.

    But don't worry, there's plenty of chaos, too. Paige may have overdone it on the pickleball court, Jaiden is celebrating being back on the field, and Aly is navigating the ups and downs of her season. Plus, procrastinated homework, sweet treat runs, video games, Halloween plans, and the very important question of whether the girls would survive a weekend visiting each other's campuses.

    It's an episode about finding the fun in the routine, managing expectations, and remembering that there's a whole life happening outside the soccer field.

    🎙️ Hosted by Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC), with special guest Aly Hou (USC).

    The BIG LIFE is a Girls Soccer Network original podcast bringing you inside the world of Division I women's soccer, straight from the players living it.

    41 min
  • The BIG LIFE: Back on the Field, Conference Chaos & Unwritten Rules

    Jaiden is BACK! ⚽

    After weeks of dealing with an injury, Jaiden Rodriguez is finally back on the field for USC — and she's already played a full 90 minutes. Meanwhile, Paige Thompson and Alabama are sitting at the top of the SEC, but Paige is still finding ways to push her game to another level.

    This week on The BIG LIFE, the two catch up on life in the middle of conference season, including what it's like to return from injury, why some losses hurt more than others, and how they reset mentally when the games just keep coming.

    And then there's the fun stuff: the unwritten rules of college soccer. Can you go out during the season? How late is TOO late when a friend says they're five minutes away? And is it ever okay to interrupt someone wearing headphones?

    Plus, Paige shares her surprisingly effective strategy for getting Alabama students to show up at soccer games. 😂

    🎙️ The BIG LIFE takes you behind the scenes of Division I women's soccer with the players actually living it.

    Hosted by Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC).

    Subscribe to Girls Soccer Network and follow along all season!

    #TheBIGLIFE #CollegeSoccer #WomensSoccer #USCSoccer #AlabamaSoccer

    18 min
  • The BIG LIFE: Melina Rebimbas on Transfers, Injuries & Finding Joy Again

    What happens when college soccer doesn’t go according to plan?

    This week, Paige and Jaiden are experiencing two very different sides of the season. Paige is in the middle of Alabama’s run, while Jaiden is working her way back from injury and finally starting to get limited minutes again. They talk travel, rehab, staying connected to their teams, and what they’re learning from seeing the game from a different perspective. 

    Then Paige welcomes Alabama teammate Melina Rebimbas to the pod.

    Melina opens up about starting her college career at UNC, why she ultimately entered the transfer portal, and what made Alabama feel like the right place for her—not only as a player, but as a person. She also gets candid about a series of difficult injuries, including hip surgery and an abdominal injury that forced her to spend significant time away from the game. 

    They also talk about her experiences with the U.S. Youth National Team, Alabama’s season, what could come next after college, and why, after having soccer taken away from her more than once, she’s approaching this season with a different mindset: being present, finding joy, and appreciating the chance to play. 

    It’s a really honest conversation about how much growth in college soccer happens off the field.

    🎙️ Hosted by Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC).

    25 min
  • The BIG LIFE: Frustration, Injuries & Finding What You Can Control

    Conference play is here — and so are the highs, lows, injuries, rivalry games, and mental battles that come with it.

    This week, Paige Thompson and Jaiden Rodriguez catch up after two very different weeks. Jaiden opens up about partially tearing her MCL, the frustration of being sidelined just as conference play begins, and the mental spiral of replaying an injury and wondering what she could have done differently. 

    Meanwhile, Paige takes us inside Alabama's rivalry wins over Auburn and Arkansas, the intensity of SEC soccer, and what she's learning about managing her own mentality when games — and substitutions — don't go exactly as planned. 

    The conversation gets real about frustration, confidence, rehab, bench energy, and one of the hardest lessons for any athlete: figuring out what you can control and letting go of what you can't. Then they lighten things up with college-life talk and a rapid-fire round of soccer Would You Rather.

    Two players. Two very different weeks. And a reminder that sometimes the biggest part of the game is what happens inside your head.

    Show Notes
    • Jaiden suffers a partial MCL tear and talks about the physical and mental aftermath of getting injured during conference play. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Why replaying the moment of an injury over and over can be almost as difficult as the injury itself. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Paige breaks down Alabama's rivalry wins over Auburn and Arkansas — and what makes SEC soccer such a different kind of game. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • The reality of getting subbed out, questioning why, and learning to refocus on the minutes still ahead. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Jaiden gets candid about frustration, crying in training, and wanting better tools to manage the emotions that come with competing. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • What people don't see: classes, treatment, rehab, lifting, homework — and everything else packed into the life of a college athlete. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Would You Rather: game-winning goal or assist? Hat trick or championship winner? Pouring rain or 100-degree heat? 8 AM or under the lights? TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Paige and Jaiden close with their words for the week: growth and discipline — and why both come back to focusing on what they can control. TBL_ep7-8vui2h-Optimized
    • Hosts: Paige Thompson & Jaiden Rodriguez

      Presented by Girls Soccer Network

      22 min
    • The BIG LIFE S5E6 | Two ACL Tears, One Incredible Comeback with Peyton Nakagawara

      Conference play is here — and things are getting very real for Paige Thompson and Jaiden Rodriguez.

      Paige and Jaiden recap a wild week that included a first loss, a 10-goal game, a red card, a lightning delay and USC's 2–2 battle with No. 1 Stanford. They talk about the shrinking margin for error as conference play begins, dealing with playing-time decisions and learning not to let a coach's choices change the way you see yourself as a player.

      Then USC's Peyton Nakagawara joins the show with a comeback story that goes way beyond soccer.

      Peyton arrived at USC after tearing her ACL during her senior year of high school. She worked her way back, played an entire spring season — and then tore her other ACL in the final minutes of the final spring game. Suddenly, another fall season was gone. Peyton opens up about the mental side of going through the same devastating injury twice, watching teammates play while she rehabbed and finding parts of herself outside of soccer along the way.

      Now, more than two years later, Peyton is finally back on the field. In just her third game back, she started against Stanford — and scored.

      She takes Paige and Jaiden inside that moment, what kept her going through two long rehabs and what she'd tell the young player who just tore her ACL and is wondering whether her soccer dream is over.

      Her message? Take rehab one day at a time. Pour yourself into the work. Learn what the setback has to teach you. You can come back stronger.

      Also in this episode: Paige finally finds the back of the net, Jaiden reflects on one of her best individual performances despite a tough team result, the girls set their goals for conference play, and they talk leadership, composure, confidence and what their teams need to improve next.

      🎙️ The BIG LIFE is college soccer from the girls actually living it. Follow Paige + Jaiden as they take you inside the games, pressure, friendships, setbacks and everything else that comes with Division I soccer.

      20 min
    • The BIG LIFE S5E5 | Conference Play, College Soccer Reality + Coach Alyssa Deloice

      September is here, conference play is around the corner, and Paige Thompson and Jaiden Rodriguez are checking in on where they really are both individually and with their teams.

      Paige and Jaiden talk rankings, results, the frustration of creating chances without scoring, what they wish they could replay from their latest games, and the specific parts of their own games they want to improve. Paige is focused on being more vocal and demanding the ball, while Jaiden has one very clear goal: find the back of the net.

      Then Paige's Alabama assistant coach Alyssa Deloice joins the show. A former Mississippi State midfielder and captain, Alyssa shares her own path from Texas Tech into the transfer portal and ultimately Mississippi State — and why finding coaches who saw her as a person, not just a player, became so important to her.

      They get into what young players don't always hear about the jump to Division I soccer: the speed of play, learning patience, balancing the physical demands, and understanding that freshmen don't have to constantly prove they belong. Alyssa also shares how playing through an ankle injury taught her the hard way that there's a difference between being sore and being hurt.

      They also talk leadership, Alyssa's transition from player to coach, what coaches actually see when they review film, and how players can take more ownership of their development.

      And for players going through recruiting, Alyssa has some particularly good advice: know your non-negotiables and talk to the players already inside the program. A coach is naturally going to tell you their culture is great. The players living it every day can tell you what it actually feels like.

      In this episode:

      • Paige + Jaiden's weekly Rose, Bud & Thorn
      • Rankings vs. focusing on the next game
      • The start of conference play
      • Honest self-evaluation as a college player
      • The jump from club soccer to Division I
      • Transfer portal lessons
      • Playing through pain vs. soreness
      • Why freshmen don't need to "prove" themselves
      • Leadership without wearing the captain's armband
      • Seeing the game from a coach's perspective
      • Recruiting, ID camps + choosing the right program
      • The questions recruits should actually be asking
      • 🎙️ The BIG LIFE takes you inside Division I women's soccer with Alabama's Paige Thompson and USC's Jaiden Rodriguez — the games, travel, pressure, recruiting, friendships and everything that happens beyond the scoreboard.

        37 min
      • The BIG LIFE S5E4 | The Transfer Portal, Going Pro & Betting on Yourself

        Another week in the BIG LIFE means games, classes, sore legs and a whole lot happening at once.

        Paige and Jaiden catch up on Alabama’s 4–0 start, USC’s battle with BYU, the return to class and what they’re both thinking about life after college soccer.

        Then they welcome their first guest of Season 5, former Santa Clara and Cal player Alex Kloss, for an honest conversation about the transfer portal, playing time, confidence and knowing when it’s time to make a change.

        Alex shares why she walked away from a school and teammates she loved, gave up a significant scholarship and took a chance on Cal after being told she likely wouldn’t have a major role the following season. It was a risk that ultimately led to more playing time, a full scholarship and a new path toward playing professionally.

        They talk about trusting your gut, choosing the right college fit, rebuilding confidence, going pro and why there’s no single “right” path through soccer.

        The BIG LIFE is college soccer from the players actually living it. Follow the podcast and come along for the season.

        31 min
      • The BIG LIFE S5E3 | What Nobody Tells You About Being a College Athlete

        The soccer season is underway. Now add classes, homework, roommates, travel, playing time, exhaustion and an actual social life to the mix.

        In Episode 3 of The BIG LIFE, Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC) get honest about what happens when preseason ends and being a student-athlete suddenly means being a STUDENT again.

        Paige recaps Alabama’s huge road wins over Saint Louis and Memphis — including snapping Memphis’ 41-game home winning streak with a goal in the final seconds — while Jaiden reflects on USC’s early-season games and the lessons that come from getting a serious wake-up call against a top team.

        Then the conversation gets real.

        Paige and Jaiden talk about balancing classes with training, the sacrifices that come with being a college athlete, dorm and roommate life, playing time, confidence, managing emotions after a tough game and why two teammates living under the same roof can be having completely different college soccer experiences.

        They also check in on the college soccer rankings, make predictions for some of the biggest upcoming games and answer a few questions about what nobody tells you before you become a college athlete.

        In this episode:

        • Alabama’s dramatic road win over Memphis
        • The reality of travel and early-season games
        • Going back to class while playing Division I soccer
        • Time management, sleep and sacrificing your social life
        • Dorms, roommates and finally having your own space
        • What happens when one roommate plays 90 minutes and another plays zero
        • Handling frustration and conversations with your coach
        • Confidence, overthinking and learning to “play free”
        • Paige’s game-day reminder: “Play big. Be you.”
        • Early college soccer rankings and upcoming games
        • What they wish someone had told them before college

        The BIG LIFE takes you inside college soccer through the players actually living it.

        New episodes every week with Paige + Jaiden.

        #TheBIGLIFE #CollegeSoccer #NCAASoccer #StudentAthlete #GirlsSoccer

        32 min
      • The BIG LIFE S5E2 | NIL, Recruiting & The Start of College Soccer with Paige Thompson & Jaiden Rodriguez

        The college soccer season is officially here — and Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC) are taking us inside all of it.

        In Episode 2 of The BIG LIFE, Paige and Jaiden recap their preseason matches, including Paige's battle wound against LSU, and look ahead to some huge early-season matchups.

        Then they dive into the changing world of college soccer: preseason rankings, new NCAA eligibility rules, NIL, agents, and what it's actually like to build a personal brand while competing as a Division I athlete.

        They also get candid about their own college recruiting journeys — why Paige ultimately chose Alabama, why Jaiden chose USC, what mattered most when making their decisions, and their advice for young players navigating an increasingly fast-moving recruiting process.

        In this episode:

        • Paige's bloody preseason battle against LSU
        • Jaiden's takeaways from USC's first preseason match
        • Early-season goals and big matchups ahead
        • Their reaction to the preseason Top 25
        • How the changing NCAA landscape is affecting college athletes
        • What NIL actually looks like for women's soccer players
        • Jaiden's experience signing with Nike and working with an agent
        • How college recruiting has changed
        • Why players shouldn't rush their college decision
        • How Paige chose Alabama and Jaiden chose USC
        • The BIG LIFE follows college soccer from the players' perspective — the games, pressure, friendships, recruiting, NIL and everything that happens beyond the pitch.

          Follow Girls Soccer Network and join Paige and Jaiden every week as they take us inside The BIG LIFE.

          #TheBIGLIFE #CollegeSoccer #NCAASoccer #NIL #CollegeRecruiting #GirlsSoccer

          22 min
        • The BIG LIFE S5E1 | Meet Paige Thompson & Jaiden Rodriguez + Preseason, Pressure & Big Goals

          The BIG LIFE is back with new hosts Paige Thompson (Alabama) and Jaiden Rodriguez (USC) and they're kicking off the season by pulling back the curtain on what life is really like as Division I soccer players.

          From grueling preseason fitness tests and exhibition matches to the mental challenges of earning playing time, Paige and Jaiden have an honest conversation about the highs, lows, and lessons they learned during their freshman seasons. They also share the goals they're setting for the year ahead—on and off the field.

          In this episode:

          • Preseason fitness tests, beep tests, and preparing for the season
          • Lessons learned during their freshman year of college soccer
          • Managing confidence, pressure, and the mental side of the game
          • Working with sports psychologists and developing a stronger mindset
          • Setting performance goals for the upcoming season
          • Small daily habits that make a big difference
          • Why extra training, recovery, and consistency matter
          • This episode is proudly sponsored by SogilityGO—the smart rebounder helping players get more quality touches, improve their first touch, and train with purpose outside of team practice. Use the promo code GSN10 for 10% off your purchase. 

            Whether you're preparing for college soccer, currently playing, or dreaming of competing at the next level, this episode offers an honest look at what it takes to keep growing.

            Subscribe for new episodes every week featuring the voices of college players living The BIG LIFE.

            24 min

          About The BIG LIFE

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          The Big Life delivers an electrifying, live insight into collegiate women’s soccer, fueled by college players that rotate each season to give us fresh insights and perspectives. 

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