The Big Little Podcast

Description:

Growing older is mandatory, growing up is optional.

In a fetish that often seems all about youth, growing older can present both challenges and opportunities. Our panel discusses the issues, both real and imagined, in aging as an age player. From dysphoria to ageism, growing up isn’t easy. But doing so can also come with some surprising benefits.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Sarah Plain n Small, Enfant, and Shokolada

Recorded: January 18th, 2019 @ 9:00 PM EST

* br.org

* https://fetlife.com/groups/178483 – DMV LBC

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Galaxy_Quest

* https://www.patreon.com/makoallen 

* futureme.org

* Alan Watts On Being Alive https://www.dropbox.com/s/4kdu9wtpyblc5w0/Alan%20Watts%20on%20being%20alive…

Description:

Join us for a long, luxurious personal interview with a fascinating age playing couple who are the hosts of the excellent Love In Brief Podcast as well, creators of the song Radiant, as well as the fun closer music at the end of our shows.

We discuss how they met, philosophies on love and age play, and much, much more. Join us and lean how how the heart-first and head-first can grow and flourish together.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Resonant Yes and Road Not Taken

Recorded: October 18th, 2018 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Getting Unstuck by Pema Chodron

* The Wisdom of the Enneagram

* You just don’t understand by Deb Tannen

* Love in Brief podcast site

* Ry’s tumblr

* Radiant – At the end of THIS PODCAST

* Amazon Solimo adult pull-ups for women

Description:

For many, ageplay is a respite from the difficult realities of the real world. Unfortunately, sometimes those realities come crashing in anyway. This past year one of those realities was the passing of our dear friend and prior podcast guest Andrea (littleryakitty). Her loss has been felt deeply by so many little and big alike.

On this show we talk with fellow age players that have known and loved her in a someone irreverent examination of how age players cope with loss. It’s hard for us to imagine a more fitting tribute.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Frankie, Ducky, Maddy, Devin, Ella, Michigan Missy, and Missy

Recorded: August 17th, 2018 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Boston Fetish Flea - https://fetishflea.com/

* Pennsic War - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsic_War

* VAST – Pretty When You Cry (music video) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOZ6ptqcbUc

* Getting Unstuck (audio book) - https://www.audible.com/pd/Getting-Unstuck-Audiobook/B002V8OFNC

* Happy Hand Guy (image) - https://imgur.com/a/wdMJBBI

* The Game of Things - https://www.thegameofthings.com/

Description:

Exhibitionism and voyeurism sound like simple topics, but our guests teach us just how rich the idea can be. Learn about the astounding volume of variations of exhibitionism, how to mix it with age play, and how to understand your boundaries.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Ashley and Mikey

Recorded: July 20th, 2018 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Tire Thumper on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/AnyTime-Blades-Wooden-Thumper-Inches/dp/B01DEA2BFE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1532135660&sr=8-1&keywords=tire+thumper

* Understanding Love Languages: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/learn-…

* Camp Crucible: http://www.campcrucible.com

* Midtown Kink Fest: MadTownKinkFest.org

* Geeky Kink Event: https://twitter.com/geekykink?lang=en

* Legal definition of a reasonable person: https://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Reasonable+Person

* Reasonable person: https://www.wnycstudios.org/story/mr-graham-and-reasonable-man/

* Compersion: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/gracie-x/compersion-a-polyamorous-principle-…

* Nanny Grace’s Vagina: https://fetlife.com/users/5973505/pictures/71508580

* Dream A Little Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/dream-a-little/id1090668917?mt=2

* Love in Brief podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/love-in-brief/id1366375898?mt=2

* https://youtu.be/DONGlyiGB8M

Description:

It’s no secret that the environment around us can have a tremendous psychological impact. On this episode, we talk with folks who have intentionally crafted environments to support their age play experience. From child-like bedrooms to full on age play convention spaces, we learn from our guests walk us through how to set up places that can make us feel little.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Denny and Bethie, Aiden, Cargo Weasel, and Moliere

Recorded: January 19th, 2017 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Indian Marker Bed and Breakfast - https://fetlife.com/users/1081376

* Teddy Love Collection - https://teddyloveadulttoys.com/collections/teddy-love-collection

* https://www.thisiswhyimbroke.com/pillow-fort-construction-kit/

* Moliere Fetlife Profile with nursery pictures - https://fetlife.com/users/116467

* Cheeky spanking group - http://cheekyspankos.tumblr.com

* Philly Music Hall - https://phillymusichall.com

* Muir Academy - http://www.muir-academy.co.uk

* SCONY Spanking Club of New York - http://www.scony.com

* Nickle City – http://www.nickelcitygames.com

* Galloping Ghost Arcade Illinois - https://www.gallopingghostarcade.com

* Muse Mecanique - http://museemecaniquesf.com

* Snoezelen Multi-Sensory Environments – http://snoezelen.info

* Littles Express - http://www.littlesexpress.com

Description:

Our guests share their stories of age play and how their lives and experiences differ from the dominant culture in America. Along the way we learn a little bit about the ways our guest’s ethnicities interplay throughout their lives as kinksters and age players, ways that play spaces and munches can be more welcoming to people with different backgrounds, and resources specifically geared to supporting some populations. Throughout all of it are some amazing stories of fun and imaginative age play that are sure to inspire.

Hosts: Mako, Spacey, and Mae

Guests: Changeling, Realm, Miss Lola Sunshine, T, and Blue Pandora

Recorded: January 19th, 2017 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Weekend Reunion – http://weekendreunion.com

* Sprung Event – Baltimore - http://weekendreunion.com/sprung.htm

* SOAP – Social of Ageplayers - https://fetlife.com/groups/67470

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code-switching

* wicked grounds patreon - https://www.patreon.com/wickedgrounds

* WEEKEND REUNION FETLIFE GROUP - https://fetlife.com/groups/76233 

* She’s Gotta Have It – https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3713588/

* Mr. S Leather - https://www.mr-s-leather.com

Description:

On this episode we learn about the pros and cons of making and selling your own kinky / ageplay porn. Our guests share everything from why they chose to get started  and what keeps them going, to all that they’ve learned along the way.

Hosts: Mako & Spacey

Guests: Dolly Lilian Lee & Shokolada

Recorded: September 15th, 2017 @ 9:00 PM EST

* Shokolada’s Mess http://chocmess.com/mess/

* Can It! http://chocmess.com/mess/2011/12/28/can-it/

* Misfit Toi Studios, Lilian Lee’s Clips4Sale https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/97571/lilian-lee-studios-

* The Magic Dolly https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/97571/15011133/The+Magic+Dolly

* Sex With Strangers Podcast http://www.sexwithstrangerspodcast.com/

* The specific episode on lesbian sex (Possibly). https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/sex-with-strangers/e/50978682

* The Crashpad series http://crashpadseries.com/

* Shokolada mentioned music for Youtube vids given freely with attribution https://incompetech.com

* Pornhub https://www.pornhub.com/

* The SonicErotica podcast http://sonicerotica.com/

Description:

She found the leather community, figured out she was dominant, and went on to become a leather titleholder, twice, back in 1997.  Around the same time she became a part of a leather family, she met her first ABDL.

Since Ms Pierced has worked hard to remove the stigma ageplay has had in the larger BDSM, leather, and fetish communities.  She started the South Florida Littles group back in 2012.

Join us to hear the personal kink and age play journey of this amazing person.

Hosts: Mako, & Spacey

Guest: Miss Pierced

Recorded: February 18th, 2017 @ 9:00 PM EST

* South Florida Littles Group

* Beyond Leather

* Orlando Age Play class

Description:

Age players are everywhere! We’ll prove it – again – with another bevy of guests from around the world. Travel with us as we learn a little about what it’s like to get little in lots of different timezones.

Hosts: Mae, Mako, & Spacey

Guest: Babylai, Eedoo, Naomi, DJ_PuppyPants, Felix, & Grey 

Recorded: January 20th, 2017 @ 9:00 PM EST

German-language online communities (Germany, Austria, Switzerland):

* http://kuddelmuddel.me – focus on ageplay

* http://wb-community.com – probably the largest and oldest German-language ABDL community, 1600 active users, now more focus on DL

* http://windelnet.be

* http://littlespace.de – focus on DD/lg

* Other: http://adultbaby.ch,  http://windel.community,  http://windelweb.org

Scandinavian online communities (Denmark, Norway, Sweden):

* http://www.abdlscandinavia.com

Danish online community

* https://ageplay.dk/

French-language online communities (France, Belgium, Switzerland, Canada):

* http://abkingdom.com/

Other countries/languages: (not checked)

* Czech Republic & Slovakia: http://abdl.cz

* Italy: http://abdl.forumcommunity.net 

* Spain: https://www.diaperforo.org

Mail order services for diapers, accessories:

* http://www.saveexpress.de – large selection of diapers, based in Germany, ships worldwide, reasonable prices

* http://abdlfactory.com – based in the Netherlands

* more shops on http://www.yourlittleside.com/websites.html

Munches:

* Map of munches in Germany and Austria: https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?mid=1zoTxqGXraTS0QZHQT3cfwSOR6cE&ll=51.086942205705355%2C3.8249050252136385&z=5

* Danish munches information (mostly takes place in Copenhagen): http://munch.ageplay.dk/

Ageplay parties:

* AB Club, London, UK (monthly), http://www.adult-baby-club.com

* Böse Buben Windelparty, Berlin, DE (January+June, men only), http://www.boese-buben-berlin.de

* Club Luier, Amsterdam, NL (bi-monthly), http://luier.club

* Quälgeist Krabbelgruppe, Berlin, DE (March+September, men+women), http://www.quaelgeist.sm or on Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/6879407

Magazines mentioned on the show:

* GUM: http://www.langeverlag.

Description:

We didn’t want to do it, but our guest panel of little sadists wanted to see us squirm. On this episode we learn what drives some sweet and innocent littles to enjoy tormenting bigs, other littles, and everyone else. Listen as even the hosts get a dose when introduced to things like Cake Farts and the Otamatone. We discuss the joys of subverting expectations and learn about the broad range of archetypes of little sadist roles.

Maybe you, too, will like not liking it.

Hosts: Mae, Mako, & Spacey

Guest: Feef, WeeLamb, Marcus, & Samsara

Recorded: December 16th, 2016 @ 9:00 PM EST

Show Notes

* Mean Girls

* Feef’s favorite CAKEFART Video

* Otomotone

* Peepee Teepee

* Kick-Ass movie

* Lord of the Flies

 

Archetypes

* There’s the bully, who enjoys being perhaps the bigger, stronger child, and using this to cause those smaller, younger, and weaker than themselves suffering

* There’s the brat, who wants their own way, and is going to make you suffer for not giving it to them.

* There’s the needy baby, who is going to do everything in their power to run you ragged, trying to take care of them.

* The brat/Little who wants to be AS ANNOYING AS POSSIBLE to get attention.

* Controlling lolita.

* Goth/vampire little with the desire and ability to control.

* Mean kids.

* The instigator.

* Little pet owner and human animal.

What’s sadism look like when you’re little?

* Teasing

* Bullying

* Unpleasant Behavior

* Manipulation

* Rough physical play

* Cooperating with other Bigs to discipline other littles.

* BDSM Play – Bondage, spanking, impact play, piercing, cutting, all manner.