The Big Little Podcast

Episode 13 – Age Play in the Popular Media

Big Little Podcast Episode 13

Our friend Ella, who was featured on the TV program The Secret Lives of Women, joins us again. We talk about some recent coverage and depictions on age play on TV, the radio, and even in the news. Ella gives us a deeper look at how her show segment was made and we share some recommendations for folks who find themselves in the eye of the media.

Show Notes

* National Geographic Taboo – This segment about adult babies features Stanley from California and his auntie, Sandra.  We found it to be rather negative, for many reasons.  Thanks to the very awesome Rilo Kilo for hosting this clip on her blog.

* The Secret Lives of Women – Our friend Baby Ella was on this segment about adult babies on The Secret Lives of Women.  It’s a much more positive portrayal.

* Sin City on Adult Babies – This is a clip from a european show on adult babies.  It’s surprisingly positive.

* Nanny Lynnette’s Adult Baby Birthday Party – This very positive segment from HBO’s Real Sex shows ageplayers in a lighthearted, respectful way.  It also ties ageplay and AB/DL to power exchange and BDSM.

* 1,000 Ways to Die: Crib Your Enthusiasm – From a popular sensationalist show on Spike TV. WARNING: This very negative segment is spiteful and highly triggering. Proceed with caution.

* CSI’s “King Baby” Episode – Full episode, hosted by Lildobe, about a murdered casino boss who was an adult baby.

* It Gets Better – Dan Savage’s amazingly great project shows recorded video messages of support to struggling LGBT youth.  It’s a response to teen suicides caused by intolerance, showing that life for alternative folks does get better.

* Frolicon – An awesome kinky/sci-fi/geeky event in Atlanta, Georgia.

* NCSF Media Tips – The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom’s tips on how to interview on fetish issues

* Second Life – a 3D virtual community where ageplay has been controversial and provoked some scandals.

* “People who don’t understand AB/DL” – a fetlife thread about a recent

Warning: This segment contains explicit sexual content.

It’s not an experiment anymore, it’s A Little Something Naughty. It’s naughty because these feature a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s story is dirty. It’s not just dirty, it’s REALLY dirty and ever so much fun. Enjoy A Gold Star for Effort by Mako Allen.

A Little Something Naughty 3 – A Gold Star for Effort

Episode 12 – Age Play, Blindness, and Diaper Buying Fun

In this episode our guest is Valentalae. She shares her stories about being a age player and a blind person. She also has a group on FetLife about age play and disabilities called Age Play with a Difference.

This show also contains one of the funniest true-life diaper buying stories your hosts have heard yet.

Big Little Podcast Episode 12

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Staub.

Show Notes

* Wikipedia’s Big List of Paraphilias – this is where Valentalae first heard of infantilism.

* Having your ear against someone’s crotch – it’s a fetish, really.

* Age Play with a Difference – Valentalae runs this FetLife group for all kinds of age players with a difference.  Your hosts are members there, too.

* Signing Without Sight – Valentalae shares an FAQ on FetLife about how she learns and uses sign language.

* Magic Medical – Where Valentalae buys her diapers.

* ABAIP – Short for A Better Absorbent Incontinence Product – another site to buy diapers from.

* Webvisum – a browser add-on to solve those pesky CAPTCHAs.

* Solona – human-powered CAPTCHA solution.

* Black Rose – a Washington, DC based BDSM education group, with lots of good educational and outreach resources.

* Avenue Q – A musical that’s sort of Sessame Street for grownups.

Learn about about the munches meeting in the next couple of weeks, get a quick recap of NELIcon and Frolicon, and get the scoop on the next show.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 5/4/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Saturday, May 14th

* DC Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD

* Mobile Littles Munch – Mobile, AL

Sunday, May 15th

* Albany Littles Munch – Albany, NY

* Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA

* NEW – Ohio Age Play Munch – Springdale, OH

Wednesday, May 18th

* San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, May 21st

* Atlanta Littles Munch (Munch and Play Party) – Atlanta, GA

* Austin Littles Munch – Austin, TX

* Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Other new munches coming soon:

* Central Illinois

* Germany

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Meet your hosts:

* Camp Crucible  Kidz Kamp! – May 28th – June 5th (campcrucible.com)

Also, Mommy Fiercest is organizing a Mommy/little discussion panel at DOMcon LA. We don’t have the details of this panel yet, but event information can be found on the DOMcon LA web site. (domconla.com)

If you have a FetLife account, you can read an excellent recount of the NELIcon age play con.

Episode 11 – Spanking

Big Little Podcast Episode 11

In this episode our guest Missy talks to us about her experiences with spanking and age play. Then she walks us through the basics of getting stated. Missy is one of mako’s mommies and an experienced “spanko.”

Show Notes

* Shadow Lane – Shadow Lane is a company that produces spanking videos and magazines, and hosts spanking conventions.

* Crimson Moon – Based in Chicago, Crimson Moon hosts spanking parties, sells toys and videos, and has spanking personals.

* DC Spanking – DC Spanking’s fetlife group.  They’re a Washington, DC group that hosts spanking parties, and connects people.  Wonderful, kind, giving, loving people.

* SCONY – The Spanking Club of New York.  New York’s only exclusively OTK spanking group since 1997.

Un-Warning: This segment DOES NOT contain explicit sexual content.

We’re  experimenting again. This time Mako has written and reads a nice story. It’s about a girl, her daddy, and surprise.

Enjoy.

A Little Something Sweet 1 – Yes Daddy

 

Episode 10 – Listener Questions & More

Big Little Podcast Episode 10

In this episode it’s back to your hosts. We talk about the state of the show, answer some listener questions, talk about upcoming show topics, and review Penny Barber’s new book: The Age Play and Diaper Fetish Handbook.

Show Notes:

* BBIF – Short for Big Babies, Infantilists & Friends – the BBIF is the oldest internet mailing list/resource for adult babies and ageplayers still available today.

* Our Fetlife Group – It’s called “The Big Little Podcast”.  You’ll need a fetlife account to get to it.  Luckily, they’re free!

* Little Girl Lost’s Ageplay Negotiation Form – Courtesy of the wonderful Wayback Machine, which has preserved this valuable resource.

 

Learn about about the munches meeting in the next couple of weeks, about events that spacey and mako will be attending, and get the scoop on the next show.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 4/20/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Wed, April 20th

* San Francisco Littles Munch  – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, April 23rd

* North Carolina Littles Munch – Greensboro, NC

* Madison, Wisconsin Littles Munch — Madison, WI

Wed April 27th

* Pioneer Valley  — Northampton, Massachusetts

Monday,  May 2nd

* Boston Munch – Cambridge, MA

* Little Space Sacramento – Roseville, CA

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Meet your hosts:

* Frolicon – in Atlanta – this weekend, April 21-24th (Frolicon.net)

* Camp Crucible  Kidz Kamp! – May 28th – June 5th (campcrucible.com)

Also, in Minneapolis, MN, Benny will be hosting an age play class in a venue called The Smitten Kitten. The only information about it appears to be posted to FetLife at the moment. You can get that info here: http://fetlife.com/events/49780

Episode 9 – Self Esteem & Coming Out

Big Little Podcast Episode 9

Self esteem seems like something people are born with. Most often, however, it’s a skill learned through determination and practice. In this episode our guest Andrea, Ella, and Lady Mae, join us for a discussion about the importance of self esteem, strategies for improving it, and using it to come out to the people that matter.

Show Notes:

* Camp Crucible – BDSM Oriented camp/vacation experience with age play events and a large contingent of age players.

* War of Art – A book by StevenPressfied. It talks about “The Resistance” and the importance of doing what you feel fear about.

* Power Exchange Books Resource Series: Age Play – A collection of article by age players and a range of topics. Referenced in the show because spacey contributed an article about how age play can combine with a variety of kinks.

* Secret Lives of Women segment (YouTube video) – This segment aired on the WE tv network’s show, The Secret Lives of Women. Our guest, Baby Ella agreed to appear. In doing show, she helped a lot of other age players learn they were not alone.

* Erotic Awakening Episode 107 – Lee Harrington discusses some of his experiences with age play. He also talks about understanding how many people’s reactions are based on projection of themselves on us. It’s an excellent show.

* The Four Agreements – A book by Don Miguel Ruiz. Referenced by andrea, it goes deeper into concepts of compassion and projection.

* Ella’s Playspace – Little Ella’s most excellent blog.

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Warning: This segment contains explicit sexual content.

The experiment continues in the segment we call A Little Something Naughty. It’s naughty because these feature a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s erotica is Held, by Mako Allen and features a Daddy/boy scenario.

A Little Something Naughty 2 – Held