As we step into the new year brimming with potential and opportunity, I find myself reflecting deeply on the lessons that have shaped my journey. I hope your festive season was everything you wished for, filled with joy, relaxation, and precious moments with loved ones. As we transition back into the hustle and bustle of business, I want to share a revelation that has been pivotal for me—a lesson that even after nearly six years in my current business and over a decade earlier in litigation, I continually revisit. It’s a lesson in boundaries and the complex dynamics between business and friendship.

As accidental friends—those we perceive as more than mere contacts due to regular business interactions—the line between professional relationships and personal friendships can blur all too easily. For years, I found myself repeatedly grappling with the notion that business partnerships meant true friendship. It was a cycle that led to misunderstanding whenever those connections inevitably shifted once the professional tie ended.

Perhaps you, too, have felt the strain of relationships built solely on business endeavours. Rather than exhausting you, understanding this lesson can be empowering if used as a catalyst for personal growth. Acknowledging this challenge doesn't diminish your care or moderation but rather enhances the quality and sustenance of both your work and personal relationships.

As we embrace this year, let's enter it with newfound awareness and openness to learning. Establishing clear boundaries in business helps not only in thriving professionally but also in managing personal energy efficiently. This clarity can transform disappointment into gratitude for the lessons learned, guiding healthier interactions.

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