One of the most common questions I hear from women who stop drinking is: “What happens to my marriage if my spouse still drinks?”

If your partner was your “drinking buddy” for years, it’s natural to wonder what changes when you decide to go alcohol-free. Will you lose connection? Will intimacy or date nights feel different? What if your partner doesn’t want to quit?

In this episode, I asked Kelley Kitley, a licensed clinical social worker, therapist, and author of MY self, to join me in an honest conversation about how our marriages shifted when we quit drinking and our husbands didn’t. Between us, we’ve got decades of marriage, parenting, and sobriety experience—and we’re sharing what worked, what was challenging, and how sobriety actually brought more peace and authenticity into our homes.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/you-stopped-drinking-he-didnt-how-sobriety-might-change-your-marriage/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

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Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

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“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

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If you’ve ever wondered what really happens after you quit drinking — not just the “before and after” highlight reel — this episode is for you.

I’m sitting down with Clare Pooley, author of the memoir The Sober Diaries: How One Mom Stopped Drinking and Started Living, to talk about her first 365 days alcohol‑free, how her life transformed, and the surprising truths she learned along the way.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/the-sober-diaries/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

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I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

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If your sex drive has gone missing, your body feels like it’s betraying you, or you think that wine is the only thing that can get you through the mood swings, hot flashes, and insomnia of midlife—this episode is for you.

I asked Dr. Kelly Casperson—board-certified urologist, hormone and sex expert, and author of You Are Not Broken: Stop Shoulding All Over Your Sex Life—to break down how perimenopause, hormones, alcohol, and aging all affect our desire, sex lives, and emotional well-being in midlife. Spoiler alert: it’s not just in your head, and there are things you can do about it.

Dr. Kelly is also the host of the You Are Not Broken podcast, and she’s a no-BS, wildly smart voice helping women understand what’s actually going on with their hormones, desire, and bodies. 

In this conversation, we talk honestly about sex in sobriety, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), perimenopause symptoms, and how alcohol is quietly making everything worse.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/hormones-menopause-better-sex-in-sobriety-what-every-woman-needs-to-know/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

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So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

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You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

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Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

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To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

Do you ever wonder why you really drank?

Not the surface reasons (like stress, fun, social pressure, or the witching hour), but the underneath stuff—the big and small things you were trying to avoid, numb, or cope with?

In this very special episode, I sat around my kitchen table with five incredible women who work with me in my Sobriety Starter Kit private member community—Marriott, Katie, Jess, Heidi, and Emily—for a raw, honest, and emotional conversation about the deeper work of sobriety.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/the-deeper-work-of-sobriety-why-we-drink-and-what-helps-us-heal/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

If you’re ready to finally take a break from drinking (and do the deeper work that brings real healing), come join us inside the Sobriety Starter Kit.

We’ll be there waiting to welcome you in 💛

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

☕ Buy me a coffee!

In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language.

So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast

You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience.

Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson

To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

Do you remember the last time you said, “I can’t keep doing this?”

I do.

But at the time, I didn’t realize it would be my last Day One.

I just knew I couldn’t go on like that anymore.

In this deeply personal solo episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m sharing the story of the week that finally broke the cycle for me—the last time I drank, the moments I wish I could take back, the shame and exhaustion that came crashing down, and the decision I made that finally helped me break free.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/277

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

☕ Buy me a coffee!

In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language.

So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast

You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience.

Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson

To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

So many of us worry that going alcohol-free means giving up the good stuff: the joy, the spontaneity, the adventure, the romance. We think drinking = fun and not drinking = flat and boring.

But that is total B.S.

In this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I sat down with two incredible women—Amanda Eyre Ward and Jardine Libaire, authors of the book The Sober Lush: A Hedonist’s Guide to Living a Decadent, Adventurous, Soulful Life Alcohol-Free. I asked them to share how they’ve created rich, exciting, joy-filled lives without alcohol—and how you can too.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/the-sober-lush-live-alcohol-free/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

☕ Buy me a coffee!

In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language.

So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast

You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience.

Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson

To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

As a recovering people pleaser—and someone who coped with anxiety by overachieving, micromanaging, and trying to make sure nothing ever fell through the cracks—I know how exhausting perfectionism can be.

Because here’s the truth: perfectionism doesn’t make you better. It makes you burned out.

And it’s a mindset that can sabotage your progress when you’re trying to make positive changes—whether that’s taking a break from alcohol, stepping into a new season of life, or finally putting your needs first.

I asked mindset, leadership, and business coach Sara Dean—host of the Shameless Mom Academy podcast—to share how perfectionism shows up for high-achieving women, why it’s connected to anxiety and procrastination, and how to stop letting it keep you stuck.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/overcoming-perfectionism/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

☕ Buy me a coffee!

In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language.

So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast

You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience.

Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson
To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

If you’ve ever looked around your life after you stopped drinking and thought, “Wait... is this it?”—you’re not alone. Sobriety cracks you open. And once you’re no longer numbing out at night, everything you've been tolerating suddenly becomes really loud.

That’s why I asked Laura McKowen, author of We Are The Luckiest: The Surprising Magic of a Sober Life, creator of the Bigger Yes course, and founder of The Luckiest Club, to share how you can rediscover your voice, values, and vision for what’s next—without needing to burn it all down or have it all figured out.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to live with intention in sobriety and say yes to a life that actually feels good. Because quitting drinking is just the beginning. What comes next is figuring out how to align with who you truly are and what you actually want.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/laura-mckowen/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.
Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson

To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

If you’ve ever had one of those “how is this my life?” moments in sobriety—when it feels like everything is crashing down around you and a glass of wine (or five) sounds like the only way to survive the storm—you are not alone. 

Sobriety doesn’t give you a free pass from heartbreak, betrayal, or complete life plot twists. 

But it does give you the tools (and the clarity) to get through the mess without self-destructing.

In this episode, I sat down with Tiffany Jenkins—bestselling author of the memoirs High Achiever and A Clean Mess—to talk about how to survive hard times in sobriety. And not just survive, but eventually rebuild your life without numbing out. 

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/surviving-hard-times-in-sobriety-moving-through-betrayal-divorce-and-rebuilding-your-life-without-numbing-out/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks?

☕ Buy me a coffee!

In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language.

So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you!

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast

You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/

Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience.

Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”.

I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura,

“I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!”

Connect with Casey McGuire DavidsonTo find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

If you’ve ever thought, “Life without alcohol sounds boring, lonely, or just... blah,” you’re not alone.

Let’s be real—most of us grew up swimming in wine-soaked messaging that told us drinking was the key to fun, connection, and success. 

Whether it was Sex and the City, Bridget Jones, or just Tuesday night mom memes about needing wine to survive bedtime routines—alcohol was everywhere and always painted as the prize for being a grown woman.

But here’s the thing: that story is a lie. And it’s one that keeps so many smart, successful women stuck in drinking habits that make them feel worse—not better.

In this episode, I asked Kate Bee, founder of The Sober School, to share how we can stop glorifying alcohol and start creating a version of sobriety that feels vibrant, powerful, and worth celebrating. Because changing your relationship with alcohol isn’t just about quitting—it’s about reclaiming your joy, your freedom, and your energy.

For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link:

https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/how-to-stop-romanticizing-alcohol/

4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More

Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life.

Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking 

Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free.

Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober.

Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson

To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com