Let’s talk about the real fears that come up when you're getting sober. I’m answering your top “Ask Me Anything” questions, no sugar-coating, no fluff.

We dive into:

The fear of never having fun again without alcohol 😬

What to say when people tell you, “You’re just not as fun anymore”

Why this fear is so normal (and what’s on the other side of it)

Some of our favorite hot mess stories: because you are not alone.

Whether you’re just starting out or deep into your Sober Girl era, this is your reminder that you’re human, you’re growing, and you don’t need alcohol to be the life of the party. You are the party.

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I sit down with two powerhouse members from A Sober Girls Guide membership, Alicia and April, who share raw, real, and refreshingly honest stories about what it actually looks like to change your relationship with alcohol. This isn’t theory. This is lived experience, big breakthroughs, tiny wins that stack up, community magic, and the kind of honesty that makes you exhale and think, “Okay… I’m not alone.”

We talk about:

The stress and excitement of family members and holiday events are a major trigger and that's why I made a list of my tips and tools to help you navigate through the holiday season successfully and sober! 

Sandra Vergara, actress, luxury real estate agent, and newest face of Selling Sunset, shares about the moment she realized drinking was lowering her energy and blocking the life she was trying to grow into. Sandra opens up about her sobriety journey, her emotional patterns, and how discovering Kabbalah became the spiritual framework that helped her rebuild from the inside out.

We discuss:

• Emotional patterns Sandra uncovered once she stopped drinking

We explore the quiet signs your body, mind, and mood are giving you, the self-doubt that creeps in when others minimize your experience, and how to rebuild trust in your own intuition. From “gray-area drinking” to subtle burnout, this episode helps you tune out the noise and tune into yourself.

Coach Lisa and Coach Susan dive into how to recognize when alcohol is holding you back, even if you don’t “look like” you have a problem.

We cover:

It’s not about rock bottom, it’s about realizing you deserve better.

In this empowering episode, discover essential techniques to overcome cravings, avoid boredom, and socialize confidently without alcohol.

Key Highlights:

"Sobriety is not about what you give up; it’s about what you gain."

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Mom guilt is one of the biggest struggles women face when changing their relationship with alcohol. In this episode, I sit down with Coach Lisa from A Sober Girls Guide Membership to unpack how guilt shows up for moms in sobriety, and more importantly, how to overcome it.

Lisa shares her own experiences as a mom navigating sobriety and gives practical tools to help you release the shame, shift your mindset, and build confidence in your role as both a mother and a sober woman.

We cover:

Why mom guilt hits so hard in sobriety

How alcohol and guilt are connected for moms

The first steps to breaking free from shame and self-criticism

This conversation is both validating and empowering, reminding every mom out there that you are not alone and you are more than enough without alcohol.

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Why do women with ADHD struggle to quit drinking? Jessica sits down with Jennifer, Rebel Without a Drink, to explore how understanding your brain changes everything about sobriety. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain won’t slow down, why you can’t “just have one,” or why quitting drinking feels like a full-time job, this episode is for you.

Together they explore:

How to know if you might have ADHD as a woman (and why it’s often missed)

Why ADHD brains crave relief and stimulation at the same time

The dopamine trap that makes alcohol feel like it “helps” (but actually burns you out)

How to calm your mind, regulate emotions, and build focus without drinking

ADHD-friendly tools, routines, and supplements that actually work

Why willpower isn’t the problem, energy is

Why do women with ADHD struggle to quit drinking? Jessica sits down with Jennifer, Rebel Without a Drink, to explore how understanding your brain changes everything about sobriety. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain won’t slow down, why you can’t “just have one,” or why quitting drinking feels like a full-time job, this episode is for you.

Together they explore:

How to know if you might have ADHD as a woman (and why it’s often missed)

Why ADHD brains crave relief and stimulation at the same time

The dopamine trap that makes alcohol feel like it “helps” (but actually burns you out)

How to calm your mind, regulate emotions, and build focus without drinking

ADHD-friendly tools, routines, and supplements that actually work

Why willpower isn’t the problem, energy is

In this deeply personal solo episode, I take you through the real, raw, and radically honest story of my 8-year journey without alcohol. From blackout nights in LA as the girl paid to party, to becoming the founder of A Sober Girl’s Guide, this episode is not a highlight reel. It’s the truth.

You'll find yourself in this story if you’re starting, starting over, or somewhere in the middle. And I promise: there’s light on the other side.

In this episode, I share:

✨ If you’ve ever wondered if you can change your life without alcohol, this episode is for you.

DM me @asobergirlsguide on Instagram and let me know what part of the journey you're on.

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