If you’re newly engaged, the pressure to start immediately is real — venues, Pinterest boards, vendor outreach, all at once. But the biggest mistake couples make in the first 30 days isn’t choosing the wrong vendor.

It’s planning for aesthetics before their priorities are clear.

In this episode of Handled, Alyson breaks down why rushing into decisions often leads to overwhelm, misaligned spending, and unnecessary stress — and what to do instead. You’ll learn how establishing clear priorities early becomes the framework that makes every decision after that feel easier, faster, and more confident.

This episode is especially for couples who want a planning process that feels intentional, grounded, and actually enjoyable — not reactive.

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