THERE AE SO MANY THINGS! Tank tops. Hi heels. Short shorts. Climbing ladders. Shoveling in the garden. Kneeling on the bare floor. ETC. ETC. ETC. As we have aged we have had to change our wardrobe, our jewelry, our household chores, and the way we vacation. While much has been lost, Nancy finds a long list of things she CAN STILL DO!

NOT TO GET POLITICAL, but the social atmosphere has chilled with the result that divisions seem greater, values seem oppositional, and people are tiptoeing around a lot more. In spite of all this Nancy strives to find a way to connect--and she makes it work!

NANCY HAS GIVEN THIS A LOT OF THOUGHT. Janet, not so much. Nancy explains how she changed over the years until her values and her expression of her values synced to reveal her life's meaning. She encourages listeners to evaluate their own beliefs, values, and actions.

D E E P.

EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE ONE! Whether it's a spouse, a friend, or a sympathetic family member, an emotional support person can help you when you most need it. Maybe it's a trip to the emergency room for an illness or accident. You need SOMEONE there, physically, to hold your hand and make sure you're treated well. Or perhaps you're chairing a fund-raising event for your favorite service club--your emotional support person can make the job easier for you. But then... you have to give back.

We're all waiting for it, after a certain age. What will it be?--Cancer? A stroke? COPD? WHAT???? IT'S THE WAKE-UP CALL. We'll learn about it in a doctor's office, or in an email or text. "You're screwed." Everything is going to change. This is IT! You're going to have to go through something you REALLY don't want to do, but there's NO OTHER WAY. And then what--after the change?

My great-grandchildren like to taunt me and imitate me, in a good-naturedly way. We are friends. I know them intimately and they know me. I am teaching them how to be grandparents--for when the time comes. From board games to excursions to parks, museums, caves, lakes, plays--grandparents do it all. Nancy has many ideas for entertaining grandkids at home. Grandparenting really IS a way to atone for former parental idiocy.

I was just a little girl when I learned about vaccines. It was the polio vaccine. You cannot imagine the scope of vaccination! Even at age 81 I remember the scene when hundreds of children were vaccinated at my grade school. And today... ???

Taking a walk through our gardens is like wandering through our lives. So many plants remind us of people we loved, places we've been, and adventures we've had. Janet has a wild, woodland garden with commemorative trees and flowers. Nancy has an Asian influence garden including unique features made by her husband. For the Bitchin' Sisters, the garden is an extension of their lives. Of course, mistakes were made!

WHEN YOU GET TO BE OUR AGE you've got some stories about cars and trucks you've owned--anyway, if you live in rural Wisconsin you absolutely need a vehicle. Nancy and Janet remember cars from their childhoods. Vehicles seem to have stories of their own, through the years. From cross-country trips with four children in a station wagon to the disappearance of a silver Mustang, 50 years ago, For most people cars frame our lives.

How many times have you looked back and marveled at the result of a choice you made--a relationship, a change in employment, a move to a new place. Do you wonder what MIGHT have been your life if you had made different choices. Nancy found a life's work; She counsels listeners to become more confident, and to make choices that benefit them.