The Black Bra Podcast

Entitlement has been a word that has come up a lot of times throughout this podcast, so we decided to dedicate an episode to discuss it. So many people are entitled in this world; children entitled to their parents time, money and life (or vice versa), siblings, family member and friends being entitled to each other's time, space, money and decision making or friends and strangers being entitled to another individual's life. 

In other news, this will be our last episode for a while. We will be going on a hiatus but will be back soon. If you miss us too much, listen to an old episode 🙂. Thank you so much for sticking with us for 102 episodes so far!!!!

How do you cope with marrying a man with multiple baby mamas? How do you manage the relationship with the mother of his other kids? What kinds of boundaries are required with the mothers without impacting the relationship between the father and his kids?

It's the 100th Episode!!!!!!! Thank you to all our avid listeners who have been with us since the very beginning. It has been an amazing journey so far and it is so exciting to see that we have reached the 100 episode mark already. 

On our Big Brother Naija update this week, smelly lady parts and gossips are discussed. Meanwhile Timini Egbuson was trending again recently and being dragged by an ex. 

A new King has been crowned in Warri. 

Ghanaians abroad ask their president to fix things so they can return home. 

It's raining broken relationships and marriages...what is going on?

Afghanistan has been on fire since the US and UK exited after 20years. The Taliban took over and the president fled in less than a week. Why has this caused such an issue?

Can Kayanmata be equated to using a date rape drug on someone?

The question is simple - Should Christians pray "die by fire" prayers against their enemies? Or should they take the high road and forgive even when they have legitimate grievances?

We also tackle yet another way the Nigerian government wants to frustrate Tech businesses. 

Who sets the body count standard for both genders? Why is the body count conversation so important? 

Inspired by one of the many big brother naija fights last week, we discuss slut-shaming. What really is considered slut-shaming?

Lastly, please and please, do not carry packages for people when you are travelling except you have thoroughly inspected the package. 

What is the role of a 'friends with benefits' and what are the standard rules guiding this relationship?

It is a religious episode ladies (and gentlemen). We talk about how the northern morality police (Hisbah) turns a blind eye to "sins" of the rich but harass the poor when they commit the same "sins". Then we move on to whether or not religious rules and doctrines should evolve as the world does....which then leads us to discover that "thou shall not fornicate" is not part of the 10 Commandments. Does that give you a pass even though the Bible says your body is His temple?