The Black Sheep Christian

Women are stepping up and reclaiming their identities, and let me tell you, it’s about time! In a world where Christianity throws mixed signals about being submissive while also knowing your purpose, we're diving into the chaos of it all. This episode is all about unraveling those jumbled messages and figuring out how to embrace who we truly are, minus the guilt trip. We chat about how many women get lost in the shuffle of life’s expectations—sacrificing their dreams for others, only to wake up one day wondering where they went. So grab a seat and join us as we navigate this wild ride of self-discovery and empowerment, because honestly, who needs to fit into a mold when you can break it?

Takeaways:

• Women in Christianity are often torn between being submissive and finding their true purpose, which is pretty ironic, right?
• The journey of reclaiming identity is a messy one, filled with societal pressures and mixed messages, like a bad breakup.
• It's all about recognizing that the discomfort of change means you're actually growing, not just falling apart—who knew?
• Coaching isn't just about telling people what to do; it's about asking the right questions to help them discover their own answers.
• Our past experiences and upbringing can trap us into identities that aren't even ours—time to break free from that nonsense!
• Fear can be a real pain, but it's also a sign that you’re on the verge of something big—so embrace it and move forward!

Perfection? Yeah, we’re diving deep into that absurd concept today and honestly, it's about time we called it out for the hot mess it is. I’m Ashley, and let me tell you, trying to fit into the perfect Christian mold is like trying to shove a square peg in a round hole—it's exhausting and frankly, ridiculous. In this episode, we’re tackling how the church's obsession with perfection is a plague that just keeps on giving, leaving folks like me feeling judged and worn out. Spoiler alert: Jesus doesn’t want your accolades or your checklist; He just wants you to show up as your messy, imperfect self. So grab your coffee (or whatever), because we’re about to get real about why you don’t need to be perfect to share God’s love—trust me, it’s a lot more relatable than you think!

Perfection is a myth, and honestly, who even cares? In this episode, we dive into the exhausting game of trying to be the perfect Christian, which, spoiler alert, is totally impossible. Ashley opens up about her struggles with the ridiculous expectations placed on her, like how to dress or what to say, and let’s be real, it’s just exhausting. She’s done with the church’s obsession with perfection, where every minor flaw gets you a side-eye. She’s heard it all—stop church hopping, stop volunteering, and don’t even get her started on the critiques about her appearance. But she’s like, why is it that we can’t just be real? The Bible is full of stories about imperfect people doing amazing things, so why can’t we acknowledge our own imperfections while still trying to spread the good word? Ashley’s rant is relatable and full of sass, urging listeners to embrace their flaws instead of feeling ashamed. Let's ditch the fake perfection act and focus on the real stuff, shall we?

Takeaways:

• Trying to be a perfect Christian is totally exhausting and frankly, ridiculous.
• Perfection in the church is like a plague, and it’s driving me nuts, honestly.
• God doesn't care about how perfect you are; He just wants you, flaws and all.
• If the Bible is your guide, you'll see when folks are twisting it for their own gain.
• People like Abraham, Moses, and Paul were far from perfect, yet they were used by God.
• Stop stressing over perfection—just read your Bible and let God handle the rest.

Links referenced in this episode:

• bibles.com
• biblegateway.com

"God I can't hear you, can you speak louder." Hearing God can be on of the most confusing and difficult skill to grasp. In this episode we will talk about the simple skill of listening.

Finding your voice in this world is a journey of self-discovery, where you learn to embrace your true thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment. It's about listening to your inner self, recognizing your uniqueness, and expressing it authentically. As you navigate through the noise and expectations of others, finding your voice means standing firm in who you are, even if it feels like a challenge. Ultimately, it's about owning your story and confidently sharing it with the world.

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