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The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach

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Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life?
Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God?
And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru?
Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms.
If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? 
Do you ever wonder what happened to fun, adventure, and spontaneity?
And how can we avoid becoming another Homer Simpson or turning our partner into a “ball and chain?”
Today Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner?
Is it wrong to fantasize about someone other than your partner?
And what are we really seeking when we choose to watch adult entertainment?
Today, my wife Alyson and I try to help someone who has a different perspective on porn than his partner. It may be tempting to get stuck in a debate about who is right or wrong, but what if we tried to understand what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is therapy only for the weak?
Do you ever feel like it’s you against the universe?
And how can you tell if you’re a warfighter or a warrior?
Years ago, Navy SEAL Jeff Boss left the military and struggled to find his way as a civilian. Even after burying dozens of his friends, he believed healing was for the weak. Regardless of his elite mental strength training, he was fighting back the emotions with booze and women. Until he couldn’t do it anymore.
So how did he go from someone who thought therapy was for wimps to becoming a therapist himself? Today, Jeff takes us through his experience — from feeling lost and depressed to finding his calling as a healer.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/jeff-boss-healing-warriors

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS?
Do you feel guilty for having a life outside of work and your relationship?
And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache?
My wife Alyson and I deal with past relationship failures, settling for nice guys, and what it may really mean to have a soul mate.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach

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