Why does trying to be a “real man” scream insecurity?

Why do so many guys turn into neutered, “yes dear” pushovers?

And could all this talk about masculine and feminine energy be a big distraction?

Today Alyson and I break it down. What do people really mean when they talk about masculine and feminine energy? Why do some swear it’s the secret to passion, polarity, and purpose? And what if the whole thing is missing the bigger point?

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/10/masculine-feminine-energy

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you know what needs to be done but fail to follow through?

Does life constantly feel like there’s just too much to do?

And are you waiting for everything to be done before you can really enjoy your life?

Today Alyson and I share a simple way to look at our mindset and understand why we make life harder than it needs to be. Whether it’s our inner visionary, manager, or soldier, chances are if you’re struggling to make progress at least one of these guys is needing backup.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/09/mindset-that-keeps-you-stuck

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you have someone in your life that, no matter what you do, it’s always your fault?

Do you often walk on eggshells, worried the next thing you say will set them off?

And at what point does “difficult” cross the line into a personality disorder?

Today, Alyson and I dive into one of the toughest, most confusing topics in relationships: personality disorders. Borderline, narcissistic, and other disorders can be hard to spot, until it’s too late. We’ll break down the red flags to watch for, the patterns that make these relationships so draining, and, most importantly, how to protect yourself when someone else’s behavior is dominating your life.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/09/toxic-person

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Have you ever hit a big win…and felt nothing?

Have you chased success, only to realize it was shallow or meaningless?

And what happens when we finally start living in alignment with our soul instead of our ego?

Today, Alyson and I dive into success, comparisons, and the art of getting over yourself. We talk about who we are underneath the urge to protect, please, and prove, and why it’s actually a gift when our wins feel empty.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/08/success-without-soul

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do?

Why does this “tyranny of should” drain our aliveness, passion, and connection?

And how might your life change if you weren’t afraid to be who you truly are?

Today, Alyson and I talk about how we all “should” on ourselves and each other. We explore how this can leave us feeling trapped and emotionally constipated—and what life can feel like when we loosen our grip on control.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/08/shoulding-all-over-yourself

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner?

Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor?

And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity?

Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to keep things clean, have each other’s back, and handle disagreements with respect.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/bickering-disrespect

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments?

What drains our aliveness more than work?

And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex?

Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career?

What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”?

And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan?

Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you talk to AI like it’s your therapist?

Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human?

And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning?

Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them?

Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun?

And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work?

Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection.

 

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attraction-vs-connection

 

COACHING

 

→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

 

BOOK

 

→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book