This episode is an AMA with Blue, answering real questions from listeners across the region.

From overcoming failure to building resilience and finding your path, this episode covers what it really takes to keep going when things get hard.

From Star Wars to personal growth, rejection, confidence, and building a life you’re proud of, this conversation covers a little bit of everything. Blue opens up about lessons from failure, the importance of community, and what it actually takes to stay consistent when things don’t go your way.

There are moments that are light and fun, and others that go deeper into mindset, identity, and how to keep moving forward when life doesn’t go as planned.

If you’ve ever dealt with rejection, questioned your path, or just needed a reminder to keep going, this episode is for you.

Show Flow:

00:50 What Is Your Middle Name?

03:18 If Everything Disappeared Tomorrow, What Would You Do?

05:00 How Do You Continue to Learn and Grow?

06:42 When Did You Almost Quit but Didn’t?

08:30 Why Did Your Sensei Test You That Way?

11:00 What Was the Hardest No You’ve Faced?

13:05 Was That Your Hardest No Because of What Was at Stake?

14:41 What Did Rejection Teach You That Success Didn’t?

19:46 What Story Did You Want to Revisit About Rejection?

22:32 How Do You Keep Going When Nothing Is Working?

26:42 What Separates People Who Quit from Those Who Don’t?

30:21 Why Do Some People Grow from Adversity While Others Break?

31:10 Have You Always Been Confident?

32:37 What Is Your Confidence Hack?

35:40 How Do You Handle Imposter Syndrome?

40:45 Where Does Your Positivity Come From?

50:28 What Is the 3–5% Edge™ and Why Does It Matter?

52:31 What Does “Find Your Table” Mean?

56:26 How Do Adults Find a Mentor?

01:00:33 What Is the Biggest Transformation You’ve Seen from “The Sum of 4”?

01:03:45 How Should People Adapt to Different Stages of Life?

01:06:10 What Did Your Knee Injuries Teach You?

01:10:10 When Did Your Love for Star Wars Begin?

01:11:38 What Star Wars Character Represents Your Journey?

01:14:50 What Advice Do You Have for New Dads?

01:20:08 What Do You Want People to Feel After Hearing You Speak?

01:21:38 Final Thoughts

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Welcome to The Blue Stiley Podcast, the ultimate destination for motivation, inspiration & personal growth. 🎙️💡 Subscribe to the channel if you love achieving your goals. Your future self will thank you!

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Most people think strength is about staying strong. But real strength shows up when life changes in an instant and you still choose how to move forward.

Today’s guest is Tristan Hite, a speaker, author, and advocate whose life has been shaped by profound loss and unimaginable challenges. After facing two life-altering tragedies, she was forced to confront deep trauma and uncertainty.

Instead of becoming bitter or giving in to the weight of it, Tristan chose to do the hard work of healing and rebuilding her life, turning pain into purpose.

This episode explores trauma, healing, and what it takes to rebuild when life breaks you.

Show Flow

00:19 Meet Tristan Hite 

01:43 Running Into a Career in Banking

04:57 The Relationship That Changed Everything

10:06 A Guns N’ Roses Proposal

13:10 A Tragic Loss and the Reality of PTSD

17:55 Choosing “Up” and the Power of Community Support

21:54 Finding Grace While Moving Through Grief

25:59 Taking Small Steps Back Toward Life

29:17 Letting Go of Sad Drinking and Choosing Healing

31:44 Learning Gratitude and the Power of Listening

34:05 The Difference Between Being a Fixer and a Listener

36:00 Her Daughter’s Brain Tumor Diagnosis

37:31 Hospital Room 314 and the Reality of Surgery

41:23 Fighting Through Two More Years of Uncertainty

45:34 Panic Attacks and the Role of Therapy

50:53 Writing the Book Perfectly Imperfect

56:17 Learning to Pilot Your Own Plane in Life

59:26 “Babysit Yourself” and the Importance of Sleep

01:05:08 Advice, Music, and Star Wars

01:09:48 Final Thoughts

Today’s guest is Erin Mayovsky, a longtime television anchor and life long journalist who has spent decades working in one of the most competitive and visible industries and careers in the world, now on Fox 13 Seattle.

But this episode isn’t really about media. It’s about longevity, resilience, and what keeps people committed in high-pressure environments where performance is constant and nothing is guaranteed. In an industry where many people come and go, Erin has built a career that has lasted.

This conversation explores the mindset, discipline, and values that allow someone to stay, grow, and keep showing up year after year.

#ErinMayovsky #Leadership #CareerLongevity

Show Flow

00:25 Meet Erin Mayovsky

03:26 Mentors and Early Opportunities

08:53 Hustle and Support Systems

10:49 Rejection and Resilience

19:52 Behind the Scenes of Broadcasting

26:08 Handling Trolls and Criticism

30:36 The Reality of Your Digital Footprint

33:49 Career Longevity and Adapting

38:55 Asking for Help

44:13 The Power of Listening

54:46 Sideline Bloopers and Live TV

58:39 Final Thoughts

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Welcome to The Blue Stiley Podcast, the ultimate destination for motivation, inspiration, personal growth, and life-changing advice. 🎙️💡 Subscribe to the channel if you love achieving your goals. Your future self will thank you!

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Today’s guest is Channing Cash, a Team USA Paralympian who has built a life rooted in independence, exploration, and elite performance.

But this episode isn’t really about sport. It’s about rewriting expectations, challenging the quiet limits society places on people, and choosing to define yourself on your own terms. It’s a conversation about how the way you show up can reinforce boundaries—or expand what’s possible.

Show Flow

00:35 Meet Channing Cash

06:36 Finding Purpose Through Work

10:18 Banking Career and Success

13:52 Surfing Changed Everything

16:59 Quitting and Moving West

21:25 Challenging First Impressions

24:07 Dating and Independence

25:50 Defining Confidence

29:46 Stop Seeking Belonging

34:03 Leveraging Uniqueness

40:16 Nature as a Reset

44:39 Aha From Kayaking

47:40 Scary Moments Solo

50:33 Final Takeaway Advice

52:39 Where To Follow

54:19 Gear Essentials

56:10 Final Thoughts

Today’s guest is John Saintignon, a college basketball phenom who once led the nation in scoring before making a life-changing decision in less than 24 hours to take his career overseas. That choice led him into a global journey as a coach, author, and speaker, working and leading in countries around the world.

But this episode isn’t really about basketball. It’s about identity, belonging, and the importance of knowing where you come from so you can understand where you’re going.

Show Flow

00:00 Black Belt Mindset: The Starting Point

00:31 Meet John Saintignon: From Scoring Phenom to Speaker

01:25 Falling in Love with Basketball in Tucson

06:27 The 24-Hour Decision to Go Pro

08:50 Adoption Reveal at a Turning Point

12:20 Life as a Pro in Spain

15:11 Chicago Bulls Tryout & No-Regrets Mindset

18:47 From Player to High School Coach

21:20 Coaching Journey & Oregon State

24:07 Raising Kids Around the World

26:40 Coaching in Bahrain

28:42 Experiencing the Arab Spring

31:17 Finding Purpose

33:11 Becoming a Karate Student at 50

35:40 DNA Search Begins

38:24 The Risk of Finding Family

41:39 The Breakthrough

45:27 Family Reunion

47:44 Choosing the Road Less Traveled

50:19 Final Thoughts

Today’s guest is Armando Leduc, an actor, entrepreneur, and CEO of Leduc Entertainment. Armando helps creators and business owners find their authentic voice and turn it into a personal brand that actually moves the needle.

In this episode, the conversation digs into what it takes to go from being unseen to owning your message. Armando shares how surrounding yourself with the right people can accelerate growth, why overcoming impostor syndrome starts with real-world “stage time,” and how confronting negative self-talk head-on can unlock confidence and clarity. He also talks about the moment he committed to building his own brand, the power of relationships and trust in scaling a business, and why delegation and systems are essential for sustainable growth.

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Show Flow

00:57 Armando's Journey and Insights

04:48 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

12:33 The Importance of Personal Branding

17:29 The Power of Relationships and Networking

25:26 Systemizing Success and Team Collaboration

31:23 Team Dynamics and Leadership Challenges

37:53 The Importance of Delegation

40:57 Creating Systems and Processes

48:49 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

50:56 Starting a Production Company

56:00 Final Thoughts

Find out more about Armando Leduc at Leduc Entertainment and their ability to turn your business into a blockbuster movie. 

https://www.leducentertainment.com/

#bluestiley #entrepreneurmindset #thebluestileypodcast #leducentertainment #entrepreneur 

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Most people think commercial real estate is about deals and square footage. It’s not. 

It’s about trust, communication, and the relationships behind every decision.

My conversation with Gordon Hester, President and CEO of Kiemle Hagood, is about what it really takes to continue building a company that lasts. 

Gordon breaks down why branding matters, why clients sit at the top of the pyramid, and how clear communication can drive long-term success on today’s episode of the Blue Stiley Podcast.

Show Flow

01:14 Meet Gordon Hester: President and CEO of Kiemle Hagood

02:20 The Power of Branding and Marketing

04:54 Building a Client-Centric Culture

08:00 Hiring and Maintaining a Passionate Team

14:13 Community Involvement and Giving Back

21:49 Future Growth and Market Insights

36:29 Exploring Spokane's Real Estate Market

42:12 Personal Development and Lifelong Learning

49:53 Embracing AI in Real Estate

55:30 Building Trust and Effective Communication

01:00:27 Company Growth and Future Plans

01:08:59 Final Thoughts

Connect with Gordon on LinkedIn in here:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/gordon-hester-84b31810/

Find out more about Kiemle Hagood and their Commercial Real Estate, Brokerage Services, HOA Management Services, Property Management Services, and Commercial Property Services online here to connect directly with them:

https://kiemlehagood.com/

KIEMLE HAGOOD creates commercial real estate solutions for YOU. Our team members across the Intermountain Northwest view commercial space as crucial to progress: making, creating, and maintaining spaces for every vital part of human life. And, it’s YOUR need for optimal space that drives us. Whether it’s sales or leasing, property management, HOA Management, or K&H Facility Services we have four office locations to help serve all of your commercial real estate needs: Spokane, Coeur d’Alene, Kennewick, and Missoula.

#bluestiley #thebluestileypodcast #commercialrealestate #realestateinvesting #customerfirst  

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Listen to The Blue Stiley Podcast while you're on-the-go!  🎧 Available wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. New episodes drop every Monday to start your week off right! Apple Podcasts and Spotify & Youtube:

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Forey Duckett knows what it means to reinvent himself.

After spending time in the NFL, Forey transitioned into a long and successful career in sales, where he has spent more than 27 years building relationships and connecting with people around the world. His story is a masterclass in adaptability, moving from the intensity and structure of professional sports into the strategic, relationship-driven world of business and real estate.

This conversation explores identity after the spotlight fades, the role of competition beyond sports, and how confidence, resilience, and customer experience translate across completely different careers.

This episode isn’t just about football or sales. It’s about building a life, a brand, and a sense of purpose when one chapter ends and another begins.

Show Flow

00:56 Transitioning from NFL to Sales

02:41 Building a Career in Real Estate

13:34 Navigating Market Challenges

31:28 The Grind Beyond Friends and Family

31:52 The Hidden Effort in Real Estate

38:45 The Game Plan for Success

48:48 Lessons from Failure and Persistence

54:09 Rapid Fire Questions and Reflections

57:03 Final Thoughts

Most people think wealth is about how much you make. It’s not. Behavior is the strongest predictor of long-term financial success.

In this episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast, financial advisor Daryl Geffken from 10 Capital Wealth Advisors breaks down why comparison erodes contentment, why every dollar needs a purpose, and why starting sooner always beats starting perfectly.

This conversation isn’t really about money. It’s about the decisions and behaviors that shape the future—and why so many people fail to build lasting wealth, even as their income grows.

Show Flow

00:54 Meet Daryl Gefken 

06:37 Understanding Client Fears and Goals

14:05 Steps to Start Saving and Investing

22:06 Balancing Enjoyment and Financial Planning

29:24 Understanding the Importance of Managing Debt and Investment Strategies

32:08 The Emotional Impact of Financial Planning

46:09 Insights from Working with Wealthy Clients

54:33 Finding Hope in Small Savings

58:42 Teaching Kids About Money

01:03:30 Conversations About Wealth

01:09:02 The Chrysalis Effect: Building Financial Resilience

01:10:42 Final Thoughts

Today’s conversation is about resilience, leadership, and what it really means to leave something behind that matters.

My guest is Arthur Broady, a man whose life story is shaped by perseverance, purpose, and human connection. From pushing through barriers as a young athlete to becoming the first African American to attend his high school and college, Arthur’s journey is filled with moments that could have stopped him—but didn’t.

We talk about the mentors and family members who believed in him, the lessons he learned through sports and education, and why giving back is not optional once you’ve been given an opportunity. 

This episode is a reminder that legacy isn’t built in one big moment—it’s built through everyday choices, relationships, and the courage to keep moving forward.

Show Flow

01:03 Introduction to Arthur Broady

02:14 Arthur’s Early Challenges and Triumphs

05:27 The Little League Football Story

11:03 High School Football Journey

15:50 College Football and Beyond

25:03 Legacy and Giving Back

38:48 Reflecting on a Lifetime of Experiences

41:40 The Journey of Public Speaking

44:20 Becoming an Ordained Minister

47:20 Advice for Aspiring Officiants

51:13 The Power of Words and Relationships

01:02:10 Overcoming Negativity and Embracing Potential

01:05:39 Continuing to Make an Impact

01:10:09 Final Thoughts

#bluestiley #inspiration #motivation #selfimprovement #motivational