Today’s guest is John Saintignon, a college basketball phenom who once led the nation in scoring before making a life-changing decision in less than 24 hours to take his career overseas. That choice led him into a global journey as a coach, author, and speaker, working and leading in countries around the world.

But this episode isn’t really about basketball. It’s about identity, belonging, and the importance of knowing where you come from so you can understand where you’re going.

Show Flow

00:00 Black Belt Mindset: The Starting Point

00:31 Meet John Saintignon: From Scoring Phenom to Speaker

01:25 Falling in Love with Basketball in Tucson

06:27 The 24-Hour Decision to Go Pro

08:50 Adoption Reveal at a Turning Point

12:20 Life as a Pro in Spain

15:11 Chicago Bulls Tryout & No-Regrets Mindset

18:47 From Player to High School Coach

21:20 Coaching Journey & Oregon State

24:07 Raising Kids Around the World

26:40 Coaching in Bahrain

28:42 Experiencing the Arab Spring

31:17 Finding Purpose

33:11 Becoming a Karate Student at 50

35:40 DNA Search Begins

38:24 The Risk of Finding Family

41:39 The Breakthrough

45:27 Family Reunion

47:44 Choosing the Road Less Traveled

50:19 Final Thoughts

Today’s guest is Armando Leduc, an actor, entrepreneur, and CEO of Leduc Entertainment. Armando helps creators and business owners find their authentic voice and turn it into a personal brand that actually moves the needle.

In this episode, the conversation digs into what it takes to go from being unseen to owning your message. Armando shares how surrounding yourself with the right people can accelerate growth, why overcoming impostor syndrome starts with real-world “stage time,” and how confronting negative self-talk head-on can unlock confidence and clarity. He also talks about the moment he committed to building his own brand, the power of relationships and trust in scaling a business, and why delegation and systems are essential for sustainable growth.

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Show Flow

00:57 Armando's Journey and Insights

04:48 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

12:33 The Importance of Personal Branding

17:29 The Power of Relationships and Networking

25:26 Systemizing Success and Team Collaboration

31:23 Team Dynamics and Leadership Challenges

37:53 The Importance of Delegation

40:57 Creating Systems and Processes

48:49 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

50:56 Starting a Production Company

56:00 Final Thoughts

Find out more about Armando Leduc at Leduc Entertainment and their ability to turn your business into a blockbuster movie. 

https://www.leducentertainment.com/

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The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Most people think commercial real estate is about deals and square footage. It’s not. 

It’s about trust, communication, and the relationships behind every decision.

My conversation with Gordon Hester, President and CEO of Kiemle Hagood, is about what it really takes to continue building a company that lasts. 

Gordon breaks down why branding matters, why clients sit at the top of the pyramid, and how clear communication can drive long-term success on today’s episode of the Blue Stiley Podcast.

Show Flow

01:14 Meet Gordon Hester: President and CEO of Kiemle Hagood

02:20 The Power of Branding and Marketing

04:54 Building a Client-Centric Culture

08:00 Hiring and Maintaining a Passionate Team

14:13 Community Involvement and Giving Back

21:49 Future Growth and Market Insights

36:29 Exploring Spokane's Real Estate Market

42:12 Personal Development and Lifelong Learning

49:53 Embracing AI in Real Estate

55:30 Building Trust and Effective Communication

01:00:27 Company Growth and Future Plans

01:08:59 Final Thoughts

Connect with Gordon on LinkedIn in here:

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Find out more about Kiemle Hagood and their Commercial Real Estate, Brokerage Services, HOA Management Services, Property Management Services, and Commercial Property Services online here to connect directly with them:

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KIEMLE HAGOOD creates commercial real estate solutions for YOU. Our team members across the Intermountain Northwest view commercial space as crucial to progress: making, creating, and maintaining spaces for every vital part of human life. And, it’s YOUR need for optimal space that drives us. Whether it’s sales or leasing, property management, HOA Management, or K&H Facility Services we have four office locations to help serve all of your commercial real estate needs: Spokane, Coeur d’Alene, Kennewick, and Missoula.

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The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Forey Duckett knows what it means to reinvent himself.

After spending time in the NFL, Forey transitioned into a long and successful career in sales, where he has spent more than 27 years building relationships and connecting with people around the world. His story is a masterclass in adaptability, moving from the intensity and structure of professional sports into the strategic, relationship-driven world of business and real estate.

This conversation explores identity after the spotlight fades, the role of competition beyond sports, and how confidence, resilience, and customer experience translate across completely different careers.

This episode isn’t just about football or sales. It’s about building a life, a brand, and a sense of purpose when one chapter ends and another begins.

Show Flow

00:56 Transitioning from NFL to Sales

02:41 Building a Career in Real Estate

13:34 Navigating Market Challenges

31:28 The Grind Beyond Friends and Family

31:52 The Hidden Effort in Real Estate

38:45 The Game Plan for Success

48:48 Lessons from Failure and Persistence

54:09 Rapid Fire Questions and Reflections

57:03 Final Thoughts

Most people think wealth is about how much you make. It’s not. Behavior is the strongest predictor of long-term financial success.

In this episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast, financial advisor Daryl Geffken from 10 Capital Wealth Advisors breaks down why comparison erodes contentment, why every dollar needs a purpose, and why starting sooner always beats starting perfectly.

This conversation isn’t really about money. It’s about the decisions and behaviors that shape the future—and why so many people fail to build lasting wealth, even as their income grows.

Show Flow

00:54 Meet Daryl Gefken 

06:37 Understanding Client Fears and Goals

14:05 Steps to Start Saving and Investing

22:06 Balancing Enjoyment and Financial Planning

29:24 Understanding the Importance of Managing Debt and Investment Strategies

32:08 The Emotional Impact of Financial Planning

46:09 Insights from Working with Wealthy Clients

54:33 Finding Hope in Small Savings

58:42 Teaching Kids About Money

01:03:30 Conversations About Wealth

01:09:02 The Chrysalis Effect: Building Financial Resilience

01:10:42 Final Thoughts

Today’s conversation is about resilience, leadership, and what it really means to leave something behind that matters.

My guest is Arthur Broady, a man whose life story is shaped by perseverance, purpose, and human connection. From pushing through barriers as a young athlete to becoming the first African American to attend his high school and college, Arthur’s journey is filled with moments that could have stopped him—but didn’t.

We talk about the mentors and family members who believed in him, the lessons he learned through sports and education, and why giving back is not optional once you’ve been given an opportunity. 

This episode is a reminder that legacy isn’t built in one big moment—it’s built through everyday choices, relationships, and the courage to keep moving forward.

Show Flow

01:03 Introduction to Arthur Broady

02:14 Arthur’s Early Challenges and Triumphs

05:27 The Little League Football Story

11:03 High School Football Journey

15:50 College Football and Beyond

25:03 Legacy and Giving Back

38:48 Reflecting on a Lifetime of Experiences

41:40 The Journey of Public Speaking

44:20 Becoming an Ordained Minister

47:20 Advice for Aspiring Officiants

51:13 The Power of Words and Relationships

01:02:10 Overcoming Negativity and Embracing Potential

01:05:39 Continuing to Make an Impact

01:10:09 Final Thoughts

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Today’s guest is someone whose story hits just as hard as his roundhouse kick.

You may know him as Dennis de Guzman from The Karate Kid Part III and Cobra Kai, but that’s just one chapter of who he is.

William Christopher-Ford began training in martial arts at the age of seven and is now a 5th-degree black belt in Okinawan Shorin Ryu Karate, a lifelong teacher, and the founder of Kaizen Dojo Academy in Torrance, California. His work is rooted in the philosophy of Kaizen, which holds that small, consistent improvements lead to meaningful and lasting change.

Beyond acting and martial arts, he’s a storyteller, filmmaker, and mentor focused on helping people build confidence, discipline, and purpose through continual growth.

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Show Flow

00:15 Building Confidence in a Social World

01:19 Meet William Christopher-Ford

05:34 Early Influences and Martial Arts Journey

11:49 The Impact of Instructors

16:18 Teaching Philosophy and Student Development

29:10 Discovering Hidden Gems

29:28 Karate Kid Audition Story

30:44 Initial Reactions to Cobra Kai

32:14 Joining Cobra Kai

34:24 Impact of Karate Kid Franchise

41:58 Running the Kaizen Dojo

44:00 Reconnecting with Cast Members

48:01 Lessons from Martial Arts

53:33 Words Have Power

56:32 Future Projects and Final Thoughts

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.com

Today we’re digging into a hard truth: most goals don’t fail because people lack motivation—they fail because the foundation underneath them is broken.

My guest is Keith Riddle, a real estate entrepreneur who started in the business while attending Gonzaga University and built a 150-person organization—but today’s conversation goes far beyond real estate.

Keith breaks down why goal-setting alone isn’t enough and how his MS4 framework—Mindset, Skillset, Systems, and Standards—became the operating system behind everything he’s built. We talk about the difference between chasing outcomes and building structure, and why systems and standards matter most when motivation fades.

If you’ve ever set big goals and wondered why they didn’t stick, this episode will reframe how you think about success. 

Show Flow

00:00 The Problem with Arbitrary Goals

00:51 Meet Keith Riddle: Real Estate Entrepreneur

01:28 Keith's Early Real Estate Journey

03:21 Balancing College and Real Estate

15:04 Lessons from the Farm

25:20 Navigating the 2008 Financial Crisis

29:21 The Role of Luck and Timing in Success

31:11 Instilling Confidence in the Next Generation

33:36 The Importance of Mindset and Overcoming Roadblocks

35:14 The Power of Repetition and Skill Development

42:49 Transitioning from Player to Coach

46:30 Creating Systems and Scaling the Business

55:23 The MS4 Philosophy: Mindset, Skillset, Systems, and Standards

01:00:17 The Role of Coaches and Technicians

01:02:42 The Importance of Standards

01:04:07 The Power of Mindset

01:05:03 The Influence of Mentors and Coaches

01:07:09 The Value of Self-Reflection and Journaling

01:11:01 Setting and Understanding Personal Goals

01:19:39 Recognizing and Addressing Blind Spots

01:27:14 Final Thoughts

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Jacey Harder grew up in a small town in Idaho, went on to attend West Point, served in the military, and quietly built a career rooted in leadership, resilience, and high-stakes decision-making. 

Along the way, she learned how to operate under pressure, adapt fast, and lead when the rules aren’t always clear—skills you might expect from a spy… and from great leaders.

In this episode, we talk about the moments that shaped her path—from nearly failing out of West Point to becoming a mentor, mother, and a community builder for the next generation.

Her story is a reminder that real leadership isn’t flashy—it’s showing up, pushing past imposter syndrome, and being willing to flip your perspective with the ninja quickness.

Show Flow

01:04 Early Life and West Point Experience

02:24 Challenges and Triumphs at West Point

05:52 Building Confidence and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

09:58 Military Career and Leadership Lessons

14:00 Transition to Civilian Life and Career Growth

19:11 Navigating Government and Policy Influence

28:52 Mentorship and Legacy

30:37 The Essence of True Leadership

31:07 Inspiration from Personal Experiences

33:33 The Impact of Mentorship

34:48 Balancing Career and Parenthood

37:05 Transitioning to a New Identity

45:13 Building a Community Through LEGO

53:52 The Power of Mentorship and Emotional Intelligence

58:57 Final Thoughts and Future Aspirations

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Today’s guest is someone who believes laughter is not just entertainment — it’s a leadership strategy. Stefano Iaboni is an international speaker, corporate trainer, and the man behind Smile Solution, where he helps companies turn stress into smiles and create workplaces that are more creative, connected, and joyful.

For years, Stefano has been walking into rooms full of adults who are stressed, guarded, and overwhelmed — and within minutes, he has them laughing, breathing, and actually enjoying being human again.

He teaches leaders how to use humor as a tool to build trust, spark innovation, and bring people together. And today, we get to unpack his process, his philosophy, and why he believes play isn’t childish… it’s essential.

Show Flow

0:00 The Power of Laughter

00:53 Introducing Stefano Iaboni

02:00 Laughter as a Leadership Strategy

02:55 The Science Behind Laughter

05:28 Creating a Positive Work Environment

09:43 Laughter and Parenting

15:34 Embracing Mistakes and Building Confidence

29:56 Building Confidence Through Practice

30:59 The Power of Humor in Connection

32:35 Comedy Beyond Words

33:19 Laughter as a Universal Language

33:54 Using Humor to Overcome Adversity

36:07 Transforming Attitudes with Laughter

36:56 The Healing Power of Laughter

42:17 Practical Tips for Spreading Joy

48:28 Final Thoughts 

Find out more about Stefano here:

https://www.stefanoiaboni.com/

Connect with Stefano here on LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanoiaboni/

Find him and more about Smile Solutions here on Facebook:

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The Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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