At the heart of the COVID pandemic, a remarkable book emerged: LOVING, a photographic history of men in love from the 1850s to the 1950s. As we all navigated the challenges of isolation and loss, this collection offered a poignant reminder of universal love and acceptance. Today, we dive into the stories shared by Hugh and Neal, the creators behind this heartfelt work.
It was a chance purchase by Hugh & Neal that birthed LOVING, and since that day, they have been quietly collecting and protecting over 4,000 photos depicting men in love; capturing history, compassion, affection, and love between men.
Hugh & Neal describe the books that changed them, including their own, and the story they uncovered by chance of two of the men in the first book. It is a weaving story that takes us all the way to Dachau Concentration Camp and back to the U.S. and a nephew holding a shoebox of history.
The story of John & Dariel is intertwined with historical events, as they were part of the Rainbow Division during World War II, liberating the Dachau Concentration Camp. This division had a rich legacy, and John and Dariel's relationship is a testament to love's endurance amidst turmoil.
The response to LOVING has been profound. Readers have reached out to share how the book has changed their lives, prompting them to embrace their own relationships and histories.
Another reader, reflecting on the beauty and significance of the images, shared, "I just sat in the dark and cried... it changed the way my outlook now."
Hugh and Neal's work has transcended mere photography; it has become a bridge connecting past and present, igniting conversations about love, acceptance, and the shared human experience.
In closing, Hugh reminds us, "We've been around forever... and have been accepted." This legacy of love, captured in photographs, continues to inspire and resonate with many.
Poem On Love, by Kathie Gibran:
“Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love.”
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Hugh & Neal photo by Bill Westmoreland.
