There are people who would do anything to get closer to you only to use your resources not because you’re important in their lives or anything but because you’re close to someone they regard as more important than you so they behave and treat you like you’re that person to make you feel special in a way that you’ll be so free around them enough for them to take and suck everything from you until you run dry . And when they are done they move to the next big thing . Unfortunately because they were never for you from the start they won’t even care what damage they leave behind .

These are the questions one asks when they find themselves in situation where they need to decide if it worth the effort or not . On this session we chat about that and more .

Some people are wired in a way that whatever they’ve assumed and concluded is their truth and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to convince them otherwise especially when it comes to what they identify your character as . No matter how much you’ve changed or improved to them you’ll always be that which they’ve always believed you to be , because in their eyes whatever the truth is in your reality to them will always remain that which they believe is . Your truth to them is a lie because they’ve never been exposed to your reality hence it’s unreal to them .

Often times when one seeks help there will be those who have the resources but their intentions and motives are of their benefit and not yours as the one in need . They set up rules that will favour only them and make them look good at your expense. They find your need for help as their opportunity to manipulate and use your situation to their own advantage and usually their help becomes a burden to you seeing they believe that you no longer have a say or power once you’ve taken their help .

No! It’s not a cult ,It’s the fruits of a CORRUPT MINSET that corrupted innocence. A corrupt seed that was planted in an innocent mind produced a corrupt mindset due to the teachings of the past created by corrupt teachers . Hence we live in a world where wrong is right and right is wrong ...mhm...follow through as we chat about that and more...

Often time we give ourselves away and give all of us to people with different motives and those motives exclude us in the end of their goals ... as much as we usually the ones who put in much work but the end goal does not include us in their world because to them we’re just “a means to an end “ a “ladder to access the next level “ and that’s it! Nothing more than that ...while they make us believe otherwise . Mhm! I wonder if they knew you knew !!!!!

How we allow people with aggressive and arrogant behaviour to dominate us even when we’re uncomfortable and enabling them to keep doing what they do somehow make them believe their behaviour is ok because we allow them to operate in that way without question. When we laugh at their uncomfortable jokes and their childish behaviour we enable them to be that way and they use us who lough at their foolishness as reference to justify their behaviour.

We all have our definition of love , but our expectations stop us from experiencing what our loved ones has to offer . Maybe this time we need to let them show us what is their definition of love so that we can be able to show them what our expectations are but not impose our definitions to their definitions of how to love . Their version may be different but the LOVE language is universal we all just need to listen and take time to learn how to see things through the eyes of those we claim to love .

A Road to healing is a long journey which requires the willing heart and eager to change mentality!

We like chasing after things we believe are better than what we have or things that other people have achieved and think that if we chase after those people who seem successful we too will be as successful as they’re! Whereas it’s highly unlikely for them to share their core secrets to their success ! So you might be chasing after people who are also chasing after something you are NOT part of ! In their world you DO NOT exist and you never will! even if you introduced yourself !unless you have something to offer them something that will benefit their image and Not yours ! Maybe they might give you a chance but never their wealth!