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When her therapist brought up some red flags during a session, it made this week's interviewee question everything in her marriage. Her unease led her to order weeks worth of phone records all to uncover what was really going on in his life away from her. What did she uncover after sifting through all the evidence? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up

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This week we're raising awareness for the The Lighthouse near Columbus, OH: https://www.lancasterlh.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:47): How they met

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(13:54): Red flags

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(27:11): The actual break up

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(40:29): Reflecting/advice

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(48:45): Teaser

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[CW: Miscarriage, intimate partner violence]

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Thank you to Danielle Bayard Jackson for joining the podcast!

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When you've been best friends with someone for 30+ years, you'd think your relationship could withstand anything. However, after our interviewee started noticing a pattern in her bestie's life...she decided enough was enough. Why did these two part ways after three decades? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for the The Family Refuge Center in West Virginia: https://www.familyrefugecenter.org/

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[CW: Suicidal ideation, self-harm]

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Thank you to Dr. Rob Weiss for joining the podcast this week!

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Find more from Dr. Rob at SeekingIntegrity.com

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They were college sweethearts who thought they'd nailed the whole "forever" thing — until one night, right after nailing something else, he casually asked for a divorce. Why did these two part ways after feeling like they'd found their great love story? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for the The Family Place in North Texas: https://familyplace.org/

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[CW: Domestic Violence, Infidelity]

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Break Down Bonus: How to Identify Intimate Partner Violence- https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcf72

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Break Down Bonus: A conversation on domestic violence w/ LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas- https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcfb7

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She thought her relationship troubles were over when she broke up with her boyfriend of a few years- little did she know the drama was only getting started. When she tries to move on from her long-term boyfriend, she said he went to extreme lengths to keep her around...even if those lengths were behind bars.

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This week we're raising awareness for Roxbury Storehouse in Boston: https://www.stonehouseinc.org/

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[CW: Murder, suicidal thoughts, harassment, DV]

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She met him on a fun weekend in Nashville. He was tall, charming, and technically still living with his ex, even though swore it was “just temporary.” When they finally made it official, he was gone—ghosted her like a true con artist in cowboy boots. So why did he come back around days later with a big ol' sob story? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for the Domestic Violence Resource Center in Albuquerque, NM: https://dvrcnm.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:30): How they met

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(10:24): Red flags

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(19:29): The actual break up

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(26:24): The aftermath

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(28:29): Reflecting/advice

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(32:02): Teaser

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Thank you to Dr. Ken Adams for joining the podcast this week!

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Learn more about Dr. Adams' work at https://www.overcomingenmeshment.com/

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