Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships.

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First she caught her ex-husband with her best friend in season 3, now she says her latest ex was living a double [read: triple?!] life. How did a birth certificate lead to her finding the literal paper trail...and why did she file for a restraining order against her ex? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:27): How they met

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(11:29): Red flags

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(19:53): When his son's mom complicated things

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(25:23): Looking into the overlapping relationships

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(34:35): Getting the temporary restraining order

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(41:16): Healing from her relationship(s)

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(44:56): Reflecting/Advice

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(49:25): Teaser

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[CW: Intimate Partner Violence]

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Get in contact with Kaylan at Irie Counseling Services

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Finding Mr. Right right after getting out of a ten year marriage seemed too good to be true for our interviewee. His true colors showed after a secret from his past slipped out at work one day and the red flags didn't just start to show...they turned into flashing red lights on a police car. How did her 'healthiest relationship ever' turn into a nightmare? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(05:25): How they met

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(14:43): How addiction impacted their relationship

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(18:24): What led up to their breaking point

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(21:39): When he put her in danger

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(31:19): Reflecting/advice

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(36:29): Teaser

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Getting broken up with has a way of making us all feel like we're going a little insane. If you haven't been there, chances are you will one day....so what makes grieving a relationship different than other types of Grief? Abby examines it through the lens of her own experience on this week's bonus content.

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Breaking up is hard enough, but when you have to do it multiple times because your ex, well, doesn't want to be your ex.... it's even tougher. This week we'll hear from a man (there's a third time for everything!) who says he tried ending his relationship but his ex insisted they were divinely chosen to be together. How did he finally break things off? We'll get the deets when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:12): How they met

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(10:34): The red flags

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(16:58): The initial break up

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(22:39): The final break up

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(31:48): When it finally ended/the aftermath

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(35:06): Reflecting/advice

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(44:07): Teaser

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On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:01): How they met

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(06:56): The start of their major problems

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(20:58): When calls off their engagement

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(28:29): Attending her wedding alone

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(33:31): The calls she got from him after their engagement ended

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(39:40): Reflecting/advice

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(49:27): Teaser

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