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She uprooted her life and moved across the country for love, only to have her fiancé abruptly break up with her and call the cops on her. She was already blindsided...until the 'block' button couldn't hide the betrayal she never saw coming. We'll hear the full story when we break down this week's break up!

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence]

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She thought she was baking a sweet surprise for her boyfriend....but she had no idea who else would be tasting it. When his wife walked into her bakery and asked for that exact same cake, everything unraveled. We'll hear the full story when we break down this week's break up!

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:53): How they met

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(12:08): The cake

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(16:47): Reacting to the wife reaching out

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(19:45): How the infidelity affected her healing

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(21:25): The aftermath

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(31:46): Reflecting/advice

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(38:09): Teaser

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This episode originally aired in season 3.

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Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recognize manipulation, set boundaries, and leave if necessary. 

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Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Introducing Vernique

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(00:56): How do I know I'm getting manipulated?

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(04:06): Why do people manipulate?

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(07:07): Why do I feel bad for setting up boundaries?

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(09:18): How do I handle religious manipulation?

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(12:10): What if my partner threatens me w/ self-harm to keep us from breaking up?

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(14:04): How do I leave a manipulative relationship?

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(15:00): Can you ever work through manipulation?

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(18:24): How to set boundaries in a relationship with someone who has manipulative tendencies?

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(20:55): Why do I want to go back to someone who manipulated me?

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(23:08): How do I convince myself I deserve better?

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[CW: This episode briefly discusses: self-harm/suicide, domestic violence, religious trauma]

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Her husband told her having threesomes would keep him from cheating on her with other men (likely story). She stuck by her man, hoping things would get better. It wasn’t until a life-threatening scare that she finally realized she had to get out. What finally gave her the courage to get out? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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[CW: Suicidal ideation, domestic violence]

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Thank you, Laurie Poole, LPC, for joining us this week!

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She went viral for gushing about her “perfect” husband...until she stitched the video with a brutal twist. Now she’s (almost) single and stunned...but she thinks there's one person to blame for the coldest breakup of her life. And it's not her or her husband.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:48): How they met

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She'd been grieving her boyfriend for two years when she pulled up his obituary one day and saw the unthinkable- a note from another woman. How did finding out he'd been seeing someone behind her back affect her healing journey? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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The week we're raising awareness for The Refuge in Provo, UT: https://therefugeutah.org/about-us/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:46): How they met

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(9:13): The demise of the relationship/his passing

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(15:00): The Note in the Obituary

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(19:45): How the infidelity affected her healing

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(25:04): Reflecting on the relationship

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(28:02): Advice on alcoholism recovery/her relationship

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(32:42): Teaser

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[CW: DV, Alcoholism, Death by Car Accident]

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