Are you the type of person who you’re looking for is looking for? What's the reason we don’t love people the way that we should? Could be because we don’t love God the way that we claim. Gods plan for our lives is knowing and enjoying him, while making him known. We shouldn't fear godly ambition but fear selfish ambition & settling for mediocrity. Everything we would desire relationally from a significant other, Jesus wants to be to us personally & fully. Everything God has called us to be as a husband or wife, He has first & foremost called us to be as a man or woman after His heart.