Session 5: Philip / The Brotherhood

In "12 Ordinary Men" by John MacArthur, Philip is one of the twelve apostles who exemplifies qualities that can inspire men in leadership and relationships:

1. Curiosity and Willingness to Learn

* Lesson for Leadership: Philip was known for asking questions. His curiosity reflected a desire to understand and learn more, even when he didn’t fully comprehend Jesus' teachings. Leaders who seek knowledge and ask questions foster an environment where others feel comfortable exploring ideas and learning together.

2. Practical Thinking with Faith

* Lesson for Leadership: Philip was a practical thinker, sometimes focused on logistics, such as when Jesus tested him by asking how they could feed the 5,000. Philip calculated the cost, but Jesus showed him the power of faith. As a leader, balance practicality with faith. Recognize that some situations require stepping beyond what seems logical and trusting in greater outcomes.

3. Humility in Leadership

* Lesson for Leadership: Philip was not prominent in leadership like Peter or John, but his humility allowed him to be effective in his role. True leadership isn’t about status; it’s about serving others with a humble heart.

4. Patience in Personal Growth

* Lesson for Leadership: Philip’s development as a disciple shows that leadership is a process. He often didn’t understand immediately but grew in wisdom and faith over time. Patience in leadership allows others to grow at their own pace and fosters a culture of long-term development.

5. Embracing Doubts and Seeking Clarity

* Lesson for Leadership: Philip was not afraid to express doubts, such as when he asked Jesus to show them the Father (John 14:8-9). His openness to express his uncertainties shows that doubt is part of the process of gaining clarity.

Session 4: John / The Brotherhood

John: Key Moments and Interactions of John in

"Twelve Ordinary Men" with Bible References

1. Calling of John: - John, the son of Zebedee, was called by Jesus while he was mending nets with his brother James and their father. They immediately left their boat and followed Jesus. - Bible Reference: Matthew 4:21-22

2. Nickname "Sons of Thunder": - John and his brother James were nicknamed "Boanerges," which means "Sons of Thunder," by Jesus, indicating their fiery zeal.

- Bible Reference: Mark 3:17

3. Witness to the Raising of Jairus' Daughter: - John was one of the three apostles Jesus allowed to witness the raising of Jairus' daughter from the dead.

- Bible Reference: Mark 5:37-42

4. Transfiguration of Jesus: - John was one of the three disciples who witnessed the Transfiguration of Jesus on the mountain, seeing Jesus in His glorified state along with Moses and Elijah. - Bible Reference: Matthew 17:1-3

5. Request for Seats of Honor: - John and his brother James, through their mother, requested to sit at Jesus' right and left in His glory, revealing their ambition and misunderstanding of Jesus' mission. - Bible Reference: Matthew 20:20-23

6. Rebuke for Wanting to Call Down Fire: - John and James asked Jesus if they should call down fire from heaven to destroy a Samaritan village that did not welcome them, and Jesus rebuked them. - Bible Reference: Luke 9:51-56

7. Gethsemane Vigil: - John was one of the three disciples Jesus took with Him to pray in the Garden of Gethsemane, asking them to keep watch while He prayed.

- Bible Reference: Matthew 26:36-38

8. The Disciple Whom Jesus Loved: - John is often referred to as "the disciple whom Jesus loved," signifying a special relationship with Jesus. He reclined next to Jesus at the Last Supper. - Bible Reference: John 13:23

9. Care for Mary: - As Jesus was crucified, He entrusted the care of His mother Mary to John, highlighting the close bond and trust between them. - Bible Reference: John 19:26-27

10. Witness to the Resurrection: - John was one of the first to reach the empty tomb after Mary Magdalene informed the disciples about Jesus’ resurrection, and he saw and believed.

- Bible Reference: John 20:2-8

5 unique aspects of James:

1. Part of the Inner Circle: Along with Peter and his brother John, James was part of Jesus' inner circle. This select group was privileged to witness key moments like the Transfiguration, the raising of Jairus' daughter, and Jesus' agony in Gethsemane. His inclusion in these intimate moments suggests Jesus’ deep trust in James.

2. Son of Thunder: Jesus nicknamed James and his brother John "Boanerges," meaning "Sons of Thunder" (Mark 3:17). This name reflects their fiery, zealous personalities. An example is when they suggested calling down fire from heaven to destroy a Samaritan village that rejected Jesus (Luke 9:54), showing their passionate, but at times misguided, devotion.

3. Ambitious Spirit: James and John, along with their mother, asked Jesus for positions of prominence in His kingdom, seeking to sit at His right and left hand (Matthew 20:20-23). This request reveals both James' ambition and his misunderstanding of the nature of Christ’s kingdom at the time.

4. First Apostle to Be Martyred: James was the first of the apostles to die for his faith. King Herod Agrippa I ordered his execution by the sword (Acts 12:1-2), making James the first apostle to experience martyrdom. His willingness to die for Christ shows how his faith and understanding of Jesus' mission matured over time.

5. Strong Silent Type: Despite his prominent role, James' personality and actions are largely silent in the Gospels. Unlike his brother John, who left behind writings, or Peter, who is often outspoken, James' role is defined more by his presence in key moments and his actions, making him a significant but mysterious figure in early Christian history.

Andrew

In Twelve Ordinary Men by John MacArthur, the story of D.L. Moody’s introduction to Jesus is used to illustrate the powerful impact that seemingly ordinary people can have on others’ spiritual lives. D.L. Moody, who would go on to become a renowned evangelist, was introduced to Jesus by his Sunday school teacher, Edward Kimball, in a simple and humble setting.

The story goes that Kimball, a quiet and unassuming man, felt compelled to visit Moody at the shoe store where Moody worked as a young man. With some hesitation and nerves, Kimball walked into the store, went to the back room where Moody was stocking shelves, and shared the message of Christ with him. That conversation led to Moody’s conversion, sparking a life of ministry that influenced thousands.

The point emphasized in Twelve Ordinary Men is that God uses ordinary people, like Edward Kimball, to do extraordinary things, often through small, faithful acts of obedience.

5 lessons we can learn from Andrew (Text in Slide):

1. ​ He Was the First to Follow JesusKey: Initiative
2. ​ He Brought Others to JesusKey: Leadership in Service
3. ​ He Worked Behind the ScenesKey: Humility
4. ​ He Was Willing to Follow Without All the AnswersKey: Faith
5. ​ He Saw the Potential in Small ThingsKey: Vision

3 Key Takeaways from Andrew's Involvement (Info in Slide)

1. ​ Faith in Small Acts
2. ​ Seeing Potential in the Ordinary
3. ​ Taking Initiative, Even When Unsure

How We Can Show Up Like Andrew Today

1. ​ Offer What You Have:
2. ​ Look for Opportunities in the Ordinary:
3. ​ Take Action

About Us:

The Brotherhood is more than just a group; it's a community of men dedicated to putting Christ at the center of our lives. We believe that through honest communication and mutual support, we can grow individually and collectively, becoming stronger, better men in the process.

"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."— Proverbs 27:17

Our Mission:

* Put Christ First: We prioritize our relationship with Christ in everything we do.

* Foster Community: We build meaningful connections with other men, supporting each other through life's challenges.

* Encourage Growth: We strive to continuously improve ourselves and those around us, living out our faith in every aspect of our lives.

In The Brotherhood, growth is a journey through three symbolic levels:

1. ​ The Lantern represents your guiding light, focusing on building a small, trusted circle of relationships. Here, the goal is to be intentional and thoughtful in your connections, establishing a foundation of trust and support that will guide your growth.
2. ​ The Crown symbolizes ownership and responsibility. At this level, you embrace your identity in God and take control of your life and decisions. The goal is to lead by example, using your influence for good while living out your God-given purpose with integrity.
3. ​ The Lion with the Crown represents leadership and maturity. This final stage is about guiding and inspiring others with strength, honor, and faithfulness. The goal is to solidify your relationship with the Word, embrace the full responsibilities of manhood, and help other men rise to their potential, keeping God at the center of your life.

This framework guides listeners on their path to personal and spiritual growth, encouraging them to reflect, grow, and take actionable steps in their journey.

Embracing the journey of Brotherhood means stepping into a path of continuous growth and reflection. As you progress through the levels of the Lantern, the Crown, and the Lion with the Crown, you move from building a foundation of trust and support, to taking ownership of your life and purpose, and ultimately, to leading others with wisdom and strength. This journey not only strengthens your own character but also empowers those around you, creating a ripple effect of positive change. By committing to these principles, you honor your calling as a man of integrity, faith, and influence, always keeping God at the center of your life.

Peter

4 thought-provoking insights about Peter from Twelve Ordinary Men:

1. ​ Grace and Redemption: Peter’s story demonstrates the profound impact of grace and redemption. Despite his impulsive mistakes and public denial of Jesus, Peter was restored and empowered by Jesus. This transformation shows that our failures are not final, but opportunities for growth and renewal.
2. ​ The Power of Confession: Peter’s confession of Jesus as the Messiah was a pivotal moment in his life and the early church. This act of faith revealed his deep understanding and commitment. It highlights how acknowledging our beliefs and convictions can profoundly shape our role and influence in the broader community.
3. ​ Leadership Through Imperfection: Peter’s journey illustrates that effective leadership often comes through acknowledging and overcoming personal flaws. His leadership was not defined by his perfection but by his willingness to grow from his mistakes, demonstrating that true leadership involves humility and the ability to learn from one's errors.
4. ​ Transformation Through Calling: Jesus’ renaming of Peter from Simon to "Peter" (the rock) symbolizes a profound personal transformation. It reflects how a divine calling can reshape our identity and purpose. Peter’s new name represented his future role as a stable and enduring leader, showing that our potential is often realized through our response to a higher calling.

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The Brotherhood

Thank you for listening to The Brotherhood. We hope you continue to join us on this journey and remain committed to becoming a better man. Together, let’s inspire and help other men discover their best selves, creating a community of growth, strength, and faith.

About Us:

The Brotherhood is more than just a group; it's a community of men dedicated to putting Christ at the center of our lives. We believe that through honest communication and mutual support, we can grow individually and collectively, becoming stronger, better men in the process.

"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."— Proverbs 27:17

Our Mission:

* Put Christ First: We prioritize our relationship with Christ in everything we do.

* Foster Community: We build meaningful connections with other men, supporting each other through life's challenges.

* Encourage Growth: We strive to continuously improve ourselves and those around us, living out our faith in every aspect of our lives.j

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This audio version captures the highlights of our in-person men's group session.

In this session, we explored the concept of brotherhood and how we plan to challenge both ourselves and one another on this journey.

We introduced the book 12 Ordinary Men and provided a brief overview of several key disciples.

We also introduced the "action card" concept, and engaged in a group discussion, using a few questions to set the tone for how our future sessions will unfold.

The Brotherhood Introduction / The 3 Levels of Growing as a Man

Thank you for listening to The Brotherhood. We hope you continue to join us on this journey and remain committed to becoming a better man. Together, let’s inspire and help other men discover their best selves, creating a community of growth, strength, and faith.

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Title: The Brotherhood

Motto: Building Men, Honoring Christ

Description: The Brotherhood is a community of men committed to putting Christ at the center of our lives. Through honest communication and mutual support, we strive to grow as individuals and as a collective, learning from one another and becoming stronger, better men in the process.

The Brotherhood: Three Levels of Growth

1. The Lantern

- Symbolism: A guiding light.

- Focus: Establishing a small, trusted circle of close relationships.

- Purpose: To be intentional in your connections, shining your light thoughtfully and learning from those around you. At this level, you build the foundation of trust and support that will guide your growth.

2. The Crown

- Symbolism: Ownership and responsibility.

- Focus: Understanding who you are in God’s eyes and taking control of your life and decisions.

- Purpose: To lead by example, using your influence for good. While maintaining the principles of the Lantern, you now actively live out your God-given purpose, choosing to wear the Crown and embracing your role as a man of integrity.

3. The Lion with the Crown

- Symbolism: Leadership and maturity.

- Focus: Guiding and inspiring others through example and wisdom.

- Purpose: To solidify your relationship with the Word and take on the full responsibilities of manhood. At this level, you lead with strength, honor, and faithfulness, helping other men rise to their potential while keeping God at the center of your life.

The Brotherhood: Overcoming Self-Doubt

Thank you for listening to The Brotherhood. We hope you continue to join us on this journey and remain committed to becoming a better man. Together, let’s inspire and help other men discover their best selves, creating a community of growth, strength, and faith.

Topic: Overcoming Self-Doubt

Today, we’re diving into a struggle many men face—self-doubt. It’s that inner voice that questions our abilities, decisions, and worth, holding us back from becoming the men we’re meant to be.

Side Effects of Self-Doubt:

1. Paralysis: It can stop us from taking action, making us hesitate or avoid stepping up altogether.

2. Undermined Confidence: Over time, self-doubt erodes our belief in ourselves, making us second-guess even our strengths.

3. Isolation: We might withdraw from others, thinking they won’t understand or that they’ll see our perceived weaknesses.

Practical Solutions:

1. Affirm Your Strengths: Make a list of your past successes and the strengths you used to achieve them. Reflect on these regularly to remind yourself of what you’re capable of.

2. Seek Honest Feedback: Sometimes, we need an outside perspective to see our true potential. Ask a trusted friend or mentor for feedback on your strengths and areas of improvement.

Quote:

* “Your belief in yourself can take you farther than any doubt ever will.” – Unknown

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About Us:

The Brotherhood is more than just a group; it's a community of men dedicated to putting Christ at the center of our lives. We believe that through honest communication and mutual support, we can grow individually and collectively, becoming stronger, better men in the process.

Our Mission:

* Put Christ First: We prioritize our relationship with Christ in everything we do.

* Foster Community: We build meaningful connections with other men, supporting each other through life's challenges.

* Encourage Growth: We strive to continuously improve ourselves and those around us, living out our faith in every aspect of our lives.

Growth is a journey through three symbolic levels:

1. The Lantern represents your guiding light, focusing on building a small, trusted circle of relationships. Here, the goal is to be intentional and thoughtful in your connections, establishing a foundation of trust and support that will guide your growth.

2. The Crown symbolizes ownership and responsibility. At this level, you embrace your identity in God and take control of your life and decisions. The goal is to lead by example, using your influence for good while living out your God-given purpose with integrity.

3. The Lion with the Crown represents leadership and maturity. This final stage is about guiding and inspiring others with strength, honor, and faithfulness. The goal is to solidify your relationship with the Word, embrace the full responsibilities of manhood, and help other men rise to their potential, keeping God at the center of your life.

Embracing the journey of Brotherhood means stepping into a path of continuous growth and reflection. As you progress through the levels of the Lantern, the Crown, and the Lion with the Crown, you move from building a foundation of trust and support, to taking ownership of your life and purpose, and ultimately, to leading others with wisdom and strength. This journey not only strengthens your own character but also empowers those around you, creating a ripple effect of positive change. By committing to these principles, you honor your calling as a man of integrity, faith, and influence, always keeping God at the center of your life.

Thank you for listening to The Brotherhood. We hope you continue to join us on this journey and remain committed to becoming a better man. Together, let’s inspire and help other men discover their best selves, creating a community of growth, strength, and faith.

About Us:

The Brotherhood is more than just a group; it's a community of men dedicated to putting Christ at the center of our lives. We believe that through honest communication and mutual support, we can grow individually and collectively, becoming stronger, better men in the process.

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Building Emotional Intelligence

1. Recognizing and Understanding Emotions

Insights:

Facts:

Practical Steps:

2. Effective Communication in Relationships:

Practical Steps:

3. Managing Anger and Frustration Constructively:

Practical Steps:

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Embracing the journey of Brotherhood means stepping into a path of continuous growth and reflection. As you progress through the levels of the Lantern, the Crown, and the Lion with the Crown, you move from building a foundation of trust and support, to taking ownership of your life and purpose, and ultimately, to leading others with wisdom and strength. This journey not only strengthens your own character but also empowers those around you, creating a ripple effect of positive change. By committing to these principles, you honor your calling as a man of integrity, faith, and influence, always keeping God at the center of your life.

Thank you for listening to The Brotherhood. We hope you continue to join us on this journey and remain committed to becoming a better man. Together, let’s inspire and help other men discover their best selves, creating a community of growth, strength, and faith.

About Us:

The Brotherhood is more than just a group; it's a community of men dedicated to putting Christ at the center of our lives. We believe that through honest communication and mutual support, we can grow individually and collectively, becoming stronger, better men in the process.

Our Mission:

In The Brotherhood, growth is a journey through three symbolic levels:

This framework guides listeners on their path to personal and spiritual growth, encouraging them to reflect, grow, and take actionable steps in their journey.

Embracing the journey of Brotherhood means stepping into a path of continuous growth and reflection. As you progress through the levels of the Lantern, the Crown, and the Lion with the Crown, you move from building a foundation of trust and support, to taking ownership of your life and purpose, and ultimately, to leading others with wisdom and strength. This journey not only strengthens your own character but also empowers those around you, creating a ripple effect of positive change. By committing to these principles, you honor your calling as a man of integrity, faith, and influence, always keeping God at the center of your life.