Episode 26: Why Doubt Means I'm Growing

I've noticed something about doubt. It doesn't always mean I'm off track. Sometimes it just means I've stepped into new territory.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why confidence follows a pattern of repetition, competence, then confidence—and why that confidence doesn't always transfer to new contexts
• How I used to interpret doubt as proof I wasn't ready, and why I now see it as a signal I'm building something new
• The cost of staying comfortable and how it disguises itself as safety
• How treating doubt as information—not a personal problem—helps me identify where to learn more and move forward
• What it really means to be in the stretch zone, and why that's exactly where growth happens

If you've ever felt doubt creep in when stepping into something unfamiliar, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaway: Doubt isn't evidence of a mistake—it's evidence of movement. When you stop taking it personally and start seeing it as information, you can ask a better question: "What do I need to learn next?" That's something that moves you forward.

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It's easy to tie our worth to what we do.

We focus on titles, income, accomplishments—and as entrepreneurs, the role we play in building something. But what happens when that role changes, when the achievement fades, or when the title no longer fits?

In this episode, Eric shares a vulnerable reflection on identity and self-worth. From his years as a firefighter to his journey as an entrepreneur, he explores what it means to separate who you are from what you do—and why that shift changes everything.

Key Takeaways:

• Why tying your identity to external achievements is exhausting and defeating
• The moment Eric realized his identity was tied to his role as a firefighter
• How to define yourself by internal substance—integrity, accountability, loyalty—rather than external factors
• Why you're enough as you are, not because of what you've done
• The difference between performing for validation and living with intention

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We can wait for the right time.

On the surface, it makes sense. We should wait for the right conditions. Or the moment when everything aligns and we finally feel ready.

But from what I can tell, perfect timing doesn't exist. And waiting for it keeps us stuck.

The longer we wait, the more reasons we find to keep waiting, and we can stagnate until eventually, we convince ourselves the opportunity has passed.

But I think the truth is, the right time is when we decide it is.

In This Episode:

• Why waiting for "readiness" rarely makes us more prepared
• The difference between preparation and delay
• How action creates clarity—and waiting creates more doubt
• Why readiness is a decision, not a feeling
• How moving forward makes us more creative and flexible

Key Insight:

 "I am never going to feel fully ready anyway. There is always going to be something that I didn't know yet, something I hadn't figured out, or a variable I couldn't control."

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Comparison can be expensive. It tricks us into thinking we're behind when we're really just on a different path. In this episode, Eric explores why measuring ourselves against someone else's standard steals our momentum—and how to shift from asking "Am I keeping up?" to "Am I building what I actually want?" Key insights: • Why comparison is a trap when you're uncertain • The real cost of comparison isn't jealousy—it's distraction • How to reframe success as proof of what's possible, not proof you're not enough • The question that shifts you from feeling behind to moving with clarity If you've ever caught yourself questioning your progress because someone else seems ahead, this episode is for you. --- Ready to explore alternative paths to wealth and freedom? Visit FlowersCapital.com Follow Eric Burns on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/theericburns  Live life bullish.

Summary: 

What a syndication is, how it works, the GP/LP structure, how investors earn through cash flow and equity growth, the real advantages (passivity, professional management, economies of scale, diversification, potential tax benefits, lower minimums), the trade‑offs (illiquidity, sponsor reliance/less control), and a practical checklist for vetting deals and sponsors.

• Definition and simple $20M apartment example
• GP vs LP roles clarified; limited liability explained
• Preferred return (target, not guaranteed), common splits (e.g., 70/30)
• Distributions during hold; profit split at sale/refi
• Why many investors choose syndications
• Core trade‑offs and what they mean in practice
• How to vet: track record, conservative underwriting, communication, fees/structure, market/plan fit, your own goals

Key takeaway: Syndications are a partnership model: operators operate, investors invest. Understand the roles, the economics, and the trade‑offs before you commit.

Links:
• Website: FlowersCapital.com
 

Publishing cadence: New episodes Monday–Friday at 6:00 AM ET. Shorts most days; weekly longer conversations on Tuesdays.

Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and not investment, legal, or tax advice. Private real estate investments involve risk, including loss of principal and illiquidity. Offers, if any, are made only via official offering documents and to qualified investors. Consult your own advisors.

It's not uncommon to care about what other people think.

It's normal to want to be respected and to be taken seriously. No one wants to look foolish or reckless.

But when we care too much about what others think, it distracts us and can make us lose sight of our own path. It becomes a matter of seeking external validation instead of living life bullish.

In this episode, Eric explores the real cost of caring what others think—and what happens when we stop letting their opinions dictate our choices.

Key Insights:

• The distraction of caring too much: When we worry about perception, we lose sight of what we actually want and start making decisions based on what will look right to everyone else
• Judgment is just projection: The people judging us aren't living our life—they have no frame of reference and project their own fears and insecurities onto our decisions
• Opinions are inevitable: No matter what we do, someone will have an opinion. Judgment is just that—an opinion. We can't control what people think, but we can control whether we let it stop us
• Evaluate your why: Are you making decisions based on what's right for you, or because you're afraid of what others will say? If it's the latter, you're not being bold—you're just stuck
• The opportunity cost is high: Caring too much means we risk living someone else's version of success, delaying action, second-guessing ourselves, and staying stuck in a life that looks good on paper but leads to regret

"We get to define our own success and identity. For me, that matters more than being judged by someone who doesn't understand us anyway."

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Why do we hesitate when success is within reach?

Many of us say we want success—the business, the freedom, the financial stability. But when it's actually within reach, something shifts. We slow down. We find something to fix. We tell ourselves we're not ready.

But that's not preparation. It's self-sabotage.

In this episode, Eric explores the uncomfortable truth about what success actually demands—and why the pursuit often feels safer than arrival.

Key Insights:

• The comfort of pursuit: As long as we're working toward something, we can hide behind potential without facing the reality of what actually happens when we succeed
• Success removes the safety net: When we get what we want, we can't use not having it as an excuse anymore—we have to own the outcome and step into full responsibility
• The fear isn't failure: It's succeeding and having to live up to the person who made it happen, navigating unfamiliar territory, and growing into a new version of ourselves
• Delayed action reinforces limiting beliefs: The longer we wait, the more we tell ourselves "I'm not capable," "I need more proof," or "I'm not enough yet"—but that's not true
• We're as ready as we're going to be: Success isn't something to wait for—it's something to step into, embracing new identities where growth happens

"I value growth, but that doesn't mean it's the easiest path. And I think that's where the fear comes from. It doesn't come from failing, but from succeeding and having to live up to the person that made it happen."

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A lot of us operate in extremes.

Either it's perfect, or it's a failure. Either we nail it, or we don't do it at all.

And that mindset can keep us stuck. Because if the only two options are flawless execution or total disaster, we're never going to move.

We'll wait. We'll plan. We'll prepare. And we'll convince ourselves that when the timing is right and we have the answers we need, then we'll act.

But the reality is that moment may never come.

The truth is, there's a middle ground between perfect and failure. And that's where real progress happens.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why perfectionism is often a defense mechanism, not a standard
• How waiting for the "perfect time" keeps you stuck
• The power of operating in the middle ground—where real work gets done
• Why most things don't need to be perfect—they just need to be done
• How to give yourself permission to make imperfect progress

KEY INSIGHT:

"The middle ground is where I launch something that's good enough and improve it over time. Where I take action even though I don't have all the answers. Where I trust that I'll figure it out as I go."

Perfectionism keeps you stuck. But progress—even imperfect progress—moves you forward.

The middle ground isn't settling. It's where real work gets done.

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Hosted by Eric Burns, founder of Flowers Capital and former Cincinnati firefighter turned commercial real estate professional. This show challenges the traditional narrative of success and explores what it means to live life on your own terms.

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Many of us spend years trying to prove ourselves.

That we're worthy of the opportunity. Worthy of the success. Worthy of being taken seriously.

And that drive is real. It pushes us. It keeps us moving. And it actually gets results.

But here's the problem: at some point, proving ourselves can become the goal.

When this happens, we're no longer building toward something—we're building to prove something. We're chasing the next achievement not because we want it, but because we need it to feel legitimate.

And no matter how much we achieve, it's never enough. Because the goal isn't success. The goal is proof. And proof is a moving target.

If we're building a case, we aren't actually building the life we want.

In This Episode:

• Why the drive to prove yourself can become exhausting and endless
• How achievements become evidence we need to keep collecting
• The difference between chasing success and chasing validation
• Why legitimacy doesn't come from collecting achievements—it comes from accepting you are legitimate
• How to build toward what you actually want instead of what validates you

Key Insight:

"As long as I'm chasing proof, I'm not building towards something I actually want. I'm only building something that will make the outside validate me. For me, that is not defining my own success—it's actually the opposite."

We were trying to prove we're enough. And no amount of success will ever prove that—because it's not something we achieve. It's something we decide.

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People ask me all the time about the name Flowers Capital. Some think it's a metaphor. Some think it represents something. And it does.

Flowers Capital is named after my grandfather, Sheldon Flowers. And I didn't name it after him to honor his memory—I named it after him while he was still alive. I did that because he was one of the most influential people in my life, and his belief in me mattered more than I realized.

In this Deep Dive episode, I share:

• The First Rental Property Story – How my grandfather signed off on my first real estate deal, not because my analysis was great (it wasn't), but because he believed in me and his grandchildren
• Who He Was – A man of the Greatest Generation who grew up in Kansas during the Great Depression, shaped by boldness, resilience, integrity, loyalty, and kindness
• The USS Tripoli Story – How he declined a handpicked opportunity to move to Coronado because his sense of duty and loyalty to his men meant more than comfort or an easier path
• What He Taught Me – Not business lessons from spreadsheets, but what a man of integrity looks like and that sometimes you need to take a chance
• What "Living Life Bullish" Meant to Him – Taking chances when it mattered, leaving a legacy, providing for family, treating people with respect and kindness, and doing it all with integrity
• Why His Name Holds Me Accountable – Putting his name on my company means carrying forward his legacy and operating with values as a standard, not a slogan

Key Takeaway:
Legacy isn't just what you leave behind. It's what you carry forward. It's how you live and the example you set. It's the way you treat people and the integrity you bring to everything you do.

My grandfather, Sheldon Flowers, stood for integrity, loyalty, and kindness. He left a legacy, and I am so grateful to have known him.

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