The Challenger Podcast

On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley.  I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious attachment style.

We dig into Becky's life story beginning with a medical condition as a child that left her feeling alone in school and isolated from her friends.  Fast forward to her life now with children and a challenging marriage, she describes her first few relationships afterward with openness and tremendous self-awareness.

If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram or Tiktok at gatekeeper_prob

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Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

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On this week's episode of the podcast, I wanted to answer some great questions submitted by our audience.  Subscribe to the podcast and tune in next week as I begin a new series on First Dates with returning guests Dr. Morgan Anderson and Nicole Kay plus real life dater Becky.

The questions I address on today's episode are the following:

Submit your questions to be answered on a future episode on Tiktok, Instagram or by email [email protected] 

Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program.

Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating.

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On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date may have a secure attachment style.  Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago and have been working towards earned security ever since.  Hope this episode brings you valuable information and reflection about how you show up when you date.

After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships.  I sought out new tools to understand myself through the Enneagram and Attachment theory.  Subscribe to the podcast so that you never miss an episode that will give you the tools to show up authentically in modern dating.

Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program.

Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating.

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For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style.  Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago.

After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships.  I sought out a counselor and began to interview experts in relationship theory and practice on this podcast.  Tune in today to learn how to spot an anxiously attached date while learning tools to grow through this lens of self-awareness.

Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.

Are you looking to for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program.

Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating.

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For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style.  In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach making assumptions about their date and instead of writing them off as red flags, get curious about what you see and label the behavior.

If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, I have two spots available in our private group coaching program that meets every Monday at 7 pm mst.  This is a safe space to ask me anything, connect with other women and learn more about self-awareness through attachment styles and The Enneagram.  Click here to try it free for a week.

On this week's episode of the podcast, Dave is back with a solo share of a story from his dating life. Showing up authentically on a date isn't always easy and when two strangers meet, there is bound to be a collision of their pasts.

Listen in as Dave narrates how the Enneagram can be a helpful tool for couples to connect and how it can be a way to make some not so warranted assumptions about your date!   If you're looking for more support in your dating life right now, head over to daveglaser.com to apply for coaching today.

The Dave Glaser Podcast is for partnered and single adults looking to understand relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory, self-awareness and personal growth. If you're like me, you're overwhelmed with all the choices available to you and the mixed signals that you receive are hard to navigate.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to guide you to understand how to navigate the dating "scene" where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Charlotte Warren to talk all things ghosting in the modern dating era.  What is ghosting?  We dig into the timeline of when ghosting is acceptable and when it's not at all justifiable.

If you're single in 2022, you've been ghosted.  You may have even done some ghosting yourself.  Hell, I have experienced both and today we get clear on what the definition of ghosting really is.  Charlotte and I even expand on a few questions submitted by our audience members.  Here they are:

If Charlotte's message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Tiktok @welcometothepeasantparty and to read her entire blog with the Ghosting chart mentioned in today's episode, click here now.

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Do you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast?  Message me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs now and I'll get back to you with an answer or a future episode.

On this week's episode, I welcome back Dr. Carrie Johansson to speak with me about psychological flexibility, modern marriage and what to look for on a first date.  We both believe that fear and anxiety hold people back in relationships and I cannot thank Dr. Carrie enough for joining me to provide a reflection for me about my recent break up.

We dig into so many awesome topics on this podcast and here are a few of the biggest takeaways:

Psychological flexibility is the ability to notice the things around you while putting less weight to it.

Spinning in outrage keeps you in the stance of the victim.

A lot of modern daters want everything to move quickly and the point of a first date is to determine if you want a second.

If Dr. Carrie's message resonates with you today, please listen to her previous episode and reach out to her via her website at selfhelponthego.com and pick up a copy of her new book!

If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, please reach out to me with any questions on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs or on Tiktok @dave.glaser