The Chaos Commanders

In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, Katelynn and Annie are diving into the things solo moms hesitate to do—and the creative, clever, and sometimes chaotic workarounds they've discovered instead. From grilling (spoiler: Katelynn has a cast iron grill pan hack for those coveted "striped hot dogs") to car maintenance, camping, and tackling sports events alone, this conversation is packed with honest confessions, laughter, and encouragement.

If you've ever felt intimidated to try something on your own, this episode reminds you: you're not alone. You'll hear the duo's favorite "hacks" for navigating these tricky moments as well as stories about fireworks gone wrong, muddy adventures, and the infamous scooter tire debacle. Because commanding chaos doesn't mean doing it all—it means finding what works for you.

QUOTES

"I'm not trying to win a grilling competition. I'm just trying to make my kid a striped hot dog." — Katelynn

"If there was a gas delivery service, I'd pay for it. I hate pumping gas that much." — Annie

"Sometimes you have to get creative when you're solo parenting—it's about survival and sanity, not perfection." — Annie

"It's okay to ask for help, take shortcuts, or say 'not right now.' You're not failing—you're just finding your way." — Katelynn

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ It's normal to feel hesitant about certain solo mom tasks, but there's almost always a workaround.

2️⃣ Hacks like grill pans, air pump tools, and leaning on your community make life easier (and safer).

3️⃣ Vulnerability isn't weakness—it's part of learning, growing, and parenting solo with confidence.

4️⃣ Starting small, asking for help, and using humor can make intimidating tasks feel more manageable.

5️⃣ You don't have to do things the "traditional" way—finding your own path is part of commanding the chaos.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Crockpot Pulled Ranch Chicken

• Coffee Cake

• Cast iron grill pan for indoor "grilling"

• Home Depot, Lowe's, and REI classes for DIY skills

• Portable air compressor for easy tire inflation

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Grillz" – Nelly

Because whether it's striped hot dogs or power tools, we're tackling solo mom life with a little swagger—and a lot of humor.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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How The Virtual Savvy Helped Me Build a Business I Love

In this special episode, Annie interviews Katelynn about the virtual assistant course that helped her go from single mom in survival mode to thriving CEO of Her Humble Hive. They talk about the messy middle of entrepreneurship, the mindset shifts that made the biggest difference, and why The Virtual Savvy program was a game changer in Katelynn's journey.

You'll hear how Katelynn built her business in the evenings after her son went to bed, launched without a website, and hit her first $10K month less than a year after starting. If you've ever wondered if the online business thing is real—or if you could actually do it—this episode is for you.

We're also shouting out the free Virtual Assistant Summer Challenge, so if you've ever considered becoming a VA, don't miss this one!

👉 Join the Summer Challenge here.

QUOTES

"I built Her Humble Hive in the pockets of time I had as a solo mom. Some days it felt impossible, but I kept going." – Katelynn

"I saw so many people in the Savvy System actually doing it—and that gave me hope that I could too." – Katelynn

"People think it has to be perfect before you start. It doesn't. I didn't even have a logo." – Katelynn

"Within a year, I hit my first $10K month by myself. And I've never looked back." – Katelynn

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ You don't need to have it all figured out to start a successful VA business—just take the first step.

2️⃣ The Savvy System offers clear, step-by-step training and a community that helps you stay motivated.

3️⃣ Mindset is everything. Shifting from "Can I really do this?" to "Why not me?" was key in Katelynn's journey.

4️⃣ You can build a thriving business even in chaos—kids, chronic illness, and all.

5️⃣ Resources like The Savvy Vault, Booked Out VA Training, and The Summer Challenge are excellent starting points.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Virtual Assistant Summer VA Crash Course (free)

• The Savvy System

• The Savvy Vault

• Booked Out Virtual Assistant Training (free)

• The Virtual Savvy Website

• Her Humble Hive

• Her Humble Hive - Application

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Keep Your Head Up" – Andy Grammer

An empowering anthem for every mom building something new—even when the odds feel stacked against her. This episode is all about resilience, belief, and taking that next brave step. Just like the lyrics say, you gotta keep your head up, keep your heart strong, and trust the path you're paving.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

CONNECT WITH US

Thinking of starting your own VA biz? Tell us what's holding you back—or what questions you still have!

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This episode is a deeply personal one. Annie and Katelynn are joined by Annie's husband, Andre, to talk about the upcoming end of his military career—and the beginning of their next chapter as a reunited family. After years of geo-baching (living apart due to military assignments), they're finally 17 days away from living under one roof again, with retirement coming in just 169 days.

Together, they reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of military life, the bittersweet countdown to retirement, and what it really means to start over—this time, side by side. From deployments and missed milestones to building new routines and dreaming about what's next, this conversation is honest, funny, and full of love.

Whether you're a military family, a solo parent, or just navigating major life transitions, this episode will hit home.

QUOTES

"I will miss seeing him in uniform. Little boys have gone up to him at a restaurant and thanked him for his service. He's real-life GI Joe." - Annie

"I'm sure you feel a little bit like an outsider sometimes when you come back and there's all this conversation about what's happened while you've been away. That has to be hard." - Katelynn

"I admire Annie's ability to see things through, and she has a level of resilience that is unparalleled." - Andre

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Military retirement brings both relief and uncertainty for the service member and their family.

2️⃣ Geo-baching is a reality for many families, but that doesn't make it easier emotionally.

3️⃣ Reintegration takes effort, communication, and a willingness to rediscover how to share life together.

4️⃣ Celebrating milestones is important—even if they're messy, emotional, or imperfect.

5️⃣ Change is hard, but also full of possibility. New routines, new dreams, and new versions of family life are worth embracing.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Paired couples app

• Hidden Pictures by Jason Rekulak
• I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was by Barbara Sher

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Final Countdown" – Europe

Because what better way to mark 17 days until coming home (and 169 until retirement) than with this iconic anthem? It's dramatic, nostalgic, and perfectly chaotic—just like this final stretch.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

CONNECT WITH US

Have a milestone or chaotic countdown of your own? We'd love to hear it.

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Title: Go Take a Hike: Tips for Outdoor Adventures with Kids

In this episode, we're lacing up our boots and heading into the great outdoors—chaos commander style. From the benefits of hiking with kids to the little lessons learned on the trail, we're sharing what works, what doesn't, and what snacks are essential to avoid a meltdown (yours or theirs).

Katelynn and Annie are joined by their kids, Cadyn, Raina, and Joel, to discuss their favorite hikes, how they prepare for family adventures, and the surprising ways nature helps everyone feel a little more grounded. Whether you're an experienced trekker or just thinking about venturing past the sidewalk, this episode will leave you feeling inspired (and maybe just a little bit muddy).

QUOTES

"We started hiking last year and it healed pieces of my soul that just needed to be touched." — Annie

"Thank God for my friends who are a little bit more adventurous and brave and well prepared than I am." — Katelynn

"Hiking at night with torches would make it more fun." — Cadyn

"My favorite part of hiking is seeing a beautiful view and not seeing snakes." — Raina

"Maybe instead of hiking, we could just climb Mount Everest and then we could slide down." — Joel

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Hiking can be a powerful bonding activity and a low-cost way to create family memories.

2️⃣ Being outdoors helps both kids and parents reset mentally, emotionally, and physically.

3️⃣ You don't need fancy gear to get started—just a plan, some snacks, and a willingness to get a little dirty.

4️⃣ Involving kids in the prep (picking trails, packing snacks) helps them feel empowered and excited.

5️⃣Nature offers unexpected moments of connection, conversation, and calm—if we let it.

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Who You Share It With" – Layup

A laid-back and heartfelt anthem that perfectly captures the spirit of adventure, connection, and those quiet, meaningful moments on the trail. Because hiking isn't just about the view—it's about who you share it with.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

CONNECT WITH US

Share your favorite family-friendly hiking trails or tag us in your outdoor adventures—we love seeing how you're commanding the chaos in the wild.

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In this heartfelt episode, we're diving deep into the realities of military life—including the infamous TDY Curse. If you're wondering what that even is (Katelynn sure was!), Annie explains this very real phenomenon military families know all too well: the string of things that seem to break or go wrong the moment your soldier leaves.

Annie shares her personal experiences—including an ICU scare, surprise home disasters, and creative ways she supports her kids through the emotional rollercoaster of deployments. Katelynn brings the civilian perspective, sharing ways friends and neighbors can better support military families—and why well-meaning comments sometimes miss the mark.

Whether you're a military spouse, a civilian friend, or just curious about what this life really looks like behind the Instagram posts, this conversation is packed with honesty, humor, and actionable ideas to help families through the hardest seasons.

QUOTES

"It's not if something will go wrong when they leave. It's when." — Annie

"How are you doing is a great question, but what's even better is asking: What was the hardest part of your week?" — Annie

"You signed up for this? Well, when you buy a car, you sign up to drive it—but no one says you signed up for a wreck." — Annie

"It's hard to ask for help. Sometimes the best thing you can do is show up with a meal, an invite, or just a listening ear." — Annie

"Kids need to be kids. I ask mine: Is that a you worry or a mom worry?" — Annie

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ The TDY Curse is real—unexpected home repairs and life challenges often show up right when a service member leaves.

2️⃣ Military spouses juggle solo parenting, emotional strain, and home management with little room to breathe—small gestures of support make a big difference.

3️⃣ The most helpful support often isn't "What do you need?"—it's specific, actionable offers (coffee, meals, rides, invites, or even snow shoveling!).

4️⃣ Kids need clear, developmentally appropriate support during deployments—countdowns, routines, and open communication can help them process big emotions.

5️⃣Civilians can play a huge role in supporting military families—consistent check-ins, kid-friendly conversations, and sensitivity to what not to say are key.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Deployment Wall ideas (Reach out to Annie for resources!)

• And we forgot to mention the Free Marco Polo Plus Passes for members of the military community

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"American Soldier" – Toby Keith

The perfect anthem for this episode, celebrating the strength and sacrifice of military service members and their families. The heart of the TDY Curse is resilience—and this song honors the courage it takes to keep going, one countdown day at a time.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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In this episode, we're diving into the world of AI—and how it can actually help you mom smarter, not harder. Katelynn shares the many ways she uses ChatGPT in her everyday life (from meal planning to mental health support), and Annie finally accepts the challenge to give it a try. Whether you're tech-curious or just desperate for a little help with your to-do list, this one's packed with real-life examples, practical prompts, and a peek at how AI can lighten the mental load so you can focus on what matters most.

From writing thank-you notes and chore charts to scripting tough convos and brainstorming dinner, we're breaking down how ChatGPT can become your new secret weapon in the battle for balance.

QUOTES

"Sometimes I just need a draft I can edit, not start from scratch." – Katelynn

"I've got a lot of mental load right now. If something can help me reduce that and streamline it, that's a win." – Annie

"Sometimes I don't even need to send the message—I just need help processing what I would say." – Katelynn

"Okay fine. I'm gonna give it a shot." – Annie

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ ChatGPT can be a helpful tool for reducing mental clutter, streamlining decisions, and simplifying communication.

2️⃣ Katelynn uses ChatGPT to support her routines, parenting, and even her business—including social media captions, email drafts, and blog ideas.

3️⃣ Annie admits her hesitation—but realizes that AI could be a huge asset when used with intention and boundaries.

4️⃣ From navigating sensory needs to prepping for summer, ChatGPT can save moms time, energy, and emotional labor.

5️⃣ You don't need to be tech-savvy to use AI—it can feel as simple as texting a friend once you get the hang of it.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Banana Bread Recipe

• Instant Pot Lasagna Ravioli

• Marco Polo Family Plan

• Free Marco Polo Plus Passes for members of the military community

• ChatGPT

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"The Power" – SNAP!

This high-energy 90s throwback reminds us we've got the power—and now, a secret weapon (AI!) to back it up. Because commanding the chaos takes both heart and smart strategy.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

CONNECT WITH US

Tell us: Have you tried ChatGPT? What's your favorite way to use it? Or are you like Annie, just getting started?

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It's officially summer, and the Chaos Commanders are here with survival strategies, snack updates, and some serious summer planning realness. In this episode, we share our personal summer plans—from sleepaway camps and teen jobs to field trips, screen-time boundaries, and even learning to cook. Whether you're navigating toddler chaos or managing a teen's packed schedule, this episode is full of practical ideas, community resources, and creative ways to command the summer without losing your mind.

We also share our own family traditions (hello, butterfly releases), talk about life skills we're teaching our kids, and brainstorm creative local adventures that don't break the bank. This is your ultimate guide for a summer that's structured enough to keep the peace but flexible enough to embrace the fun.

QUOTES

"We're still in sync, even when we can't hang out." – Katelynn

"We want them to run feral—but in one location. Contained chaos." – Katelynn

"It's a personal goal for me… I want to cut back on iPad time. Otherwise, it gets out of hand." – Annie

"I want it done the way I want it done, but Mom's gonna start saying yes to these things this summer because it truly helps so much." – Annie

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Summer doesn't have to be perfect—it just needs a plan. Whether you're working or staying home, a loose structure can help everyone thrive.

2️⃣ Give kids real responsibilities. From chore charts to cooking, summer is a great time to teach life skills.

3️⃣ Mix education with fun. Summer learning doesn't have to feel like school—think nature journaling, geocaching, and local tours.

4️⃣ Don't underestimate your local resources. Libraries, city guides, free community events, and even recycling centers offer hidden gems.

5️⃣ Share the load. Team up with other moms to swap ideas, schedule shared activities, and keep the chaos contained together.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Liquid Death – Cherry Obituary

• Liquid Death – Classic Soda Variety Pack

• Liquid Death – Flavored Variety Pack

• Blueberry Pancake Muffins

• 20 LBS Adjustable Weighted Vest

• 40 LBS Adjustable Weighted Vest

• Story Time From Space

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"In the Summertime" – Mungo Jerry

A feel-good, carefree jam that captures the spirit of warm days, outdoor adventures, and the kind of freedom that only summer brings. It's the perfect soundtrack to this episode—and your family's summer playlist.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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In this episode, we're diving deep into the different ways two very different moms handle everyday stress. Annie, our Type A, military mom and fitness queen, copes with high-energy workouts, weighted walks, and Taekwondo. Katelynn, our Type B, solo-parenting creative, leans into cozy routines, naps, reading, and journaling. Together, we're talking about everything from electric scooter wipeouts and red towel parenting hacks to mental health tools and communication tips.

Whether you're the mom sprinting through life with ankle weights or the one sipping coffee during a slow morning, we've got something for you. This is your tactical, relatable, and judgment-free look at how to actually manage the chaos, without pretending it's all under control.

QUOTES

"Owies don't hurt nearly as bad until we see blood." – Annie

"A weighted blanket is like sleeping with a hug." – Katelynn

"Commanding the chaos looks different for every mom—and that's okay." – Annie

"Your day doesn't have to be perfect to be productive." – Katelynn

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Red towel parenting is a real hack—hide the blood, reduce the panic.

2️⃣ Physical activity can be an incredible outlet for stress relief—just start slow and steady.

3️⃣ Mental and emotional self-care, like journaling, naps, and slow mornings, are just as powerful.

4️⃣ Open communication, even when you need space, strengthens relationships.

5️⃣ Every mom needs tools that match her wiring—whether that's a 40-lb vest or a weighted blanket.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Author Rec: Catherine Cowles

• Book Rec: ADHD for Smart Ass Women

• Kindle Unlimited

• Kindle Paperwhite

• Floor Stand Kindle Holder

• Gooseneck Tablet Holder for Kindle

• Remote Control Page Turner for Kindle

• Neck Book Light

• Clip on Book Light

• The Ladder App (Annie's favorite fitness app for workouts on her schedule)

• E-Gym at the YMCA

• Weighted Vest

• Ankle Weights

• Bikini Body Mommy (Katelynn's go-to home workout)

• A Life That's Good (Bonus Song from the Nashville soundtrack)

• Guided Journal

• Weighted Blanket

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Stressed Out" by Twenty One Pilots

Because, well, if this song isn't the anthem for overstimulated moms everywhere, what is?

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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In this episode of The Chaos Commanders Podcast, we're talking about one of the trickiest parts of solo parenting, military life, and adulting in general—building community from scratch. From clever icebreakers like delivering wine with your number on it, to emergency contact awkwardness (yes, we've asked strangers at the gym), we're sharing stories, tips, and real talk about how to meet people when you're the new one in town.

Whether you're a military family navigating another PCS move, a single mom in a new neighborhood, or just looking for connection, we've got ideas to make introductions less weird and friendships easier to build—plus a connection challenge to help you take the first step.

QUOTES

"It's gonna be weird. It's gonna be awkward. And you just embrace the weird." — Katelynn

"There's not a single person yet that we've handed this bottle of wine to and they've been like, 'Okay thanks, bye.'" — Annie

"Casserole by casserole. Text by text." — Katelynn

"Everybody wants to help—you just have to say what you need." — Annie

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Build community creatively—wine tags, fruit snacks, or borrowing a measuring cup all work.

2️⃣ Awkwardness is normal. Friendship doesn't have to be instant to be meaningful.

3️⃣ Keep a pre-written message in your Notes app for those emergency contact requests.

4️⃣ Use Facebook groups and neighborhood pages to find other moms or plan low-pressure mini-meetups.

5️⃣ Our Connection Challenge: Reach out to one new person and tell us how it goes (bonus points for creativity!).

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Blueberry Pancake Muffins

Oven Baked Chicken Breasts

Plain Burlap Wine Bags with Tags

Cheers Burlap Wine Bags with Tags

New to the Neighborhood Cards

New Housewarming Cards - Blue

New Housewarming Cards - Green

New Housewarming Cards - Red

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

[Secret Chaos Anthem—Go Find It!]

This week's chaos anthem is part scavenger hunt, part inside joke. We're keeping it under wraps—listen to the episode to find out why, and then go check out the playlist to uncover the track!

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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In this heartfelt (and hilarious) episode of The Chaos Commanders Podcast, Annie and Katelynn dive into the magic of staying connected, no matter the chaos, the distance, or the busy schedules.

They explore how apps like Marco Polo (not the pool game, we promise) and others have helped them maintain deep friendships across miles and years. Whether you're a military mom constantly relocating, a solo parent building community from scratch, or simply a mom trying to keep friendships alive during the madness of motherhood, this episode is packed with real-life strategies, relatable stories, and encouragement to stay connected.

You'll hear about creative ways to make friendships work long-distance, how venting via video messages can actually command your chaos, and why finding little pockets of community matters more than ever.

If you're missing your people—or ready to strengthen your circle—you'll find practical tips, lots of laughter, and plenty of love in this conversation.

QUOTES

"Gone are the days where you just call someone and they have time to chat." - Katelynn

"Community is everything. Hang on to your people as long and as hard as you can." - Annie

TAKEAWAYS

1️⃣ Staying connected is a survival tool for moms. Apps like Marco Polo, Voxer, and voice messaging can bridge the gaps when life pulls us in a million directions.

2️⃣ You don't have to be "camera-ready" to reach out. Imperfect connection > no connection.

3️⃣ Don't underestimate small gestures. A Marco Polo message or a voice memo could keep a friendship alive and thriving even across states, seasons, or time zones.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Marco Polo

Voxer

Liquid Death - Cherry Obituary

Liquid Death - Classic Soda Variety Pack

Liquid Death - Flavored Variety Pack

FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM

"Home" – Phillip Phillips A perfect anthem for this episode's theme.

Because home isn't just a place—it's the people who make you feel safe, seen, and loved, no matter where you are.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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