I went to the Emergency Room at Tampa General Hospital last week at the direction of my primary care physician after she examined me. They admitted me and kept me there for 2 days. They ran all the same tests that Doctor’s Hospital in Sarasota ran. The one test that probably would have solved everything, which was recommended by my primary care physician, that I asked the doctors about several times to please perform on me, they did not perform it, though for whatever reason. That test was a lumbar puncture. It is not at all likely to be meningitis, but that test would of revealed a lot of other very helpful information. So they discharged me, and I still have no answers at all.

What I want to talk about today is the feeling that we all have about planning to have children. It is human instinct to reproduce; it is the basic job of all human beings to reproduce. Humans have that pre-programmed in our DNA. The problem with that is this: IT IS NOT THE SAME WORLD AS IT WAS WHEN WE WERE CHILDREN. The thing about children is that it is very hard to have them and raise them as it is. Now, though, the world is a very different place and that is definitely something you need to consider in your life plans. When you have a child, you are creating something that you are going to deeply care for. The only thing I can compare it to is a parent that you love dearly or a pet that you deeply care for. With that said, you have to think very hard about the future life of yourself and the child that you are going to deeply care for. Put that love and energy into your parents if they are still alive, or that pet that you care about, or that person in your life that you care about most. Having a child today is just not something anyone should plan to do. Knowing what I know now, having planned for and completed raising a child, I do not know how I even did it, I would definitely not do it now, knowing what I know. 

Here are some links to content I created and posted online so far this week. More links to come next week. These videos are all unrelated to the subject of children.

The hardest thing a human will ever do in their life is give birth to and raise another human! The current government owned child support system makes that job even harder for parents. Because it is in their (government) financial interest to seek out parental shortcomings.

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I went to the doctor today. She gave me some medicine and I took it 2 hours ago. I am still battling this sickness right now; it is my hope that this issue is resolved. I exercise and eat well each day to try and prevent this from happening to me. I will read this information into my microphone again today for this podcast

Today, I want to talk about how hard it is to raise a child. There are a lot of very hard things that need to be talked about regarding raising a child. I would say probably the hardest part of raising a child is that your child just refuses to listen to their parents, and instead will listen to their friends. This is a huge problem. Their parents are just trying to protect them, that is all. Their friends are not; their friends usually do not want to hurt anyone, but they do. It is very hard to know that your child is going to go through pain if they refuse to listen, you, as an adult who has been there and done that, have to witness it as it happens, and that is a very hard thing to do. I myself have seen that many times, and it is very hard. I will probably never talk to my child again (his choice), but I was forced to learn how to live with that by the Florida state “Family” court system. So I was sad for the first couple years and then I realized that “the show must go on” so it is. I am now off of “Child Support,” so now I am going to rename this podcast and move on with it.  

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 I am still battling a medical problem, and I still do not know what it is or the cause of it. I have a Doctor Appointment on 06/17/2025 perhaps I will get some answers from that appointment.I am just going to read off of this document and add some things in there.

Today, I want to talk about what it is like to have children. It is a very hard thing to do. There is a lot going on in the world today, and as a parent you are going to be asked by your child about events in the world that you yourself do not understand. You as a parent will have to answer any and all question asked to you, and you will be required to know the answers, and they need to be correct because most likely your child is going to repeat that to a single or multiple people. Also, there are going to be times where you and the child’s mother or teacher or some other adult is going to answer that very same question differently, and then you are going to have to explain the different answer to your child. Raising a child is a very hard thing to do. We will not even talk about the multiple diseases that attack children. All the way around we can very plainly look and see that raising a child is a very hard thing to do. Parents do it anyway. Why? Because a lot of people think that it will be like it was when they grew up. It was also very hard then, but it is way harder now. These kids can cut off their genitals by law in some states in the U.S. without their parents consent. That is a permanent change and should never be allowed until the child is an adult. All of that can be avoided, if the parents just plan ahead. Having and raising children is a huge decision to make. If I were young and thinking of having children, I would read this article, and listen to this podcast and change my mind based on this article alone. I am a “finish line” father and looking back after raising a son, there is no way I would ever do it again. Knowing what I know now, I would not have ever done it in the first place. That is significant. If you can find someone that has done before what you intend to do, I would listen to that person’s every word. I would listen to exactly what they say, and take their advice to heart. I am telling you prospective parents, DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN! You open yourself up to a lifetime of struggle. You will get through it probably, but life will eat you alive in the process.

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I am battling some unknown sickness that has made my vision horrible and has me in a continual brain fog state. I have been to two emergency room visits, and I have done a 3-daywater only fast in an attempt to heal myself at the cellular level. I have also ordered a part that I did not know I needed for my CPAP machine, which did not work. I think this was triggered by stress. I have a doctor's Appointment tomorrow at 2:40 PM, and I am so ready to be over this problem; it is causing a huge performance problem for me. I created this video in an attempt to resolve this problem. I think I am not a doctor, but this problem triggered a thyroid issue. Most of my symptoms align with a HYPO-THYROID problem.

So here is the deal about children. When you follow through, or like me, plan to have children, what you are basically doing is choosing to suffer for at least the next 18 years. Having and raising a child now is not the same as it was many years ago. I would say that the time to have children was before the turn of the century, but nooo, I had to have a child in 2006. A lot of people do it all the time. They don’t usually admit it, but they very soon find out that that choice was a mistake. Children are very hard to raise as it is. Now, they have and love these things called electronic devices, and they are very bad, but these kids love them. They are very hard to compete with. So most parents just give in. I met one parent when I was driving for Uber, and he told me that he refuses to get a cell phone for his 8-year-old. No matter what his son says. I was like, way to go, Dad! I could go on and on about the Perils of having children. There are many people that pay large sums of money to these fertility clinics. I don’t understand why they do that? It is strange to me, I could understand why they used to do it before 2000. But definitely not now. People pay large sums of money to be in pain for multiple hours and then suffer for multiple years after that. It also takes around 10 years off the life of the mother per pregnancy.Now we know this, we did not know this before. Pregnancy is very hard on the human body, and very hard on both parents for the rest of their lives. Sure, when that child is an adult, there will most likely be a decent relationship there, but for 18 years as a father and for 28 years as a mother, you WILL pay dearly for that relationship. Let us not forget that having a child and getting married is an invitation to the very corrupt family court system to enter the Family life, and they do not care about much else than taking your money. They do it all under the guise of divorce and helping the children, which is a complete lie!

This is a video clip that I love that I found on TikTok 

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I missed this podcast last week because I was in the Emergency Room at the hospital. They ruled out all the big stuff like cancer tumors and organ failure and stuff but they were unable to tell me what exactly is causing this huge brain fog problem I have that came on quickly when I woke up on 05/07/2025. I do everything perfectly for my health, and I am not even 50 years old yet. Strange! What I want to talk about quickly today is how to prevent 18 years of struggle through planning to never have children. That is the only way to prevent struggle. I am a finish line father. I am trying to prevent a lifetime of struggle here. This is the only way to prevent struggle and tragedy. If you do NOT heed my advice right now, you most definitely will later, but it will be too late. So listen right now, please. Make a plan right now to never in your life have children. Even if a mistake is made, then make use of abortion; whatever you do DON'T HAVE CHILDREN. Don’t plan to have children, if you had plans to have children, I am sorry, change them. It is 18 years of hatred, and it is thankless, and if you do not understand this, then you will wish that you did; it will then be too late!

I am going to try a 3-day water only fast that I started this morning to try to knock this problem out of me. Fingers crossed.

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 I bet there are a lot of parents who say to themselves all the time that they wish they had done things differently. They had the opportunity to abort that pregnancy, but they chose not to. Parents can’t picture life without their child or children in it. What I am talking about here, is what your life would have been like, if you chose not to create that relationship. There would have been a lot more vacations, a lot more learning, a lot more free time. Instead, you chose to follow your human instinct. It is usually good to do so, but I have done it, and I am now finished with being a parent, which I am very grateful for. My child is alive and well. I live in Florida, and a judge allowed his drug addicted mother to move to the foreign country of Greece with him. So in December 2024, “Child Support” for me stopped. My child stopped talking to me about 1 year after she moved to Greece with him. So when I was finished with “Child Support” in 2024, I was finished being a parent, too. Now, he was just 12 years old when he stopped talking to me. I do not know why he did that, but it is what it is. I was pretty hurt about it for a while, but I got over it eventually, and now I am very happy about that. I can focus my thoughts and energy on things that actually matter now. I do not have to deal with the positively evil “Child Support” system. 

This is who the judge knowingly sent a 12-year-old to permanently live with.

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Today, I want to talk about the utter disbelief I have that humans go out of their way to have children. It is so obvious that having a single child is very hard as it is. You can easily look and see that having to take care of kids now is super difficult. Chances are that they are going to die before they turn 18. Now you have a dead child and a grieving parent. The parent or parents could die, too, and the children would grieve. That can all be avoided by not having children. Instead of having multiple or even a single child, spend the $1740.00 per month on yourself. There are lots of very good experiences a person or a couple can have for $1740.00 a month. Let us say you just blow that money and have nothing to show for it. As long as you never have a child, you will always have plenty of money. Unlike me, I was stupid and had a child in my 20s, and when that child turned 11, the mother took him to Greece, and a judge allowed her to take him. He stopped speaking to me after a year. So, between 2018 and 2024, I had to pay “Child Support” for a child in a foreign country that never talks to me or I go to jail, those were my choices. If “Child Support” did not exist, having children would still be a very bad decision. The only reason we do it still is because of instinct. You have to fight that instinct because your life is very important. Do not create a life that will be more important than yours.Children are a very hard thing to do. It is undeniable that having children is a very hard road, as it is. Then there is government “Child Support,” which makes it so much tougher. They make it almost impossible to raise a child. There is no way to avoid the government “Child Support.” The only way right now to surely avoid government “Child Support” is to not have kids. You can always hope that your spouse never contacts them for help, or that an application for government assistance is never submitted, either. That application for government assistance is a trigger for "Child Support" to enter your life.

Remember, that having a child today means that this could happen to you.

This is knowingly who that judge sent my child to live with permanently in another country!

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Today, I want to talk about how hard of a job it is to be a parent. There is not a lot of talk about the absolute difficulty of raising children. Planning to have kids is a very bad thing to do as it is. Planning to have children is the same as saying, yes, I want to be tortured for the next 18 years, as long as I do not die, I am completely fine with pain. The first thing to know about being a parent is that pain can not be directed; it just happens to everyone, usually without notice. There are things that can be done to avoid pain, if we know about the pain first. For example, we know that having children causes major, prolonged, drawn-out pain, but because there is a chance that something good may happen from that event, we do not care about that pain at all. I will tell you that the chance of something good happening does not outweigh the absolutely horrible life of suffering that those parents and their newborn child are going to go through. There will be times when bad things happen that you have no control over. Like when your toddler comes home from the sitter with bite marks on their arm? What can a parent do about that? Sure, you can call the sitter and be like WTF? This is what they are going to say to you. “I saw that, I am pretty sure I know how that happened, and as soon as I noticed it, I separated them right away.” That is all that can be done about that. The sitter noticed it and separated them immediately, and that is all that can be done. You absolutely can find a new sitter or take your child elsewhere. This problem is rampant, and it happens everywhere. There is no way to avoid it. The only way to avoid this problem is to employ a family member or friend to watch your child. There are risks there also. Raising children is a very hard thing to do, and something that needs to be considered is how that child is going to be cared for in the first 3 years of their life. The best thing to do is to imagine what your life will be like after that child is born. There is so much to know, and especially young parents do not know anything pretty much. The hospital will put all of you right out on the street after that child is born, and the mother is stable again. The real things start happening right then. The parents don't even consider what is happening at that moment. There are so very many things happening at that time, there is a new life now, we need to create folders and classifications for this new life. Let’s see here. What sex is that kid? Is that kid a twin (hopefully not)? Is that kid retarded? Does that kid have all of its limbs? Does that kid have all of its fingers and toes? Oh, it has an extra toe? Extra toes and fingers are okay, I guess we can just chop one of them off. It is when things are missing that we consider them to be a problem. No matter how that child appears, it is all the same, their parents have to love and care, and protect that child no matter what. Except right now, you can prevent all of that well-known torture with an abortion. It is a very invasive and barbaric surgery. If you remember exactly how bad of an event that was, you will forever understand and be grateful like I am that the condom was invented.

This can happen to anyone at any time, all you have to do to qualify is have a child.

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Today, I want to talk about the time when the mother was pregnant with her first child. Remember when you looked at that pregnancy test and it was positive. I am like, “UMM, CAN I PLEASE GET A DO-OVER?” I go to the closest drug store, lol. I get a name brand version of the test, for this purpose, I will spare no expense, I want the best damn pregnancy test that money can buy lol. I splurged and paid the full $24.99 (like paying more money would lead to a better result). I got home and eagerly gave her the test. She went into the bathroom to take the test, and when she came out of that bathroom, the result was the same; there was, in fact, a child on the way. I imagine there are mothers out there who had that same feeling. I did not know what to do. I have already paid for 2 abortions, and we have already talked about this. If she got pregnant again, she was going to have that child. I had already agreed to go through with this. So at the time, she was working for Bright House Networks and had good insurance, Mandatory for American parents, because in Amerika, there is no universal healthcare. That is a business in Amerika and in Amerika everything is a business. It was in that previous conversation that I got into this mess in the first place. I just did not see that until it was way too late. There have been many times that I wished I had never agreed to that. I did not analyze the mother of my child. She was good in bed, she had dark skin, and she was of Mediterranean descent. That was all the analyzing I did in my 20s. Now, when I see her, I am disgusted at myself. I didn't know yet about how evil the “Child Support” system was, but I was about to learn. When we split up, I understood how this was going to work, I had done this before, without a kid, though. I knew that I was going to have other girlfriends, and she was going to have other boyfriends. That meant there were going to be other men and women making contact with my child. That is a large mistake that I made. That was an invitation for the “Family” courts and “Child Support” to come into my life. There is no way to prevent “Child Support” from entering your life. It works like this: they have a number to contact if you want their “services” or if you submit an application for government assistance. That is also how they acquire “new customers,” the customers are parents. So there is nothing that you can do to prevent that from happening at all. I was told that “Child Support” even goes into families that still have both parents. It is the decision that is made right then and there, when that 2nd pregnancy test comes back positive, that changes everything.

The judge sent my child to live in a foreign country with this person, he is alive still and everything!

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Today I want to talk about a very hot subject, and that is abortion. A lot of people have strong views on this subject, and I think that is a very good thing. I do not have a problem with abortion at all. I am a male, so I do NOT ever get pregnant. I have to pay for abortions, and that is all. In my life so far, I have had to pay for a total of 6 abortions. I made a mistake, though; that number should have been 7 abortions in total. I do not have to actually get them performed on me, I just have to pay for them. The last time I had to pay for an abortion was around 2008. Everything was inflated, but not hyperinflated yet. Back then, the cost for an abortion was about $450.00 USD. That is a lot of money, but in exchange for all the absolute trouble they negate $450.00 is a really good deal. Just the amount of headache it saved me from having to deal with “family” court judges and the “Child Support” agency, that was money very well spent! Those 6 abortions were separated evenly between 3 women. Abortions are very barbaric, invasive, and tragic, and there are usually people outside the building when you enter that call you a murderer too.The fact that it is so tragic is a good thing because it resolves the issue of becoming a parent (becoming a parent now is a very bad thing), but there is a traumatic effect that is left with the mother. It is that effect that reminds a prospective parent about the time that she had to traumatically deal with a problem. It is that trauma that will forever prevent a pregnancy from happening again. I do know that the number of abortions that I have paid for is excessive, I am grateful for them. Now, the U.S. government has repealed Roe VS. Wade and that law was replaced by each state. Now the abortions that I paid for in the past would not be possible under this new state law, it is called “The heartbeat” bill or law. That law makes abortions illegal after only 6 weeks of pregnancy. So parents who have daughters need to be even more vigilant. As a father, I would (Which I despise) need to check every month and make certain that your kid is not pregnant (yes, it is now up to the parents), and if they are, an abortion is happening period. I do not want to go through that either, so do not force it!

This can happen at any time to any parent.

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