Just the father talking about exactly what happened to him. This is a severely truncated version of what happened to me. This could happen to anyone in America. Just imagine what it would be like if this happened to you. Now there is not a single person that lives in the county of Hillsborough, but since they retained jurisdiction, if I want anything to happen with that "case" I have to drive to that county whenever the have an opening. So I just decided to struggle through until they are finished with me. I remember, one I was talking to this guy, and he said to me "at least your payments are going to end someday. He was paying $1200.00 per month in alimony and at that time, he was going to have to pay that amount each and every month until 1 of them died. Since that time Florida Governor Ron Desantis has worked with the Florida legislators to end permanent alimony, I do not know if that law works retroactively for cases that have already been decided or not, but at least going forward there will be no more permanent alimony. That was one of the reasons why I will never be married again.

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Almost a 33-minute YouTube video.

I am just talking tonight about the "Child Support" agency has never been audited at the Federal or State level. They make a lot of money from the Federal government. They are both loved and feared. 

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Just the dad talking about how the current "Child Support" agency does NOT care
about what a parent thinks. For example: If one or both parents understand the child's need for support, the "child support" agency does not care about that at all. If  one parent is ordered to pay the other parent and does so for a couple years without a problem, and then misses a payment when they get a new job the "child support" gets paid for that and think that that parent is a deadbeat, it does not matter to them what the reasoning is. it is usually some sort of clerical problem, the :Child Support" agency is mandated by Federal law to start the enforcement process. I think that parent should be notified first. Usually once a parent is contacted they get it taken care of within 24 hours. The way the system is currently, the enforcement process starts and the state gets paid from the federal government handsomely too. If you look at these "child Support" agencies they have lots of employees which is very expensive and their offices are usually in some fancy government building, all of which is paid for by American tax payers. The entire "child support" system is very bad and definitely needs to be changed.

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Just the father talking again about how I was railroaded in court several times. You would think that a parent in court has equal power to a lawyer. There is no comparison. I have been run over in the courtroom many times because I have no legal experience other than getting beaten down in court by lawyers and judges. It is an easy win for a lawyer, a pro se litigant? A parent? There is no match, a lawyer will always beat a prose litigant, and judges hate them, which makes it even easier for a lawyer to win. I keep going to court though and getting whooped, if you ask me, which no one usually does, A child-related case DOES NOT BELONG IN OR AROUND A COURT ROOM AT ALL. I do think and understand that children should be supported financially and in every manner possible, but there should be no lawyers or judges, or court hearings at all. There should be a complete and separate system for instances surrounding children. I also think the "Child Support" Enforcement Agency should absolutely change its name because it cannot even stand the system itself. They also cannot stand these children, but they can stand the money that comes from enforcing "Child Support" Their name should be altered to something like family maintenance the name Child Support is something that is between the parents. If the parents cannot agree, which is sometimes the case then that case should be moved into the family maintenance office. Because the system is NOT working right now for anyone except the "Child Support" agency. And the current system is extremely lucrative for the "Child Support" agency. They don't care that they are splitting families up, and driving violence in the family, they know that if that money is not there, they get paid, that is really all they care about.

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Just talking about current events like this Hurricane that is bearing down on Florida 
right now. Hurricane Idelia is just rain with a name. It is supposed to make landfall in the Big Bend area of Florida kind of near Tallahassee. FL. Hopefully, this will be the only storm in Florida of the year, but I doubt it.

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Today, I switched the intro and outro of the podcast episodes because they are different. The intro is now a recording of the Florida State "Child Support" agency (public employees of the Florida Department Of Revenue) and the outro is now a (St. Petersburg police officer also a public employee in my car during an Uber trip that they requested which is public transportation.) They are both really good. The intro was recorded by me and is only 30 seconds of an over 2-hour session that I recorded of them while they are in their public capacities. It is unimaginable that these are the people that are in charge of the "Child Support" office. This is a supervisor that you hear talking and she has a signed judgment in front of her, and she is logged into my forced "account" and has the ability to see things that I cannot. Also, these people either did not know or stated to me that they did not know of their employment by Florida state.
There have been multiple times that I was owed money by the "child support" agency
and just because parents are forced to make immediate payments to "Child Support" they swept my Income Tax Return once and they were like "Oops, I am sorry" and they were going to keep it! I finally spoke with this lady and she got me my money back less like $110.00 because she said there were "court costs" there were no court costs, I didn't argue though, because most of my $1700.00 return was coming back to me.
If I waited to pay them as long as they wait to pay me, I would be in prison not jail, prison because they take multiple months.

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Just talking about the actual court hearing that every parent that is about to have to
pay the "child support" agency must go to. A lot of people go into that hearing unprepared. It is not anything like Criminal or Civil court. The paying parent wants to advise their lawyer to get the payment as low as possible, depart from the guidelines, and do whatever needs to be done to get that payment as low as possible.  With what I know now this is what I would say to my lawyer. "With my income, in your experience how much do you THINK (BALLPARK) I am going to have to pay monthly? They will probably say something like a thousand dollars. I would say hell no! $500.00 a month max and then you will go back and forth when you come up with a monthly number that
will work for you, then go to court. If not, get a continuance until the lawyer and the client are on the same page. You need to have this conversation with them though. because for whatever reason if you as a parent can not come up with that amount because you lost your job, or someone robbed you or your bank filed bankruptcy, no matter what you will need to pay or your American Driver's License will be suspended and then you will be arrested for a felony. The laws are written for the benefit of the child support agency. Not for the parents.

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I just am talking on this episode about my love for Mike Rowe and I have a meme on my phone that says the following which is very true ("We're churning out a generation of poorly educated people with no skill, no ambition, no guidance and no realistic expectations of what it means to go to work.") That is so true! These children turn into adults and have no skills at all. If my Son stayed in America I would have broken my back to make certain that he had the skills he needed to survive as an adult out here. It is VERY hard and my Son would need to see that first hand. After he left in 2017, I spent about the next year wondering, why me? Why did this happen to me? Then I thought about it for a second, YES that judge made the wrong call there, and yes his mother is a dope head. Now though, that I got everything and every one possible out of my life, I can rebuild it. So that is exactly what I did. I changed my phone number and when anyone asked me for my phone number, I told them they could email me because I was not giving my phone number to anyone. I change it now, like each year.  I rarely answer my phone now. If somebody gets my phone number let's say, they call it. I will not answer it now lol. If a detailed message is left, I may call them back. Hopefully, though they will leave an email address and we can communicate that way. If I call them back that is probably the first question I will ask them, then we can just email going forward. If they say something to me like "I don't have an email address" I will just create one for them.

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Just talking about the need to get your monthly "child support" payment down as low as possible when you are in front of the judge or magistrate that very first time. If you do or do not want a relationship with your child it is so very important to get that monthly payment down right then as low as possible.

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I was just talking about a video I just found that was when my Son still
lived in the U.S. and I used to take him and his cousins to jump zone in Sarasota Florida 
and it was obvious that we had so much fun. It really was a good time when my son was with me.

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