The Childfree Connection

What happens when you tell your family that you decided NOT to have kids? In this episode, we explore the positive and sometimes uncomfortable reactions that our childfree community has received when they break the no kids news.

We uncover a common lie that childfree people resort to when faced with relentless judgment or pressure. (Please comment if you’ve done this!) Plus, I share an example of one family’s heartbreaking reaction which is sure to leave you speechless.

Join us as we reveal Rick’s odd security mission during our hill country getaway and discuss the reason why we are both taking ice cold showers!

We invite you to join in on the conversation! Did your family have a positive or negative reaction to your childfree decision?

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

I’m currently coaching my May group program “Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide To Exploring Childfree Life”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program, can't wait to meet you! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

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Rick and I are on the struggle bus in this candid episode of The Childfree Connection Podcast! We're laying it all out as we unpack the recent challenges that life has thrown our way. We considered skipping this episode but instead found ourselves inspired to tackle a question we're frequently asked by the childfree community, "Is Childfree Life Easy?".

Rick shares his insight on an emotion that many of us feel, but is often clouded by shame (spoiler alert: loneliness). Meanwhile, I reveal some heartbreaking news that's led me to reassess the very essence of gratitude.

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

I’m currently coaching my April group program “Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide To Exploring Childfree Life”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program, can't wait to meet you! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

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Rick and I will be back next time but today I have a very special bonus episode of "Is Childfree For Me? " where my program graduates share their personal story of how they found peace and confidence with the childfree choice.

Today you will meet Delilah.

Do you ever feel like you keep pushing back the goal post when it comes to having kids? For example, you may think– I'll have kids once I'm financially stable, when I meet "the one", once I'm done traveling the world –and then you find yourself at that moment only to find a new reason to push back?

Delilah is a childfree woman who was doing exactly that and wait till you hear the crazy marker she ended up setting for herself (craziest I’ve heard yet!)! Delilah shares how she joined my program "Is Childfree For Me?" because she no longer wanted to sit with the feelings of shame and guilt of making this life altering decision and how sterilization surgery started to become an option.

If you find yourself ruminating about this decision or perhaps pushing the goal post as well, you will be inspired by Delilah's decision to take control of her life.

If you feel STUCK in the decision to have or not have kids, I can help! My program "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide to Exploring Childfree Life" is a step by step guide to reaching an informed decision with the peace and confidence you deserve. Doors for my program CLOSE in just 3 DAYS! This is an invite-only program. Book your FREE call with me so together, we can decide if this is exactly what you need!
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And don’t forget, if you are feeling isolated or would love to grow your childfree tribe, we have a whole community of childfree people who are ready to welcome you. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Watch on YouTube here - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8g

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

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Have you ever found yourself caught in the crossfire of defensiveness or judgment from parents? Or, maybe you have felt outcasted or overlooked? Rick and I have received so many negative comments from parents that we started wondering about the root of this divide between parents and those without kids. In this episode, we share the leading causes that will shed some light on this strange “competition”.

I also explore my family tree and share a surprising conclusion that raises thought-provoking questions about future childfree generations. 

Meanwhile, Rick continues his exploration of how AI and Robotics will impact our childfree elder years and shares a fresh new reason to appreciate the childfree lifestyle.

We invite you to join in on the conversation! Have you noticed that some parents cannot accept the childfree choice?

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

I’m excitedly gearing up for my March group program “Is Childfree For Me?”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake by not having kids, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program and there are only 9 spots left! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

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In this episode, Rick and I dismantle the Top 5 Assumptions that society often casts on those of us living childfree – we debunk childfree myths and shed some light on the actual truth of the childfree lifestyle. We go from dispelling the notion of us being baby haters to challenging the prevailing misconception that all childfree people are rich.

We share with you a very special encounter that unfolded at the Austin airport as I was on my way to Florida. This latest visit to see my mom sparked yet another childfree gratitude moment and a personal reflection that some of you may be experiencing as well. 

We invite you to join in on the conversation so that together, we can unravel all the false narratives that STILL exist and continue celebrating our childfree choice!

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

I’m excitedly gearing up for my March group program “Is Childfree For Me?”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake by not having kids, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program and there are only 9 spots left! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

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In this episode, we unpack the relentless pressure that STILL exists within our pronatalist society to convince childfree people to have kids. We dissect the origin of these pesky pressures and offer some insight in how to shoo them away or support others to do so. 

Rick debuts his "poem writing" skills and reads a heartfelt-ish message for childfree people to enjoy. (wait till you hear ) 

We also share how we recently found ourselves sitting next to a couple with a toddler and how we reacted to their communication style. By the way- where are all the films celebrating a happy and fulfilled childfree life? The search is on!

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

I’m excitedly gearing up for my March group program “Is Childfree For Me?”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake by not having kids, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program and there are only 9 spots left! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

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In this Bonus Episode, I interview an alumni member of my program "Is Childfree For Me?" The intention of this episode is to explore the intricate journey of embracing a childfree life—a path that can be marked by uncertainty, anxiety, stress and profound introspection.

Rick and I will be back next week but today, I have the privilege of chatting with Vera, a remarkable woman who found herself at a crossroads in her early thirties. Surrounded by friends diving into parenthood, Vera and her soon-to-be husband were charting their own course, preparing for their wedding while contemplating a childfree future. However, a family tragedy shook their world, prompting them to reevaluate their plans.

Vera candidly describes how they began to Feel responsible for bringing joy to the family which resulted in them trying to conceive. BUT, they soon realized that they were grappling with infertility.

She very honestly and openly shares how she had to decide how far she was willing to go with fertility treatment and how reaching out to me led her down a path of discovering what she truly wanted for herself and her future. Vera's story resonates with the profound significance of exploring the childfree life with authenticity and depth.

“Is Childfree For Me?” is a group program for women who are childfree or leaning into a childfree life but feel a roller coaster of emotions about solidifying this choice. If you are ruminating in anxiety, doubt, fear, shame or the idea of regret, this program is for you. “Is Childfree For Me?” guides you through the cause of those feelings and offers actionable steps to move forward with confidence and peace. This is an invite-only program. You can book a FREE call with Veronica to grab your seat for the next round. Doors open soon! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com)


Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8g
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnection
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As a childfree person, have you ever heard someone say that having a kid makes you a better person? (We've heard that a lot!) In today’s episode of The Childfree Connection Podcast, Rick shares a clip where the guest said exactly that -so, we’re going to dive into what a “better” person means and how is having children related to this supposed transformation? 

Also, Rick wants to know if celebrity pregnancy announcements are really necessary after he sees one as a top headline on his favorite site. Plus, we both share why our gratitude for being childfree was higher than usual these past two weeks (way high!). And lastly, Rick questions if it's weird to go to Disney without kids? 

And, don’t forget, if your community of friends are all having kids and you’re feeling left out, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

I’m excitedly gearing up for my February group program “Is Childfree For Me?”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake by not having kids, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program and doors close in just a few days! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Interested in being a guest? Email [email protected]

Connect with us:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8g
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnection
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

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Are parents happier than those without children? If you had asked either of us in our 20s and 30s, we likely would have answered yes. I can still hear the refrain in my head: "You'll never be truly happy until you become a mom." This concept was so deeply ingrained in my mind that the possibility of it not being true didn't even occur to me. I simply assumed that my lack of desire meant I would never experience true happiness.

In this episode, I share the results of some recent research studies which answer this question and of course, we share our own thoughts on happiness and living a childfree life. I also report on Rick’s latest stunt that resulted in a broken TV set and how he (annoyingly) won our 24 Hour contest.

We can’t wait to hear your thoughts on how you frame happiness as a childfree person! And, don’t forget, if your community of friends are all having kids and you’re feeling left out, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).

I’m excitedly gearing up for my January group program “Is Childfree For Me?”. This group program  is a deep exploration journey of the childfree choice for women who are ready to live a confident and peaceful childfree life. If you’re ready to move forward without the fear that you are making a giant mistake by not having kids, book a FREE call. This is an invite-only program and doors close in just a few days! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) 

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Interested in being a guest? Email [email protected]

Connect with us:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8g
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnection
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

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Does Childhood Affect Your Childfree Choice? Ina Garten “The Barefoot Contessa” did a recent interview where she spoke about her childfree choice and how she “did not want to recreate her childhood”. Rick and I were inspired to post about this on our social media accounts and decided to discuss if that was a reason for us as well. 

Also in this first episode of 2024, we share some details of our NYE party where I performed a choreographed dance routine for one of my best friends. Continuing on our true crime obsession, an investigation scene left Rick wondering if we “have to” say congratulations to people who announce a pregnancy. 

And don’t forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there’s a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to. 🧡Join our membership community here! https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Don't forget to subscribe so that you are notified when an episode is posted. Have an episode idea? Reach out on social!

More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/

Interested in being a guest? Email [email protected]

Connect with us:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8g
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnection
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

Test Us HERE With Questions!

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