Everything in life is a choice. We all make choices, but in the end our choices make us. What choices will you make in your lifetime. What choices will you pass on to others. It is not what happens to us in life but how we react that matters. I learned from Dr. Wayne Dyer that how people treat us is their path, how we respond is ours. When you realize you cannot think of a positive and a negative thought at the same time you will understand you always have a choice.