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Have you ever left a party feeling invisible… or stayed home because your nerves got the best of you?

In this episode, Michelle gets real about what social anxiety actually is — and how to overcome it with practical confidence-building tools that actually work. You’ll learn why your opinion of yourself matters more than anyone else’s, how to stop spiraling over other people’s reactions, and why emotional resilience is the true secret weapon to boldness.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

• The #1 myth about confidence that’s keeping you stuck
• A powerful mindset shift to stop caring what people think
• Why keeping your word to yourself is a game-changer
• How to feel social anxiety — and still show up with boldness
• Simple strategies to stop self-sabotaging and start showing up

If you’ve been playing small, second-guessing yourself, or canceling plans because you’re too anxious… this episode is the pep talk you didn’t know you needed. 💛

🎧 Listen now and share it with a friend who needs to hear: You’re not broken. You’re just one habit of self-belief away from your breakthrough.

To discuss coaching with Michelle, book a call at the link below.

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Bringing up sex before marriage can feel awkward, intimidating—or like a guaranteed vibe-killer. But it doesn’t have to be.

In this episode, I’m walking you through the sex talk no one ever teaches you how to have—the one that honors your faith, protects your heart, and actually builds chemistry instead of killing it.

You’ll learn:

• Exactly when to have the conversation (and when it’s already too late)
• What to say (with softness, confidence, and feminine clarity)
• How to know if a man respects your boundary—or if it’s time to walk away
• Why purity doesn’t mean silence—and how godly desire and godly discipline go hand-in-hand

Sis, this isn’t about shame or fear.

It’s about maturity, conviction, and knowing what kind of marriage you’re building before you ever say “I do.”

Let’s get into it.

P.S. You don’t just want a godly husband.

 You want a godly coach—someone who shares your convictions and actually understands what this standard feels like to live out.

I saved sex for marriage too. I get it.

And I know how to guide you with wisdom, clarity, and strategy to find a love story that honors God and excites your heart.

If that’s what you want too, let’s talk.
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He was kind. He loved the Lord. He wanted marriage.

So why didn’t he pursue you?

Here’s the truth no one tells you:

Godly men don’t commit because you’re nice—they pursue when they feel something.

In this episode, I’m teaching you how to create “I want you” energy that activates pursuit—without compromising your purity. 

You’ll learn how to stir up desire in a way that honors God, respects your value, and makes a man feel like he’s found his once-in-a-lifetime woman.

From voice tone to flirty lines to Spirit-led confidence, I’ll show you how to shift from “pleasant conversation” to undeniable chemistry. 

And when you master this, the right man won’t just be interested—he’ll be captivated.

P.S. If you’ve been the girl who checks all the boxes but still gets overlooked, it’s not because you’re not enough—

it’s because no one ever taught you how to create desire.

That’s what I do.

If you’re ready for expert coaching, personalized strategy, and a breakthrough in your love life,
 book your free consultation call today:

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You sent the text… and now you’re staring at your phone, wondering if he’s going to write back.

Before you spiral or double text — pause. This is the moment that separates a girl who chases… from a woman who attracts.

In today’s episode, I’m walking you through the power of leaning out — what it really means, how it creates desire, and why it’s one of the most feminine, faith-filled things you can do in dating.

You’ll learn how to hold high-value energy in the waiting, coach yourself through the hard moments, and trust God’s timing instead of a man’s texting habits.

Plus, I’ll share my W.A.I.T. framework — a simple self-coaching tool to help you stay grounded, desirable, and confident while you wait.

If you’ve ever second-guessed your message, felt tempted to chase, or just needed a reminder that you are the prize… this one’s for you.

P.S. Free tips only get you so far if your desire is to find a godly husband— premium coaching with an expert changes everything.

This is for the woman who’s done trying to figure it out alone… and ready to invest in proven, personalized strategy.

Let's talk. Book your call here: thechristiandatingcoach.com

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She was having a pleasant conversation.
It was fine. It was nice. But I saw what could be.

So, I gave her a challenge:
Make him crazy about you by the end of the week.

She laughed. Then she did exactly that.

In this episode, I’m sharing the exact shifts I coached her through—so you can do it too.

No games. No pressure. No compromising your values.
Just Flirt Pure confidence, godly femininity, and chemistry that honors the Lord.

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He says he’s a Christian… but is he truly walking with God? In this episode, I’m giving you 4 powerful, heart-revealing questions to ask a man early on — before the chemistry clouds your clarity. You’ll learn how to spark deep conversations without turning it into an awkward interview, so you can discern if he’s the real deal: a man after God’s own heart. This is about protecting your peace, building your confidence, and calling in the kind of love that honors the Lord and lights your soul on fire. Let’s go, Sis. 💫💍 

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Long-distance relationships are hard — but they’re not impossible. In this episode, Michelle shares real talk from her own story of dating her now-husband across three time zones, and how they not only made it work… but made it romantic, intentional, and deeply connected.

Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just want to build deeper connection in your current one, this episode is packed with tips you’ll actually use.

Michelle breaks down:

• The #1 truth you must accept about long-distance dating (hint: stop blaming him)
• How to create sacred, consistent connection — even from miles away
• Creative date night ideas to keep the spark alive (FaceTime + sushi night? Yes, please)
• How to flirt, connect, and create chemistry without physically being together
• Why frequent visits and a clear end-date are non-negotiable if you want to progress

Plus, Michelle invites you to take the next step in your dating journey by joining the Sisterhood — her intimate coaching group where she helps women build confidence, meet more high-quality Christian men, and learn to create chemistry that leads to commitment.

💍 Ready to stop wondering and start building real love — near or far?

Apply now: www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/sisterhood

Let’s get you married, sis.

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In this episode, Michelle gets all the way real about the three silent killers that are keeping so many women stuck in extended singleness: Discouragement, Doubt, and Delay.

These aren't just “bad moods” — they’re mindset traps that affect your energy, your attraction, your actions, and ultimately, your results. If you’ve ever said, “What’s the point?”, “Maybe God doesn’t want this for me”, or “I’ll figure it out later” — this episode is your wake-up call.

Michelle breaks down:

• Why discouragement literally blocks connection (even with a great guy in front of you)
• How doubt sneaks in and steals your belief in God’s love and your future marriage
• The way delay masquerades as self-care or “being busy” — when it’s really quiet quitting
• What to start thinking instead if you’re ready for results

She also shares a vulnerable moment from her own kitchen table — muffins, babies, husband, and all — to show you what’s on the other side of your effort. And if you’re ready to stop being stuck and start being strategic?

💥 Apply to join her Sisterhood program:
www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/sisterhood

It’s time to trade delay for action, doubt for truth, and discouragement for belief. Let’s get you married, sis. 💍

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Should you move cities (or even states) just to hopefully find love? In this episode, Michelle finally puts this common question to rest — and her answer might surprise you.

She shares her personal story of moving across the country for love — the risk, the reward, and what made it worth it — and contrasts it with the all-too-common idea that changing your location will change your results in dating. Spoiler: it’s not about where you live — it’s about what you’re doing (and not doing) to meet and connect with men.

Tune in as Michelle breaks down:

• When it's actually wise to move for love — and when it's just a distraction
• The two key shifts you need to make to start seeing results where you already are
• Creative (and surprisingly fun) ways to meet more Christian men in your area
• Why flirting and chemistry are non-negotiables — and how to create both

Ready for a more strategic and spirit-led approach to dating that actually works?

📣 Apply to join Michelle’s intimate coaching group:

 www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/sisterhood

 Let’s get you married, sis. 💍

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In this episode, Michelle dives deep into a thought that plagues so many single women — “Why is it taking so long?” If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated with the timeline of your love life, this one is for you. Michelle unpacks the mindset behind the question, why it’s keeping you stuck, and how surrendering to God’s perfect timing might be the most powerful shift you can make.

But she doesn’t stop there — because mindset alone isn’t enough. Michelle also calls out the modern dating struggle of “throwing spaghetti at the wall” and hoping something sticks. She’ll show you why understanding strategy and chemistry is key to not just dating... but creating the spark that leads to lasting love.

Get ready for a blend of peace, truth, and practical action steps — including an invitation to her free Swipe. Match. Marry. Masterclass happening Saturday, April 12th at 2pm PT.

💥 Ready to stop spinning your wheels and start seeing results?
 
Visit www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/masterclass to save your seat.