The Questions We Do Not Ask Our Children is a personal storytelling podcast told through my own memories of growing up as a young girl. It’s about the things I needed my mom to ask me but she didn’t and the questions no one thought to ask me— the worry, the shame and confused love I had at the time and how it made me feel, and how those moments quietly changed me. In this space, I return to those moments with honesty and vulnerability, not to accuse, but to understand. This podcast is a conversation with my younger self, and an invitation to adults not just to listen more carefully to the children in their lives. But also learn to ASK QUESTIONS. Because silence teaches lessons too—and some of them last a lifetime...

In this deeply Episode, I share the Painful journey of laying my father to rest. From my brother's wicked actions at the time of my daddy's death, to the shocking behavior of my father's strange siblings, this episode pulls back the curtain on grief, betrayal, and family dynamics that surface during loss.

Through the tears and the trials, one truth stands strong; celebrate your loved ones while they are still alive. Tomorrow is not promised.

Above all, this episode is a testimony of God's protection over me and my family and Siblings- A reminder that even in moments meant to break us, God stands as our shield.

This is real. This is raw. This is the "Chronicles of ShugaRose!

In this episode, i dived into one of the most delicate and powerful part of modern marriages..

Blending Families

When a married couple brings children from past relationships into their home, love becomes layered, emotions become deeper, and patience becomes a daily practice. Its not always easy.. but it can be beautiful (depending on how its managed.

Come lets explore the steps into a new marriage with kids on both sides.

Navigating loyalty conflicts, boundaries and expectations...

Understanding that children don't just blend instantly, they adjust, observe and slowly trust.

Ways couples can stay united, instead of divided when parenting styles clash.

I also talked about how to create a home where every child- biological or not- feels safe- respected and valued.

This episode is a gentle guide in facing and dealing with realities, the challenges, and the quiet victories of building a blended family'

I also talked about letting kids be kids and allow them enjoy their childhood.

Also a reminder that love does not erase the past- it simply gives everyone a new place to belong.

At the end of the day, Marriage is a daily choice- a choice to love with intention and to respect with consistency.

When love softens your word and respect guides your actions, the home becomes a safe place again... a place where both can breathe.

Remember

You're not just building a marriage- you're building a partnership. a friendship and a legacy.

Choose each other. Honor each other and let love and respect do the work they're designed to.

No matter what you choose, The truth is Simple.

Love makes the home, but respect keeps the walls standing

Marriage grows when both partners feel cherished, heard and valued- Not just in the big moments, but in the quiet, everyday spaces where real connection lives.

In this heartfelt Episode, we explore the two pillars that hold every marriage steady- Love and Respect.

Why do they matter? How do they show up in everyday conversations. conflicts, and littles gesture we often over look.

Nowadays- the new concepts is---Men Respect your wives and Women- love your husbands.

With gentle honesty and emotional depth, I want to share my experience, how love softens the heart

- How respect strengthens the bond

-Why both partners need to feel seen, valued, and spoken to with kindness

The small daily habits that keeps intimacy alive

I also share moments how I managed conflicts and disagreements with my husband- and how positive the end result was.

Sometimes disrespects can Subtly chip away at connection without anyone even realizing it.

This episode is a quiet reminder; A marriage doesn't thrive by accident- it thrives because two people choose respect and choose each other every day.

List to a full reflection that speak to the heart and settles into the spirit.

I dive into the story that exposes the cost of silence and the danger of raising a child without proper guidance. I told a story of a young boy who bit his mother's ear- the world saw a violent act- but underneath it was a deeper truth: years of poor communication, no correction and a parent who never taught him right from wrong.

Along side this story, I also share practical steps on what to do if your child ever finds themselves in a similar situation, as mine - growing up and why constant communication isn't just important- it is life -saving

This is a wake up call for every parent, guardian or caregiver. Sometimes the warning signs are there.. we just choose to ignore them.

This vulnerable episode is a revisitation of my childhood that shaped the way I see guidance, protection, and responsibility. I share how I somehow ended up with those exotic magazines at school- and how my parents reacted. They never asked me where they came from rather my mom was busy yelling at me with actually saying anything...

Join me as I unpack what it felt like to grow up unsupervised, the confusion it created and how that moment influenced the way I now parent, love and watch my children and the people in my life.

This episode is emotional, raw and deeply reflective- A reminder that some childhood wounds come from what wasn.t said what wasn't done.

In this Episode of the chronicles of ShugaRose, I share a shocking discovery right inside my home while growing up. What started as a normal day with my domestic staff took a strange turn when he introduced me to a set of "exotic" magazines I never imagined existed at the age of 7. much less expected to learn about from them.

Join me as I uncover how the conversation started, what I saw, How I reacted and the unexpected lessons that came out of it. From curiosity to disbelief. This episode dives into the surprising things kids are being taught by domestic staff .

After I walked away from my marriage and away from the man who pushed me into divorce thinking I would marry him. While I chose Peace Instead of their Chaos, the man turned to threats, Stalking and intimidation.

But in the middle of the fear, I opened my heart to our kids, explaining my decision with honesty and tears. I prayed and begged God for forgiveness, for mercy and for protection.

And God heard and saved Me.

This story is about deliverance, motherhood. courage, and the power of choosing peace over pressure. Learn from it. If God can deliver me, He definitely do the same for you too.