Bonus Episode #10 Psalm 81:13 and Irresistible Grace: Does God’s Lament Refute Calvinism?
In this bonus episode of The Closet Calvinist Podcast, Mike G. examines Book of Psalms and answers a common objection to the Reformed doctrine of irresistible grace.
Some claim that Psalm 81:13 disproves Calvinism because God says:
“Oh, that my people would listen to me, that Israel would walk in my ways!” (ESV)
Does this mean God sincerely desires to save people who ultimately resist Him? Does this imply that His grace can fail?
In this episode, we show why the answer is no.
Psalm 81 is a covenantal lament in which God expresses His grief over Israel’s persistent rebellion. The passage reveals God's moral delight in obedience and the blessings that would have followed had Israel listened to Him.
This verse does not describe a frustrated deity whose sovereign purposes are thwarted. Rather, it reflects the distinction between:
- God’s Revealed (Preceptive) Will — what God commands and delights in
- God’s Secret (Decretive) Will — what God has sovereignly ordained to come to pass
The doctrine of irresistible grace teaches that when God purposes to save His elect, the Holy Spirit effectually changes their hearts so that they willingly and joyfully come to Christ.
- Book of Psalms
- Gospel of John
- Gospel of John
- Gospel of John
- Book of Ezekiel
- Epistle to the Romans
- Book of Isaiah
- Epistle to the Ephesians
- Acts of the Apostles
- Epistle to the Romans
Psalm 81:13 expresses God’s holy displeasure over Israel’s disobedience, not a failure of His sovereign will.
Israel “would not submit” to God. Their rebellion was deliberate and culpable.
God does not merely invite sinners; He regenerates them, giving them a new heart that gladly responds to Christ.
“All that the Father gives me will come to me.” (John 6:37)
Calvin taught that passages like Psalm 81:13 reveal God’s fatherly kindness and man’s guilt, not any weakness in God’s sovereign power.
When God changes the heart, Christ becomes the soul’s greatest desire.
“Give what You command, and command what You will.”
“God does not merely make salvation possible—He effectually saves His people.”
Psalm 81:13 does not refute irresistible grace. Instead, it highlights:
- God’s genuine delight in obedience
- Humanity’s responsibility for rebellion
- The necessity of sovereign grace
- The certainty of God’s saving purpose