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What if criticism in marriage is as harmful as idol worship? Join us as we continue our insightful series on the Ten Commandments of Marriage, where we uncover why "do not criticize" is a cornerstone for a thriving relationship. We dive deep into how criticism can erode the foundation of a marriage by undermining the belief that everything unfolds according to God's plan. Through personal stories and powerful examples, we illustrate the pervasiveness of criticism and its impact on our closest relationships. Learn how striving for positivity and being mindful of our actions can dramatically enhance our spouse's self-esteem, nurturing a more loving and supportive union.

This episode also introduces the concept of "Sunscreen Love," highlighting the necessity of constantly nurturing romance to keep the relationship vibrant and healthy. Discover the four A's of a loving relationship—attention, affection, appreciation, and awareness—and their vital role in meeting your partner's needs. We also share an exciting glimpse into our upcoming self-esteem classes, designed to further enrich your personal and relational growth. Stay tuned and get ready to transform your marriage into a criticism-free zone of love and respect!

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Embark on a  journey into marital bliss with Coach Ratner as we unveil the Ten Commandments of Marriage. With the first commandment, "I am your spouse," we unravel the mystery of  understanding your partner's unique essence, similar to knowing G-d. Discover the five love languages along with the four A's—attention, affection, appreciation, and awareness—that foster a deeper connection with your significant other. This episode will equip you with personal strategies to cater to your partner's needs, a treasure trove for those looking to fortify their relationship.

I'll guide you through the art of building an emotional connection. Learn how asking three pivotal questions about your spouse's day can bridge the physical, intellectual, and emotional aspects of their experience, strengthening your bond. We'll also confront the challenges that us men have with communication and how we only have so much 'listening bandwidth'. Prepare to be enlightened and amused with real-life anecdotes as we explore the dynamics of marriage for a more meaningful and engaged partnership.

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Discover the unexpected as I, Coach Ratner, detail an unplanned reunion in Jerusalem that reminded me of the deep roots and personal connections fostered through our shared faith. My conversation with Rabbi Moshe Scheiner, a catalyst in my family's spiritual awakening, becomes a centerpiece of reflection on this episode of the Living in Clarity podcast. 

Embark on a narrative journey that intertwines the joys of community, the wisdom of a retired army general's class that challenges us to rethink our engagement with mainstream media, and the delightful surprise of bumping into Rabbi Gavriel Friedman in my very own neighborhood. This episode is a tapestry of heartwarming encounters and enlightening discussions, certain to leave you with a renewed sense of purpose and perhaps a little more clarity on your own path. Join us and see where serendipity might lead you in your life's adventure.

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Have you ever found yourself caught between the pursuit of peace and the desire to stand your ground? It's a conundrum we've all faced, and in this heart-to-heart with Lori Palatnik as we tackle such life-defining moments head-on. With wisdom from Perkei Avot as our guiding light, we unravel the delicate intricacies of navigating parenting, divorce, and those contentious bar mitzvah seating arrangements. It's about striking a balance — knowing when to offer guidance and when to step back, for the sake of family harmony.  Listen in for relatable tales and insights that could very well be the key to maintaining strong relationships during life's most challenging chapters.

Imagine the art of message delivery as a finely tuned instrument — one that can make or break the harmony of an interaction. That's the crux of our second chapter, where we examine the profound effects of the messenger and timing on communication. As Coach Ratner, I share personal glimpses into my family life, illuminating how fostering self-reliance can empower those we love most. From the delicate equilibrium between passion and financial gain to the satisfaction of diving back into the rare coin business, I discuss the intricate dance of pursuing a career that honors both one's heart and wallet. And for those standing at the crossroads of education and content creation, we contemplate the tricky balance between recognition and monetary compensation.

Wrapping up, we explore the profound interplay of self-esteem, purpose, and adversity. Fame and recognition, when sought for the right reasons, can be transformative. I delve into the essence of feeling cherished by parents and a higher power, how these bonds fortify our sense of purpose, and guide us toward a meaningful existence. Our final chapters touch on the optimism that shapes economies and decision-making, the character-focused approach to parenting that prioritizes happiness over grades, and the Momentum initiative's inspiring global reach. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply someone searching for your path, this episode offers a beacon of hope, encouraging you to harness adversity and turn it into a vehicle for personal growth and widespread change.

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Why do we etch our skin with ink or alter our bodies with piercings and surgery? Uncover the deeply rooted psychological motivations behind body augmentation, as we discuss the quest for meaning in a transient world. With special guests Robby DomeTownBlyte and Bobbitt, we peel back the layers on self-esteem's influence on these permanent decisions. Plus, get a sneak peek at my forthcoming book, "Incident Marriage: The Four Faces to a Love Relationship," where I delve into how self-worth weaves into the fabric of our intimate relationships.

Prepare to challenge your perceptions as we explore the phenomenon of pre-rejection in niche subcultures and its connection to the world of tattoos and piercings. Find out how these modifications may serve as a shield from societal judgment, and consider the health implications and cultural shifts that have reshaped our views on body art. We also touch on the spiritual implications of personal appearance through the lens of various religious teachings. Wrapping up, we express our deepest gratitude to our loyal viewers and hint at an exciting new chapter: our own content platform, where the conversation can continue, unbound and unfiltered.

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Ever wondered how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your life? Coach Ratner here, and I'm thrilled to bring you an episode with the remarkable Corey Drucker, where we unveil the transformative power of gratitude and clarity. Together, we weave through our morning rituals, highlighting the psychological perks of starting the day with a positive stride. We reflect on the magic tucked into the ordinary – from the joyous bustle of family life to the often ignored marvels of our own bodies. Corey and I also offer a sneak peek into the art of preparation, sharing how a little nightly foresight sets the stage for a day steeped in focus and appreciation.

As our conversation meanders through the terrain of tradition and modernity, we pause to consider the profound impact of commercialization on sacred times, particularly Thanksgiving and the encroaching Black Friday frenzy. We juxtapose Abraham Lincoln's vision of a day for thankfulness with today's consumer-driven holidays, sparking a segue into the timeless teachings from the Jewish path to wisdom. Corey and I draw parallels between life's complexities and a child's learning process, musing on the shape of experiences and how they fit into the larger puzzle of our existence.

Closing on a note of reverence for relationship wisdom, we delve into the essence of successful partnerships through the lens of Torah teachings. Highlighting the significance of spiritual milestones and the bris ceremony, we explore the intersections of ancient customs and contemporary understanding. With anticipation, I share tidbits from my forthcoming book "Infinite Marriage," alluding to the richness of continuous growth within relationships. Join us as we journey through a tapestry of thought-provoking discussions, celebrating the heartwarming connection between life's rituals and the clarity that comes from living with gratitude.

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Ever wondered if the secret to more meaningful relationships could be as simple as fostering genuine self-love? Join me, Coach Ratner, alongside Rabbi Yisrael Frankel for an insightful dialogue that promises to illuminate your path to deeper connections. As we sit in the heart of Jerusalem, we uncover the often overlooked link between cherishing oneself and the capacity to love others, sharing wisdom from both personal experiences and the Torah. Delving into the joyous pursuit of happiness, we reveal how everyday moments and gratitude can significantly enhance our relationships and overall well-being.

Our conversation takes a powerful turn as we tackle the transformative influence of self-esteem on one’s life journey. Rabbi Frankel and I share stories of overcoming self-doubt and the remarkable changes that ensue when individuals recognize their worth and set ambitious goals. We also explore the complexities and beauty of long-term love, discussing how intimacy, vulnerability, and shared growth solidify and celebrate the bond between partners. If you're seeking to reignite passion in your relationships or simply find greater contentment within, this episode is a trove of heartfelt advice and actionable wisdom.

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Unlock the paradoxical wisdom of thriving through failure with Dave Mason, as he joins me, Coach Ratner, on the Living Clarity podcast. We celebrate Dave's enlightening new book, "Hurry Up and Fail," where he illuminates the counterintuitive notion that stumbling can be a springboard to success. Discover how figures like Sarah Blakely used sheer grit to turn Spanx into a household name, and how my own aspirations during National Novel Writing Month revealed the transformative nature of creative endeavors.

This episode is a treasure trove for anyone embracing risks and writing their own success stories. We'll traverse the fine line between audacity and caution, taking cues from the likes of Richard Branson's adventure-fueled risk management to the strategic preparation that saved Mrs. Goldfarb's Unreal Deli. Engage with the art of exceeding expectations, as we draw inspiration from Marie Forleo's B-School and Stephen King's perseverance. These narratives are bound to shift your perception of setbacks as we dissect the power behind pre-mortems and early warning systems that can steer any venture clear of disaster.

By the end of our journey together, you'll be equipped with a new lens to view your personal and professional challenges. We wrap up with recommendations for must-listen audiobooks that promise to fuel business growth and personal transformation. With stories, insights, and strategies shared by Dave and reflected in my own experiences, this episode serves as a beacon, guiding you through the maze of trials towards triumph. So, let your curiosity lead the way and tune in to discover how to harness the unexpected rewards of failure.

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Have you ever met someone who completely shattered your checklist of qualities for a 'type'? I’m Coach Ratner, and in this latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, I delve into the surprising ways love can defy our expectations. By sharing personal stories and those from my coaching sessions, I aim to show that an open heart might lead you to the most fulfilling connections, ones that you never anticipated.

From a friend who found love in the most unlikely place to my own journey with my wife, I discuss the notion that sometimes, our 'type' isn't who we think it is until we're face-to-face with them. This episode is packed with revelations from a woman in her 30s who found marriage through social media, to a septuagenarian embracing companionship. We unravel the common pitfalls of judging too quickly and the importance of personal growth, sometimes with the help of therapy or coaching, in molding our perspectives on love and relationships.

Wrapping up with a look at the 'first date bias' and my personal insights into building a deep connection, this episode is a treasure trove for anyone navigating the dating world or yearning to strengthen their current relationship. My upcoming book "Infinite Marriage: The Four Phases of a Loving  Relationship," promises to be a guidepost for those seeking to understand the complexities of love further. Join me on this intimate and eye-opening journey as we challenge the norms and embrace the unpredictable nature of finding love.