The Complete Man

Pardeep Singh Kaleka lost his father in a vicious hate crime. A member of a white supremacist group walked into a church with a gun and it changed Pardeep's life forever. Now he works with the founder of that same group in an effort to heal the racial divide in America.   In this week's episode, Pardeep explains how he recovered from losing his father and what it took to get his life back on track. Part of that included confronting the man who started the hate group that eventually took his father's life. That meeting changed the path of both men forever.   Hear their amazing story and find out:

• How to pick yourself back up after tragedy
• Why victim mentality keeps the cycles of hate going
• Why identity politics are being pushed and what it's doing to society
• The one thing we need to do as a society to get past our racist past
• Why censorship and ostracizing people only makes the problem worse
• What holding on to pain does to your own mental health
• How to build bridges instead of walls (and why you should)
• What the heck Generational Trauma is and how it affects us
• And a lot more

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It started out like any other day. The family was running late for church. Gas prices were up again. But it was a beautiful Sunday morning.   Then, an uneasy feeling set in. Squad cars from multiple jurisdictions seem to be converging on their destination. As they get closer, they see the whole block is lit up with police sirens. Something was definitely not right.   That's the day that changed Pardeep Kaleka's life forever. Had he been on time, his life might have ended. His father wasn't so lucky. That morning, a White Supremacists had targeted their church for a mass shooting. Pardeep's father was one of the people shot in the rampage.   But rather than let this ruin his life, Pardeep made it his mission to go out and start healing the pain of racial division in the world. Join us as he tells you his story in his own words, and what he's now doing as a result.   Warning: This one is powerful and emotional.   Listen Now.

The world is desperate for leadership. So much so, we often promote some of the worst people into positions of power. Because the right men aren't stepping up, the rest of us are getting stuck with the label of "toxicity".   How do we right the ship? How do we, as men, reclaim our role of leadership from the guys who keep giving us a bad name? How do we make sure we're not the ones giving other guys a bad name?   If you want to make a difference in the world, you're gonna need to be a leader. So how do you do it the right way when the wrong way seems so much easier? That's what this week's episode is all about.   Listen and you'll discover:

• Why men struggle for control in their lives
• What happens when the thirst for power goes too far
• How to find a healthy balance as a man
• Why social media has destroyed some men's ability to live authentically
• Why the world needs good men in leadership roles now more than ever
• How to be a strong leader without getting the hate that Trump gets
• Why do we tend to get the worst people in positions of power (and how to fix it)
• One question to ask yourself before you trust someone to be a leader
• What things to keep in mind as you move up the corporate ladder
• The 3 qualities you need to develop in order to be a successful leader
• Why power tends to bring out the worst in us (and how to avoid it)
• How to be a leader that inspires others to do their best for you
• And a lot more

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Most business owners like to brag about how big their business is. They find their value in how big of a team they manage or how big their office building is. Without making the obvious compensation jokes, there is something wrong with this picture.   In the last few years, we've seen industry giants collapse. We've seen "too big to fail" corporations run to the government for bailout money. We've seen CEO's get fired and workforces lose their pensions. And most of it could have been avoided if only the people in charge were focused on the right things.

• Why most entrepreneurs are focused on tracking the wrong metrics
• One main reason giant corporations keep failing in the modern market
• Why "Bigger" isn't always better
• How to prepare for economic downturns
• What you really need to focus on if you want your business growth to be healthy
• The 2 most important things you need to improve as your business grows
• Why going after new customers is a waste of your money
• What the Japanese companies are doing to establish market dominance (don't ignore this one)
• Why Biggie was right when he said "More money, more problems"
• One thing entrepreneurs can actually learn from the big corporations
• And a lot more

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Stop listening to the gurus who preach about the hustle and grind. Those things have their time and place, but you got into this game to win yourself some freedom. So why is it that most entrepreneurs end up being a slave to their own businesses?   We've all heard the jokes - an entrepreneur is someone who works 80 hours a week to avoid a 40 hour a week job - but does it have to be this way? Join us as we break down the facts and the fiction about "Grind" mentality, and what it's really doing to your chances at success.   You'll discover:

• 3 reasons why always being in business mode can ruin your life
• The dark part of entrepreneurship almost nobody ever talks about
• How to tell if you're about to hit your breaking point
• 2 parts of your life you need to start paying more attention to, RIGHT NOW
• How to get the most out of time with your loved ones
• How to keep your spouse satisfied and still meet your business goals
• Why most entrepreneurs never find the freedom they seek
• How your stress is impacting your friends and family in ways you can't even see
• How to break bad habits and replace them with healthy ones
• When the "Hustle" gurus are right and when they're dead wrong
• And a lot more

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What if you could face the day with more energy and get more done? What if every day held purpose and possibility? What if you could take on the world with the confidence fo a raging bull? That's what it means to live your life in beast mode.   Billy Beck is trusted by some of the world's most driven and successful people to help them get the most out of every day. Last week, he shared his background story with us. This week, he shares what today looks like.   Wanna grab life by the horns? Start by listening to this episode. You'll discover:

• The biggest mindset problem that holds men back from good health and wealth
• How culture sets us up for failure
• Why the first seven years of your life are the most important
• The best way to get past the slump that follows success
• Why working out to look good will always let you down
• The best time of the day to get in your workout
• What the toughest people all have in common
• One simple trick to get past the struggles that most people give up on
• The biggest mistake even the experts make when building up their bodies (and what to do instead)
• How to get the most out of your workout in only 20 to 30 minutes a day
• And a lot more

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Imagine growing up the mean streets of an inner city. Your father is a beast. You fall in with the wrong crowd. Before you know it, you're flirting with a life of crime and all the possible consequences that go with it.   Now, imagine being able to turn that all around. Instead of a life sentence in prison, you're working with some of the most successful people in the world. Instead of beating people up, you're changing their lives for the better. Instead of struggling to get by, you're living the life of a rock star.   It takes a certain type of mindset to make this change possible. Billy Beck had that mindset. This week, on the podcast, he's sharing some of his most powerful insights with you.   You'll discover:

• What kinds of gifts turn boys into men
• How to pivot when you hit rock bottom (hard)
• Which people you need to get the attention of if you want to excel in your field
• Why you're likely setting your goals to low (and how to fix that)
• The best way to master any skill
• How to turn one opportunity in infinite opportunities
• Why bullies are actually needed in society
• 1 mind-blowing fact about your personal health that even your doctor doesn't know
• How to find a balance between being tough and being empathetic
• And more

Warning. This one gets a little raw. May not be safe for work.   Listen anyway.

Let's face it; most of us are completely clueless when it comes to pleasing the women in our lives. Some of us are so focused on building our businesses, we don't even make room to have a woman in our lives. But what's the point of building an empire if you don't have someone to share it with?   Every King needs a good Queen at his side. But that's a lot easier said than done. This week, we look at a few of the ways men can improve their love lives, and a few of the ways we screw them up.   Tune in and you'll discover:

• Why so many successful men are still miserable (inside and outside of their relationships)
• The three things women want in a long-term relationship
• How being a nerd is kind of a turn-on.
• Why big balls make so many women happy
• If your woman isn't pleased with you, this might be the reason why
• The real reason women are so crazy
• How to gain instant respect from your lady
• Why she doesn't really want you to do as she says
• The five biological forces you ignore at your own detriment
• And a lot more

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If there was one book you should go back and read every six months or so, this is it. This book has changed lives by changing the way men think. It's one of the most profound books ever written on mindfulness and success, and it only takes about 30 minutes to read, from start to finish.   Purdeep learned about it in one of his first entrepreneurial ventures and it stuck with him, to this day. Nathan discovered the book when one of his friends hit rock bottom and it helped him turn everything in his life around. This is one of those rare gems that only comes around once or twice in a lifetime.   What book are we talking about? You'll have to tune in to find out. In doing so, you'll also discover:

• Why passion and consistency are vital for success
• The one thing that makes everything else easier
• A strange relation that Amway and prison have in common
• Why victim mindset creates limits on your lifestyle
• One personal trait that makes you uncontrollably attractive to others
• Why where you put your focus determines your outcome
• One bad habit to stop NOW for an immediate improvement in your life
• 3 timeless traits that have always made for a good leader
• How to turn your emotions into one of your greatest strengths
• And a lot more

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What would you do if you found out today was your last day to live? Would it change your perspective; re-align your priorities? Would those pressing issues that kept you up last night even matter today?   Brian Brawdy was always a beast of a man. He's spent his life grabbing it by the horns and making it bend to his will. Then, one day, everything changed for him when the doctors discovered a tumor in his brain.   Five surgeries and a bunch of years later, Brians still alive and kicking. He's going in for surgery again to fix some of the final issues he needs taken care of. Like many times before, he's facing the possibility of closing his eyes for the last time. Before that happens, he wanted to share some of his insights and wisdom with you.   Tune in and hear:

• Why quitting isn't always a bad thing
• What to do when you hit rock bottom and you don't have the power to get back up again
• How to get a grasp on what really matters in life
• The biggest ways family impacts your priorities and decisions
• One of the best things you can do as a father for your children
• Why ego and courage come from two different places
• How to get the most out of every day
• Why asking for help doesn't degrade your masculinity
• And a lot more

You don't want to miss this one. It's powerful.   MortalUp Website https://www.brianbrawdy.com/