The Confident Healer

By Sharmila MaliEducation Self-Improvement

The Confident Healer episodes

March 16, 2022 Ask The Akashic Records Series 3
This is the 3rd episode in the Ask the Akashic Record Series. This episode centers around fear. Why fear? Because I had opened my Akashic Records and asked what would be the best subject for me and my listeners and it all centered around fear: fear of love, fear of asking for money in your business, fear of receiving what you asked for
This episode helps you move through fear with very practical and loving guidance. And we could all sure use some loving guidance right now.
Show Notes:
-New healer training, the Confident Healer Reiki training, 6 months comprehensive certification in Intuitive Healing and Reiki Levels 1 and 2
-Introduction of Ancient Mother, the energy describes who “she” is
-Ancient Mother is the ancestor of all living beings on this planet, including mountains, oceans, animals
-How do we move through fear to learn to trust and love again
-Forgiveness of yourself and the other person/people that you felt hurt by
-I asked what if you were in an abusive relationship
-Ancient Mother says to find some level of forgiveness even out of the worst intention, the person you were involved with acted out of their pain
-How to get through the fear of asking for money in your business
-Breathe and find your way through the fear, remembering why you are doing what you are doing
-Believe in what you are offering and realize that both you and your customer/client will benefit from what you are offering
-It’s natural to have fear about asking for money in business
-Grounding yourself will help to allay your fears
-Work from your highest good
-How to not sabotage yourself when you do get what you asked for
-How to move on when you didn’t make a sale
-Believe in your product/service that you offer
-What do you do when your business slows down and the flow of people that were coming to you and stops and those people go to other people
-Why do I avoid exposure when having a business
Let me know if you want to ask a question for the Akashic Records, or have a topic you would like for me to cover regarding healing. I would love to hear from you
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali is a Self-Love Expert, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader and a podcaster. For the past 19 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert TIKTOK: @confidenthealer
Support the Confident Healer:
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone that needs it.
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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22 min
March 07, 2022 Ask The Akashic Records series 2
Ask the Akashic Record series, part 2.
I have more questions from my friends to ask the Akashic Records. This week, after advice from my Akashic Records teacher, she suggested I open both Ancient Mother and Planet Earth.
Some are personal and some questions pertain to beings from other planets.

Let me know if you want to ask a question for the Akashic Records, or have a topic you would like for me to cover regarding healing. I would love to hear from you
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 19 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert TIKTOK: @confidenthealer
Support the Confident Healer:
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone that needs it.
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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16 min
March 01, 2022 Ask The Akashic Records
In this week’s episode, I did an Akashic Record reading. And boy, did it ever apply to my life right now. I asked my friends to give me questions that they wanted to ask the Akashic Records. My friends gave me a nice list of questions that I will go through in my new series, Ask The Akashic Records.

The questions for this episode have a theme of how to the stress of the environmental crisis, and how to deal with our unconscious behaviors in terms of causing harm to others.
The answers were quite surprising!
Show Notes:
-I explained that I asked whose record do I open for the human collective, and my records told me to open the Akashic Records of the “people listening to this podcast”
-Invited the audience to send me questions they would like to ask the Akashic Records, or a topic they would like for me to cover, a guest they would like me to interview or just reach out
-Asked the Akashic Records how can we practically minimize the impact of our own unconsciousness on others?
-They answered: by being in the present moment
-they also suggested that using self-reflective exercises like meditation, prayer, journaling, being nature were all ways to stay in the Now, the present moment
Let me know if you want to ask a question for the Akashic Records, or have a topic you would like for me to cover regarding healing. I would love to hear from you
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 19 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert TIKTOK: @confidenthealer
Support the Confident Healer:
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone that needs it.
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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27 min
February 15, 2022 How to stop the inner critic
How to stop the inner critic
This week I was inspired by a client who wished a movie I recommended to her (Violet amazon Prime) would have shown how to get out of the cycle of the inner critic. You know that evil voice inside your head that is always criticizing you. The inner perfectionist that will let you know that you are never good enough.
The inner critic, is also referred to as negative self-talk, negative voice, and also beating yourself up.
If you have one or know of someone that does, please listen to this episode. And learn how to stop the inner critic, it can be done because I overcame it.
There a many ways to get out of the cycle of the inner critic, the negative self-talk, beating yourself up.
In this episode, I talk about 3 ways to stop the inner critic. I also talk about my own struggles with my inner critic and the list I discuss is what helped me silence that inner critic. I feel so free and less heavy because I stopped criticising myself.
It’s important to say good things about yourself, instead of saying shitty, terrible things.
Let me know if this episode helped you, I would love to hear from you!
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert TIKTOK: @confidenthealer
Support the Confident Healer:
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone that needs it.
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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27 min
December 14, 2021 Helping South Asian Menstruaters find Empowerment
This week, I welcome back my guest from a few episodes ago, (S2E4) Jonita D’souza to discuss how South Asians teach people that the most natural event that happens to a person is a time of impurity: menstruation. .

If you are squeamish about this topic, I suggest to lean in because you know someone that menstruates no matter who you are, and since more than half the population bleeds every month for 5-8 days, understanding how old-world cultures view menstruation might give you more appreciation and how resilient menstruaters are.
The stigmas in my Nepali culture about menstruation in my opinion are archaic and steeped in some patriarchal bull shit. Plain and simple.

Please tell me how, if you believe that god created you, then god also created you to bleed every month, but during that time, god says you are dirty, impure? Naw, dude. God didn’t say that. Who made that rule up? So if a menstruater believes in god, and that during that time you are impure, dirty, you are not allowed to perform your aarti? Or like Jonita who grew up Christian, she along with other menstruaters are not allowed to take holy communion. Or a Muslim menstruater in India, that you aren’t allowed to pray (she mentions that in the episode)?
Yeah, it boggles my mind that people still carry on these traditions, but maybe, just maybe we can evolve, and people can stop putting their young girls and women all alone in period huts in rural areas of Nepal where danger and death can befall them. https://abcnews.go.com/Health/wireStory/menstruation-huts-destroyed-nepal-exile-persists-68346515
We discussed our experience of our respective South Asian families and South Asian society's rules we had to abide by when we were on our period.
Jonita offers some of her teachings on how to reclaim and be empowered while on your period. It was a fascinating and eye-opening conversation for me, because I feel disempowered and drained when on my period.
Topics discussed:
- Sharmila talks about her experience growing up Hindu in America and being on her period
- Jonita also talks about growing up in India as a Christian menstruating woman, witnessing her Hindu and Muslim friends traditions around their periods
- Conflicting message equating menstruating to being dirty
- Jonita found reverence with her period through Ayurveda
- Jonita discovered that in ancient India women were honored when they were on their period
-Jonita also talks about how in other cultures, thousands of years ago there is evidence in other cultures about the reverence for women and their menses.
-Jonita talks about changing your perspective starting with being okay with your blood
-Self-care during your period with nutrition, meditation, etc
-Advanced practices for using your menstrual blood
About the guest, Jonita D'souza
Jonita D’souza is a Feminine Lifestylist, an Author and Creatress of Exploring Femininity Ltd., assisting modern-day busy women who struggle with burn-out, overwhelm and body love to reconnect with their feminine and sensual energy using the ancient Taoist and Tantric arts, so that they can create a lifestyle that is fulfilling, nurturing and pleasurable.
She is also a certified Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Master Hypnotherapist and combines the teachings of Indian feminine mysticism and shamanism in her work, facilitating monthly moon circles, online workshops and sacred feminine retreats.
jonitadsouza.com FB: @exploringfemininity www.youtube.com/channel/UC6UoCyuUA5J8hWcLGc2yUow
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
Sharmilamali.com
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert TikTok: @confidenthealer https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEcso8CuyKEae6pIp9Afjsg
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone you know that will love it!
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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Edited by Chris Jessup

49 min
December 07, 2021 Grieving as a spiritual practice builds confidence with Neelam Nanvani
Where do you find the courage and strength to continue running your business after your spouse and business partner suddenly die?
This week’s guest, Neelam Nanvani will tell you, the only out of grief, is through. It’s been challenging, to say the very least and, yet Neelam has found a deeper connection to the Divine within. She had to continue a new women's mentorship program she was teaching when her husband suddenly fell ill and then died within a week.

Through her grief, she was able to be a channel in her mentorship program and taught new concepts and a deeper understanding to the Divine Feminine.

For her, Shamanism is not just another healing modality, it is a Way of Life, a way from which anything and everything springs, births, and evolves. Neelam is also a highly evolved facilitator in the areas of Shadow work, trans-generational wounds and Inner Child work. She also teaches about Dream work as practiced in indigenous Shamanic societies and how we can use the gift of Dreams to heal. She calls dreams, “Oracles of the Night.” Evolving into BEing a voice for the Divine Feminine and The Empowered Woman.

Topics discussed in this episode:
-Neelam discusses her grief process being lonely and no support in her grief
-Her husband died very quickly during the start of her women’s mentorship program
-She observed how masculine we have become in our grieving process
-Grit and glory, and bypassing emotions
-Grief is a doorway to a deeper feminine journey that people have forgotten
-People forgot how to be a human
-Her husband’s friends and colleagues turned silent because they didn’t know what to say to Neelam
-She canceled the other programs that people had signed up before
-She became a conduit during the women’s mentorship program
-She didn’t hide her pain from her students
-Paul was the webmaster, creating the newsletter, Neelam was more the front end
-Plus they taught a lot of programs before
-She has to run the business full-time now and learn how to do what he did
-Divine masculine and divine and feminine, they are yang and yin
-Feminine, all of nature represents the feminine nature, retreat, recuperate, receptivity, creativity (birth), compassion, collaboration, nurturing, also like nature, ferocious, the dark night of the soul
-Masculine outgoing, expansion, growth, rational mind, cognitive mind, light, logic, taking action
-Shamanism is a spiritual practice that exists in all cultures of the world, it’s a way of life
-Commonalities in shamanistic principles is the same throughout the world is to live in harmony with nature, live from the heart
-The modern world violates the Earth, and disconnected us from our soul
-Pandemic taught that love, being there for each other, and basic necessities
-Her family doesn’t understand what the spiritual work that she does
-They understand she does some kind of teaching
-Vedic, Hinduism and shamanic way of living are the similar, though rituals might be different
-She worked in corporate, met her husband Paul a few years ago
-Confidence has been challenging, experienced bankruptcy, low turnout for workshops online and in person when over the years
-But she had a deep-rooted belief in her work and Paul’s
-She and Paul was a twin-flames, yet they still had their challenges
-Whenever they had challenges, they would work through their blocks about money
-They also did practical things of running a business in terms of marketing and sales
-She still has anxiety that she deals with when running a business
-Alignment with your purpose and your path, the rest of things in life fall into place
-The faith she has in herself remains strong despite current struggles of running her business alone now
-While making money is important, she has other measures of success that align with her values and who she is
-After her husband died, she was worried she would lose her audience, but again relied on her believing in herself
-She expressed her vulnerability during after Paul died, and found a lot of support from women online
-As an entrepreneur, we need our work to be seen
-Putting yourself in some kind of action no matter how small builds confidence

About Guest:
Neelam Nanvani
Neelam is an International Teacher, Guide and Shamanic Counselor whose voice represents the voice of the Collective You! She has risen from her own pain, abuse, and strife to Re-member, Re-claim and Re-discover her true potential and Power. Dedicated to sharing her knowledge and compassionate heart with others, she blends intuitive wisdom with solid understanding, creating a powerful, holistic approach, specializing in the areas of Spiritual & Emotional change in a Light, simple and effortless way.
[email protected]
www.shamanic-vision.com
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone you know that will love it!
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.
Produced by Sharmila Mali, Edited by Chris Jessup
47 min
November 16, 2021 Ex‘s, Premonitions, and Emotional Abuse--oh my!
TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of emotional abuse.
Life is funny, you just never know what you will uncover about yourself and other people. It was a beautiful sunny day, and I was giving Akashic Record readings at Starborn's Psychic Faire.
I checked my email during a break in between clients and lo and behold a strange email from an even stranger phone number. Turns out, it was from an ex.
I have not discussed this past relationship on the podcast because the trauma from that relationship doesn’t show up in my day-to-day and I am so far removed from that previous relationship. But what I realized after my self-Akashic Reading, was the trauma does come up when I watch that ex walk around the back of my building, confidently calling for my cats. This is why I never told him to leave on numerous occasions when I saw him through my kitchen window.
The sub-text is, it’s not really about the cats. Also, it’s about boundaries.
I decided to open the Akashic Records of Ancient Mother on a whim to ponder if I was being jaded after reading the note. I ended up receiving a beautiful healing from Ancient Mother and I uncovered that I was still traumatized from that emotionally abusive relationship.
I also discovered I experience auditory premonitions from this experience, which is a bonus!
Despite the topic, my energy is balanced and grounded, with just enough humor, a little bit of anger, and a lot of self-compassion.
If you are suffering from any type of abuse from a parent, friend or partner, please visit: www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources.
Thanks for listening.
Topics discussed:
-An ex sent me a text via email and I checked my email while I was in between clients at the Psychic Faire at Starborn Wellness and Healing
-Earlier that day while at home I thought I heard the ex make the whistling sound that he used to use when he would try to find Kashmir
-We used to live together in the home I currently live in
-I discuss the nature of the verbal and emotional abuse
-Since our break-up, he has trespassed numerous times whenever he is in the area to visit “his” cats
-I talk about why I never told him to leave when I saw him lurking around my building
-When I read the note he sent, it just seemed disingenuous
-I decided to access Ancient Mother’s Akashic Record
-I didn’t realize until the reading that I was traumatized from the emotional abuse and that’s why I didn’t want to talk to him
-I received healing from the reading by asking a particular question
-So many layers of releasing and healing the trauma from an emotionally abusive relationship

Resources mentioned:
www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources
Psychic Faire at Starborn Healing Wellness and Dance Center starbornhealing.com, IG: @starbornwellness FB: @starbornwellness
Claire Blanc, Channel, Intuitive healing, Mediumship, Space Clearing IG: @Claire_blanc_art
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
Sharmilamali.com
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone you know that will love it!
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

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29 min
November 08, 2021 What are the Akashic Records?
In this episode, I answer questions that my friends and brother wanted to know about the Akashic Records. I did the reading the day before I made the episode. The way I read my own Akashic Records is by writing it by hand or on a laptop. I don’t get information any other way. So I am reading the transcripts from the Akashic reading I gave myself the day before recording this episode.
However, when I do a reading for a client, I get information right away by hearing, feeling, being shown scenes, or words flashing before my eyes. I don't need a pen and paper, or a laptop.
I am a conscious channel for the Akashic Records, I keep my eyes open, and I am fully grounded and aware of what is happening, as opposed to closing my eyes to focus. This is how I was taught to read the Akashic Records.
Topics discussed:
-My process for reading the Akashic Records
-I learned how to do Akashic Readings for myself and for others from Cheryl Marlene
-Explaining how I did two different readings to ask questions to explain about the Akashic Records
-Opened my records to ask what is an Akashic Record
-My Akashic Record explains the human history of accessing information beyond the 5 senses
-My Akashic Records explain that it is the name given to the oracle of your soul, that you are accessing the origin of your soul
-My Akashic Records explain how language limits but they do the best they can to conceptualize
-I open the Founders of the Akashic Records
-I got the inspiration to open the Founders of the Akashic Records from my level 3 class with Cheryl Marlene
-Who/What are you is the question I asked The Founders of the Akashic Record
-They explain they are the energy, the consciousness of earth and its inhabitants
-They go into a lot more paradoxes
-I explain that when I did this reading the day before I was very overwhelmed by their answer and couldn’t comprehend
-What is beyond universal consciousness is what I asked the Founders and they answered in a very esoteric way that goes beyond my concept of universal consciousness
-They tell me to move forward with the questions because I was trying to wrap my head around that concept
-What is an Akashic Record I asked the Founders, the term “akashic record” is human language to help you grasp the concept and give it context
-When you get a reading, you are accessing it from who you are in that moment, it’s a dynamic, evolving just like a human
-They explain how it can differ from a card reading or other types of psychic readings based on where the non-Akashic Record reader is accessing the information
-This is due to where the reader is accessing the information from and they distinguish from a higher self to your soul’s point of origin
-Also these distinctions matter to people, because this is how humans process information
-They describe the type of reading that can happen during an Akashic Reading
-What is the purpose of an Akashic Reading? The Founders answer in logical ways and more personal to a recipient of an Akashic Reading
-They talk about how I was taught to give a reading and let me describe how my fears can come up when doing a reading for another person
-I gave an example of how I was doing a reading and I was afraid of telling the person the answer because of the nature of the question
-The person’s Akashic Record gave me a surprising answer
-How can the info be used for transformation? The Founders respond that it’s infinite and give some examples. They also say that a reading is always transformational.
-Do the guides ever decide if they can give you an answer? The Founders give a surprising answer
-How do you choose an Akashic Reader? The Founders answer any way that makes you feel comfortable and give other examples of how random humans can be with their logic.
-The Founders have a great sense of humor
-How can you prepare? Is it advisable to? The Founders respond that to be present and do what makes you feel comfortable to prepare and give examples, basically, there is no wrong or right way
-Is it better to be free of recreational substances and meds that make you drowsy/numb, they suggest that if you cannot be present then to not take those substances or wait until it wears off.
-I talk about how Cheryl in her guidelines for readers and clients, to be free of substances for 24 hours, so if you took some sort of recreational substance the night before, don’t do a reading and don’t get one.
-I talk about why I think that guideline is there
-Reading ends and I close out the episode
Resources mentioned:
Sharmila highly recommends Cheryl Marlene for a reading, and to learn how to open the Akashic Records. www.cherylmarlene.com
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
Sharmilamali.com
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone you know that will love it!
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.
Produced and Edited by Sharmila Mali

29 min
October 25, 2021 Jonita Dsouza on Self-trust and Womb Healing
Remember how 2020 started--new year, new hope? For this week’s guest, Jonita D’souza, it was filled with adventure. She and her husband sold their belongings, gave up their flat in England and started their travels.
Jonita sensed change was in the air, and followed that intuitive hit. Little did she know that the rona was also in the air. They got stuck in their first destination, India when the world started going into lockdown. Luckily, she was in a familiar setting with her husband, in her hometown in India. She kept her business going while making a new home in her childhood home.

Her take on self-trust and self-confidence gave me something to really think about. For Jonita, it was a drain of her lifeforce to build self-confidence, so she worked on building self-trust. She also talks about tapping into your womb space to fill yourself with energy and creativity. This was such a beautiful and much-needed convo right now…take a listen!
Jonita D’souza is a Feminine Lifestylist, an Author and Creatress of Exploring Femininity Ltd., assisting modern-day busy women who struggle with burn-out, overwhelm, and body love to reconnect with their feminine and sensual energy using the ancient Taoist and Tantric arts so that they can create a lifestyle that is fulfilling, nurturing and pleasurable.
She is also a certified Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Master Hypnotherapist and combines the teachings of Indian feminine mysticism and shamanism in her work, facilitating monthly moon circles, online workshops, and sacred feminine retreats.
Topics discussed:
-Pandemic pivots while she has been stuck in India
-Uncovering and realizing there is more to heal while she has been living in her old hometown
-The two main techniques she has used to get her through the pandemic and the huge transition she is still experiencing
-How she says people confuse confidence and self-trust
-Learning how to use her own energy, needing rest which helps her be more creative
-How she learned how to tap into her womb to build self-trust
-How she doesn’t always feel confident when leading a course or retreat
-How she trusts herself and feels more in the flow
-How she doesn’t mind making mistakes because it’s part of the process
-The importance for women to get in touch with their womb space to heal past traumas
-How healing those past traumas lead to more love, creativity, freedom and a more natural way of being
-How a healthy balance of masculine and feminine energy contributes to a woman’s life force
-Advice to learn to tune into your womb to find self-trust and self-love
-Offers a free 7-day course: https://mailchi.mp/exploringfemininity/sensualize-your-womb
Guest Contact:
Jonita D'souza: jonitadsouza.com FB: @exploringfemininity www.youtube.com/channel/UC6UoCyuUA5J8hWcLGc2yUow

About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, in case you didn’t know, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
Sharmilamali.com for more information about my work.
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
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Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

Produced by Sharmila Mali
Edited by Chris Jessup

34 min
October 18, 2021 LC Collins Psychic Tarot Reader and Straightforward Confidence
LC Collins said her Tarot Reader journey all started when walked into a metaphysical store for the first time when the Rider-Waite tarot deck called out to her. The love affair began. After college, she started her professional journey as a Tarot reader and has been reading ever since (over 25 years). I found her confidence solid and grounded just like her and we talk about very practical ways of developing your talents and confidence when reading the cards.
We also talk about her interesting childhood where she grew up in a very intellectual household with very open parents: her Mom was the family Medium, regularly helping their deceased family members and her Dad would train LC to move objects with her mind. Just your typical American fam.
She calls it Psychic Tarot because the cards are a way for her to tap into her intuition to receive information about her dear clients. And she has developed a level of accuracy based on some of the stories she talks about in our conversation.
Topics discussed:
-LC’s background with Tarot
-LC’s interesting childhood of ghosts and psychometry
-LC’s relationship with the Tarot cards
-Trusting what the cards give you
-What she means by being a “psychic” tarot reader
-Dealing with confidence and self-doubt when learning how to read the cards
-Being a pure channel and not filtering herself when it comes to Tarot reading
-Boundaries when working with clients
-Parting words of wisdom for budding Tarot readers and for healers
Contact the guest: LC Collins: VividLifeTarot.com IG:@VividLifeTarot
About the Hostess:
Sharmila Mali, is a Self-Love Expert, intuitive healer, Reiki Master Teacher, Akashic Records Reader (in addition to being a podcaster) and for the past 15 years or so, most of her clients have been women, who want to get over their ex. She also teaches intuitive energy healing and Reiki.
Sharmilamali.com
FB: @Intuitive-Consulting-with-Sharmila IG: @sharmila_the_self_love_expert
Support the Confident Healer:
-If you love the show, please leave me a review! www.theconfidenthealer.net/reviews/new
-DONATE, become a patron and donate one time or monthly, it's easy, www.theconfidenthealer.net/support
-Share the podcast with someone you know that will love it!
Intro and Outro Music: The Joker produced by Danya Vodovoz, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz2XCAr0rc0&list=PLq4r2IOXma9DSwR-JOVaCm3uqYrqwhV1x&index=26 Royalty Free Music.

Produced by Sharmila Mali
Edited by Chris Jessup
52 min

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