The Cosmic Crux Podcast — Show Notes

Episode 13: Full Moon in Scorpio — Death, Ego, and the Alchemy of GriefAirdate: May 12, 2025 | 12:56 PM EST | 22º ScorpioHost: Mar Alejandra (Mar and the Stars)Special Guest: V Wiley of Outside Rites

Episode OverviewWelcome to Episode 13 of The Cosmic Crux, where we talk astrology, no fluff (okay, maybe a little). This week, Mar explores the potent, transformative energy of the Full Moon in Scorpio.

This is a special episode not just because of the powerful lunation, but because it features the show’s very first guest: V Wiley, end-of-life doula, grief educator, and founder of Outside Rites. Together, Mar and V dive into the deep waters of Scorpio’s underworld, confronting topics many shy away from — death, ego dissolution, grief, and the emotional alchemy that comes with transformation.

Astrological BreakdownMar unpacks the key elements of this Full Moon:

Full Moon at 22º Scorpio, peaking May 12, 2025

Taurus-Scorpio axis themes: holding on vs. letting go, security vs. surrender

Uranus conjunct the Sun: shock, awakening, sudden emotional release

Fixed star Unukalhai (Alpha Serpentis): success, downfall, volatility, transformation

Sabian Symbol at 22º Scorpio: “Hunters shooting wild ducks” — addressing aggression, control, and internalized defenses

Mar’s takeaway: Stay grounded, stay honest, and allow what is ready to transform to do so.

Interview Highlights — With V Wiley

What it means to be a death doula and hold space for grief and dying

How “small deaths” — ego shedding, identity shifts — shape our daily lives

Understanding grief as love with nowhere to go, and how to hold both together

Grounding through the shocks and disruptions of loss, especially under Uranus influence

Shifting societal fear of death into a space of unconditional love

What collective lessons about death and agency are surfacing in today’s world

Mini Segment: Cosmic Ritual and IntegrationV’s suggested practices for navigating the Scorpio Full Moon:

Mirror and candle meditation — sitting with your reflection, facing shadow aspects

Silent meditation — creating space to sit with discomfort

Moral imagination exercise — imagining your final conversations and what truly matters

Full Moon Mini-ScopesA brief guide for each zodiac sign under this lunation:Aries: Power dynamics and trustTaurus: Relationship truths and intimacyGemini: Body wisdom and emotional detoxCancer: Passion, creativity, and vulnerabilityLeo: Healing the past and shifting rootsVirgo: Soul truth and meaningful closureLibra: Scarcity patterns and self-worthScorpio: Identity death and rebirthSagittarius: Karmic release and inner retreatCapricorn: Community, reciprocity, and supportAquarius: Realigning purpose and ambitionPisces: Spiritual shifts and evolving truth

Where to Find V WileyVisit Outside Rites Instagram: @outsiderites / Substack: https://substack.com/@corpseposeyogaExplore V’s offerings, workshops, and grief education resources

Stay Connected with Mar and The Cosmic CruxListen on Substack, Spotify, or Apple PodcastsSubscribe, leave a review, and share the episode if it resonatesDM or tag Mar to share how the Full Moon is unfolding for you

Remember: grief is not something to fix, it’s something to honor. Stay close to your truth, your tenderness, and your trust in the unseen. See you next time on The Cosmic Crux, where we decode the cosmos, one episode at a time.

Episode Eleven: Taurus Season 2025

Rooted in Reality, Growing Toward LiberationApril 19 – May 20, 2025

Welcome back to The Cosmic Crux, where we decode the cosmos—no fluff (okay, maybe just a little). I’m your host, Mar Alejandra of Mar and the Stars, and this episode is your energetic map for Taurus Season 2025—a moment of grounding, reckoning, and radical realignment.

This season invites us to slow down and tune in—but not to stay stuck. We’re building something that lasts. With the Sun squaring Mars and Pluto, then meeting Uranus, this isn’t just about comfort—it’s about revolution from the roots up. We’re redefining abundance, sovereignty, and stability in real time.

🌱 What to Expect This Episode:

The energetic reset that comes with Taurus season

Collective themes: from financial reform and sustainability to creative evolution and nervous system healing

A breakdown of 5 key transits shaping the month—including that Sun-Uranus conjunction

Horoscopes for every sign, plus Taurus Solar Return horoscopes by decan

Reflective prompts + grounding practices to anchor your growth

🔑 Key Astro Dates (All in PDT):

Apr 20 – Sun square Mars: Burnout or breakthrough? Create, don’t combust.

Apr 23 – Sun square Pluto: Power struggles surface. Choose transformation over control.

May 15 – Sun sextile North Node: Purpose whispers. Are you listening?

May 17 – Sun conjunct Uranus: Break the mold. Radical liberation is near.

May 20 – Sun sextile Saturn: Build what matters. Let your vision take root.

✨ How the Collective Feels It:

Taurus season stabilizes—but not without challenge. We’re being asked to release false security and co-create structures that actually support our souls. Expect tension around money, power, and creative freedom. As Uranus steps in mid-May, shake-ups lead to breakthroughs. This season says: if it’s not rooted in reality, it’s time to rethink it.

🔮 Horoscopes for All Signs:

♈ Aries:Anchor your energy into tangible goals. What sustains your fire? Rebuild your relationship with worth.

♉ Taurus:It’s your season of evolution. What’s outdated is ready to be shed. Lead with authenticity, not comfort.

Taurus Solar Return Decans:

Decan I (Apr 19–29): Lead boldly, but don't rush. Creative clarity emerges through grounded risk.

Decan II (Apr 30–May 9): You’re in deep transformation. Let go of control to access true power.

Decan III (May 10–20): You’re building a new timeline. Balance disruption with structure.

♊ Gemini:Silence is sacred. This season is for inner realignment and intuitive recalibration.

♋ Cancer:Seek out soul-nourishing communities. Influence grows when presence is intentional.

♌ Leo:It’s time to redefine success. Lead from the heart—not the hustle.

♍ Virgo:Old beliefs are crumbling—let new truths take root. Explore, expand, evolve.

♎ Libra:Examine your energetic exchanges—especially in love, sex, and money. Clarity is power.

♏ Scorpio:Relationships challenge and reshape you now. Growth may be tender—but it’s real.

♐ Sagittarius:It’s time to refine your routines. What supports your vitality? Prioritize systems that last.

♑ Capricorn:Pleasure is a form of productivity. Let joy, love, and creativity guide you.

♒ Aquarius:Emotional safety is your anchor. Rebuild from the inside out.

♓ Pisces:Your voice has impact. Speak truth—but don’t forget to listen. Clarity wants a container.

🧘‍♀️ Seasonal Affirmation:

“I am rooted in trust, aligned with purpose, and open to receiving the abundance already seeking me.”

💌 Connect with Mar:

What’s Taurus season awakening in you? How are you redefining stability?DM me, tag me, or share your reflections with #TheCosmicCrux.

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Episode Ten: Mars Enters Leo

The Fire Reignites — Lessons in Power, Purpose & Pride

Welcome back to The Cosmic Crux, where we talk astrology—no fluff (okay, maybe just a little). I’m your host, Mar Alejandra of Mar and the Stars, and in this episode, we’re tracking one of the most powerful returns of 2025: Mars re-entering Leo on April 18th.

This isn’t just a transit—it’s a return to center, a resurrection of creative fire after a long emotional detour. From bold beginnings last November to the shadowy depths of retrograde through Cancer, we’ve been asked to confront our relationship to visibility, purpose, and power. Now, the fire reignites—but this time, from the soul.

🔥 Inside This Episode:

Rewind + Reset: The Mars-in-Leo storyline that started in November 2024, went retrograde in December, and now reclaims momentum.

Lessons from the Fire: Why this isn’t about ego-driven leadership, but heart-centered expression.

Sign-by-Sign Epiphanies: Breakdowns by modality—fixed, cardinal, and mutable—including deep dives for Leo & Cancer placements.

Reflection Prompts: What does authentic power look like for you now? What’s no longer worth performing for?

✨ Key Takeaways for Each Sign:

Leo & Cancer (6°–29°)You’ve both been shaped by this fire—Leo, you’re learning to lead from resonance, not reaction. Cancer, your care now comes with discernment, not depletion.Epiphany: You’ve outgrown the old identity. Let your expression evolve.

Fixed Signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius)You've been asked to loosen your grip on control and embrace vulnerability, joy, and collaboration.Epiphany: Real power doesn’t isolate. It connects, creates, and radiates.

Cardinal Signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn)This retrograde paused your momentum—but it wasn’t punishment, it was preparation.Epiphany: Patience sharpened your precision. Now, move from clarity.

Mutable Signs (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces)You’ve been absorbing, adapting, and integrating. The inner signal is clear—it’s time to act.Epiphany: Intuition has sharpened. Now ground your vision in action.

🎙️ Quote of the Episode:

“Mars in Leo wants us to take up space—but not for show, for soul.”

💌 Let’s Connect

What shifted for you during Mars retrograde? And how are you feeling now that the fire’s back?DM me, tag me, or share your story with #TheCosmicCrux — I’m always listening.

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Episode Nine: Venus on the Move — Love Scopes for 2025

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Welcome back to The Cosmic Crux, where we talk astrology with zero fluff—okay, maybe just a sprinkle. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most requested topics of all time: love.

Whether you're partnered, single, or orbiting a cosmic situationship, Venus is the planet that brings the heart into focus. And with Venus stationing direct in Pisces on April 12, we’re entering a new chapter—one rooted in clarity, compassion, and deeper alignment.

This episode isn't just about romance. It's about creative expression, self-worth, and emotional truth. It’s about choosing connection that reflects who we are now—not who we used to be.

In this episode, we cover:

Why Venus governs more than just love stories

How to tell if you have a Morning Star or Evening Star Venus in your natal chart

A sign-by-sign breakdown of your 2025 Venus love scope

Insights for partnered folks, singles, and those focusing on self-love or creative work

How to work with Venus transits to align love, money, and artistic expression with your values

This isn’t a sugarcoated forecast—it’s a deep dive into how Venus is reshaping our collective relationship with beauty, intimacy, and embodiment.

Love and Creativity Forecasts for Every Sign: [4:36]

Aries: Rewriting the narrative of desire

Taurus: Anchoring into soulful stability

Gemini: Curiosity meets emotional intelligence

Cancer: Emotional depth becomes a superpower

Leo: From craving to co-creation

Virgo: Refining, rebuilding, reimagining love

Libra: Rediscovering balance in intimacy

Scorpio: Depth, surrender, and emotional sovereignty

Sagittarius: Seeking freedom and emotional truth

Capricorn: The architecture of devotion

Aquarius: Love as evolution

Pisces: The romance of rebirth

Listen for both your Sun and Rising sign for the most comprehensive insight.

Bonus insight: Morning Star vs. Evening Star Venus - [2:41]Do you know which Venus you carry in your chart?

Morning Star Venus is instinctual, expressive, and unafraid to follow her heart.

Evening Star Venus is reflective, wise, and leads with emotional depth.

Understanding your Venus phase can reveal how you navigate attraction, connection, and creative flow.

Closing Reflections: [22:24]As Venus turns direct, it’s not about rushing toward love or clinging to the past. This is a time to meet yourself fully and invite in relationships, art, and intimacy that feel aligned with your growth.

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