Love by Design

The cost of waiting and staying alone


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As I’m taking inspired action in my company (hosting a 3-part live video training starting September 22, hosting a virtual summit in January and publishing a book in March), I’m thinking how many of us smart, professional women approach our personal life differently.

When you’re so busy with work and life, it’s hard to find time and energy for dating and searching for the right man. 

When you haven’t been putting yourself out there for a while, it’s really  hard to say to yourself, “Okay, NOW is the time” and start dating again.

Am I right? 

When you find reasons (or excuses) to not take any action now, you aren’t taking any risks.

Sure, it’s easy, safe and comfortable to spend another Friday night (or every night!) alone on your favorite couch watching Netflix, reading a book or meeting with a friend.

But the problem with listening to these thoughts is that you aren’t just staying in the same place.

You’re actually getting into a worse place. 

There’s a huge hidden COST of waiting and staying alone when it comes to your ability to attract the high-quality man you want.

I explain exactly why, how it actually works and what you can do differently RIGHT NOW in this new episode #70 🎙️ “The cost of waiting and staying alone.”

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

  • The biggest illusion of most women who take long breaks from dating
  • The hidden cost of waiting and staying alone
  • What being unemployed has to do with not dating
  • The reason why women’s energy vibrations go down when they aren’t putting themselves out there
  • The truth about why women who haven’t dated for a while attract low-quality men
  • The proven way to start attracting high-quality men 
  • How to make a decision right now that will create a different future for your love life
  • The first step you can take right now towards finding the love of your life

Here are few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“The cold hard truth is that the longer you wait, the longer you stay alone and the harder it's going to be to find love.”

“The moment you decide what to do right now is going to determine what's going to happen in your future, because what you choose to do in this moment is going to determine what future you’ll be living into.”

“Choose to do something different right now—to say yes to yourself and to your future love life. When you choose that, when you declare it, you instantly create the possibility for this new future—and that's absolutely possible for you right now.”

“Be courageous, because there is no courage without fear; it’s already there. Fear is always going to be your worst adviser. So if you want to stay up, find that courage and strength inside of you to step into this new, different future where you have the most incredible loving relationship with your man.“

“The tragedy is that the longer women wait—when they hide—the less visible they are and the lower their energy vibration is, as opposed to when they finally decide to come out of hiding and become visible. It's all about being out there.”

Polina

Are you DONE with waiting and staying alone? If yes, I invite you to take that step right now. Join our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” where I give you the entire blueprint for how to elevate your energy, vibration, how to get started to step into this new and indifferent future.

I'll share my entire blueprint for how you too can get into an easy relationship and finally attract your ideal type of man.

Trust me, it's absolutely possible for you!

Click here to register now! 💕

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Love by DesignBy Polina Solda

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