In this episode of The Council of Dudes Podcast, Vinny Brusco sits down with Justin Carotti, LCSW, LADC, founder of Valiance Counseling for a grounded and honest conversation about discipline, fatherhood, and the internal work required to become a stronger, more grounded man.

Justin brings a rare blend of clinical expertise and real-world experience. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, his work centers on helping men navigate anxiety, addiction, identity, purpose, and emotional responsibility—areas many struggle with quietly. In this conversation, he shares insights from both the therapy room and his own life as a father and entrepreneur.

Together, they explore:

• Why discipline—not motivation—is the foundation of lasting change

• How fatherhood exposes blind spots and demands personal growth

• The importance of mental health support and emotional literacy for men • Addiction, avoidance, and the stories men tell themselves

• How accountability, integrity, and consistency shape a man's legacy

This episode is for men who know there's more required of them—and are willing to do the internal work to rise to that standard.

🎧 Listen in and reflect on the question every man must eventually face: Who am I becoming when no one's watching?

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