Nobody cares when men talk about their feelings and women haven't been taught how to deal with an emotional man. Men aren't taught or allowed to explore any other emotion than anger without compromising their masculinity, we celebrate strong boys by their ability to not cry.

In todays ritual of keeping your options open its no wonder that choosing someone to choose you is getting harder and harder. It feels like situationships are becoming the new relationship with heartbreak an accepted destination.

Does your past dictate your future or our are your future decisions based on your past? Sometimes we think history is repeating itself but all too often its us repeating history. Your past will remain your past if you let it.

We all know that part of being in a relationship involves sticking with it through times where things aren't necessarily going our way and working through difficulties. But how do you know when you have crossed the line into being taken advantage of?

Are we talking, texting and voice noting our partners so much that pillow talk has been erased? Is it possible to speak so much with your person throughout the day that at the end of the day you have nothing left to say?

Is the answer to our perfect future partner found in the qualities or failures or our ex's? When we meet someone new should we be comparing them to who has gone before? Is it even fair?

Everyone says that relationships are hard but what does that actually mean? Does it mean that we expect things to be easy once we found the right one or that we will simply expect that once we are happy all our troubles will fade away....

Relationships are all about you choosing someone and them choosing you especially when you are not in their presence. The way the world is promoting life as a series of options that you don't have to actually choose one is killing people connecting people.

Are people giving up on their relationship too easily? Are they running away from a test that would make them stronger?

How can we expect our partners to know something when we haven't told them in the first place?!