Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, talks about the creative and convincing excuses spouses use to let themselves off the hook in their marriages. Extracted from many years of working with couples, she elaborates on "the big ten" outrageous and often comical things partners say to each other, as code for not wanting to be held responsible. Anyone in a marriage or committed partnership will surely recognize the "game", and the "moves" played out in their own living room!