The Curious Spiritualist

What if confronting our deepest fears about death could actually bring us peace? Join me, Ashley Tome, as I navigate the emotional terrain of days two through four of my death doula training. Experience the transformative journey through intense exercises like cultivating the witness by looking in the mirror and engaging in a witness dance—initially daunting but ultimately liberating. We'll reflect on the subjective nature of life's meaning and how facing death head-on can alleviate anxiety. I also discuss practical end-of-life care tips, highlighting the serenity of natural death without forced hydration or excessive medication.

In this episode, we also tackle the weighty subjects of medical assisted suicide and end-of-life decisions. Delve into the ethical and emotional layers of these choices through poignant stories, including a retired doctor who opted to end his life by ceasing to eat and drink. Discover the critical importance of having a death plan and advanced care directives, and the emotional and legal complications that families face without them. I also share my excitement about an upcoming paranormal convention, highlighting the importance of community and meaningful conversations about end-of-life wishes. Tune in for an episode packed with insights, reflections, and practical advice that underscore the power of embracing life's final chapter.

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What would it mean to truly embrace death as part of life's journey? Join me, Ashley Tomes, on the Curious Spiritualist as I unpack an enlightening first day of death doula training with Olivia Barham from Sacred Crossings. Olivia's path to becoming a death midwife, influenced by her early experiences and the poignant passing of her mother, offers profound insights into redefining our relationship with death. Her alternative funeral home aims to bring the end-of-life process closer to home and family, aligning seamlessly with my shamanic practices.

This episode also introduces you to the remarkable group of women sharing this transformative experience with me. Through candid discussions and a moving somatic exercise, we explored our deepest fears and anxieties about death—from unfulfilled purposes to the dread of being a burden. Discover how these shared vulnerabilities not only fostered a strong sense of community but also set the stage for deeper personal growth and understanding. Tune in as I continue to process and reflect on these powerful sessions, and consider the ultimate question: What does it mean to truly accept the inevitability of death?


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Ever wondered what it takes to become a death doula? Join me, Ashley Tomes, in this deeply personal episode of the Curious Spiritualist, as I take you through my transformative journey into death doula training. From the haunting experiences that once terrified me to the profound spiritual awakening in 2011 that shifted my entire perspective, this episode is a raw and heartfelt exploration of my path to finding purpose. I'll share my reflections and insights from each day of the training, offering a rare glimpse into the emotional and spiritual challenges and triumphs involved in this unique calling.

You'll hear about the pivotal moments that guided me toward helping others, including my discovery of energy healing, reiki, and spiritual coaching. Influenced by the teachings of Samantha Fay and Deb Bowen from Psychic Teachers, I transformed my fear of the paranormal into a deep curiosity. Whether you're interested in the spiritual journey or just curious about becoming a death doula, this episode promises to be an enlightening and inspiring experience. Tune in to understand how embracing one's spiritual gifts can lead to a fulfilling and purposeful life.

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In this episode I read a few spooky stories I found on Reddit. 

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In this episode I share my scary experience with a perverted ghost. 

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In this episode, I share about myself, the future of this podcast, and the shamanic journey that started it all. 

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Check out this fun AI song I made. I'd allow my weird girl self to have some fun, and this is what I can up with!

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