Sophie shares her raw story of OnlyFans, desire, manipulation & self-worth—and how she reclaimed her voice and identity.

What really happens behind the screen on OnlyFans? In this powerful episode of 7 On Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby sit down with Sophie, who courageously shares her personal journey with OnlyFans, desire, and self-worth.

Sophie opens up about how a trusted relationship pulled her into creating content—and how quickly the promise of validation shifted into manipulation, emotional struggle, and self-doubt. Together, the conversation explores the hidden costs of OnlyFans, the role of codependency in relationships, and the difficult but empowering process of reclaiming your voice.

If you’ve ever wondered about the realities of OnlyFans, or if you’ve struggled with self-worth and identity in relationships, this episode is an eye-opening and deeply relatable listen.

Topics Discussed

• Sophie's Journey with OnlyFans: How a friend’s influence led her into OnlyFans and the unexpected impact it had on her self-image.

• Understanding Manipulation and Control: Identifying subtle signs of coercion and the toll they take on one’s sense of autonomy.

• The Fine Line Between Empowerment and Exploitation: How society markets empowerment and how it can sometimes be used as a tool for manipulation.

• Building Self-Worth: Insights into developing internal validation and boundaries, especially in relationships.

• Advice for Young Listeners: Recognizing the importance of gut instincts, self-reflection, and prioritizing personal values.

Resources Mentioned

• Codependent No More by Melody Beattie A foundational book on understanding codependency and building healthier relationships.

• Codependents Anonymous (CoDA) Website linkA free support group for those navigating codependent relationships.

• National Human Trafficking Hotline Website linkA resource for anyone needing information or support related to trafficking.

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning

01:02 Stephanie and Dr. Chez Introduce the Episode

02:38 Sophie's Story Begins

03:06 The Manipulative Relationship with Adam

05:00 The Emotional Toll of OnlyFans

09:11 Reflecting on the Experience

11:53 Understanding the Dynamics of Manipulation

13:08 The Realization of Trafficking

23:18 Advice for Young Girls

35:39 Reflecting on a Defeating Experience

35:53 Understanding Trauma Bonds

36:53 People Pleasing and Validation

40:31 Empowerment vs. Exploitation

42:01 The Reality of OnlyFans

48:16 Trusting Your Gut Instincts

55:17 Concluding Thoughts and Advice