The Dating Chronicles episodes:

• October 19, 2023Podcast #27: Is the concept of marriage outdated?

  • Kitty - marriage is restrictive
  • Kitty - the desire for old fashioned romance is still there
  • Kitty - cohabitating non-married couples are happier
  • Jason - I see marriage only as a way to conform to society
  • Kitty - I like the feeling of having an out
  • Kitty - clingy people love the idea of marriage
  • Kitty - Is age a factor to consider before marriage?
  • Jason - wisdom and learning to handle turbulence
  • Kitty - money arguments strain marriage
  • Kitty - Culpo marriage where she gives the man a one time cheat get out of jail free card
  • Jason - in open relationships, one partner can have disproportionate success
  • Kitty - jealousy is natural
  • Kitty - Kevin Costner divorce
  • Kitty - breakups can blindside you (come from nowhere)
  • Jason - how has marriages changed from the past compared to the present?
  • Jason - successful marriages fight through adversity
  • Kitty - Chonky cat simp

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• October 14, 2023Podcast #26: Personality compatibilities

  • Lack of compromise when people get older
  • Kitty - Crude Instagram DM
  • Jason - advertise yourself correctly
  • Do opposites attract?
  • Jason - opposites that are compromises (religion, politics)
  • Jason - certain areas opposites can be a benefit (extroverts)
  • Kitty - I would not date my twin
  • Kitty - I would date date my twin if we were similar in a "cool way"

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• October 10, 2023Podcast #25: Are women honest in dating? Social preservation

  • Kitty - women are dishonest to other women
  • Kitty - they say one thing and act on the opposite
  • Kitty - knows some gold diggers, but also knows some that want genuine qualities
  • Kitty - some women will date for reasons of spite
  • Jason - can girls establish friendships with fake girls?
  • Women don't like to show weakness. They like being boastful.
  • Jason - How should a girl respond when they are outed on a scandal?
  • Right to privacy

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• October 06, 2023Podcast #24: Passive Aggressiveness

  • Jason - Must assume rejection from radio silence
  • Kitty - Younger, didn't want to hurt someone's feelings
  • If you're pulling back, don't complain if someone matches your energy
  • Kitty - Annoyed by LA guy's flaky, non-interested behavior
  • Jason- Your words aren't credible after displaying weasely behavior
  • Kitty - Don't treat me like a 1 when I'm a 10
  • Jason - Illusion of options. Disposable people.
  • We don't take things personally after desensitization.
  • Jason - How is passive behavior a sign of relationship material? What if you had to be confronted during a relationship, will you act the same way?
  • Jason - Tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. Directness is the resolution.

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• October 02, 2023Podcast #26: Attachment and Detachment, Demisexuals Part 2

  Jason - A man who shows disinterest is a dead end

  Kitty - Dropping the axe swiftly

  Jason - Is there a double standard? Should a guy chase a disinterested girl?

  Kitty - If a girl can't follow through with plans, it's a dead end, they're playing games

  Jason - Asking for a masturbation video clip at an early stage is a red flag

  Kitty - Have to wonder about ulterior motives in guys

  Jason - How many guys will actually turn down sex/dates like that?

  Jason - Why would you pursue someone who doesn't see you as a top candidate?

  Kitty - I'm too good of a person for someone to treat me as less than a 10

  Kitty - Want to be valued like I was in the beginning. Waning interest is not acceptable.

  Jason - Double standard test. Should I as a guy expect a woman to show explicit interest in me?

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• September 28, 2023Podcast #23: Attachment and Detachment

  • What is a demisexual?
  • Kitty's explanation of the extra push that gets a woman attracted
  • Kitty on it's not about you, but them
  • Kitty's advice to detach yourself when they're not worth it Issues with coming on too strong
  • Jason's mistake on not knowing how to talk to women, inexperience or novice mistakes
  • Kitty's take on first impressions for women
  • Kitty - You can say all the right things and get rejected anyways for any reason

  • Jason - A man who shows disinterest is a dead end
  • Kitty - Dropping the axe swiftly
  • Jason - Is there a double standard?
  • Should a guy chase a disinterested girl?
  • Kitty - If a girl can't follow through with plans, it's a dead end, they're playing games
  • Jason - Asking for a masturbation video clip at an early stage is a red flag
  • Kitty - Have to wonder about ulterior motives in guys
  • Jason - How many guys will actually turn down sex/dates like that?
  • Jason - Why would you pursue someone who doesn't see you as a top candidate?
  • Kitty - I'm too good of a person for someone to treat me as less than a 10
  • Kitty - Want to be valued like I was in the beginning. Waning interest is not acceptable.
  • Jason - Double standard test. Should I as a guy expect a woman to show explicit interest in me?

  ...more

  

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• September 23, 2023Podcast #22 Aftershow: Sexual fetishes

  • Reddit post with a fetish chart
  • Going over various fetishes
  • Rapeplay segment
  • Fetish compatibility and boundaries

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• September 23, 2023Podcast #22: High interest vs low interest partners

  • Definition of high interest and low interest
  • Men who are initially high interest and drop to low interest
  • Kitty's romantic experiences who were hot and cold
  • Jason's dating app experiences with low interest women
  • Why you should not follow through with low interest women or men

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• September 20, 2023Podcast #21: Female gaze vs male gaze

  • What is physically attractive to women?
  • What is physically attractive to men?
  • Looksmaxxing
  • Does personality factor into physical attractiveness?
  • The body vs the face
  • Jason's breakdown of components of women that attract men and himself personally
  • People who have types or fetishes
  • The effect of makeup
  • The spectrum of archetypes (pretty boy, chad, hypermasculine) and vice versa (tom boy, girl next door, damsel)

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• September 13, 2023Podcast #22: Dating, up, down, or laterally part 2 (looks/leagues)

  Leagues in dating

  Men's inability to seek other qualities beyond looks

  Playing up your looks through self care and styling

  Weighing looks vs personality

  What value do men seek in women and vice versa

  Men using women and women's detective work to defend against it

  ...more

  

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